Are You A Gentleman?
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JR
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And there it is. Good post.
O'Bladerunner
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Im a Gentlemen to the utmost. Then, again...Im really not that nice of a guy like that...:lol:
Does that cancel each other out somehow?
*goes back to read whole thread*
Does that cancel each other out somehow?
*goes back to read whole thread*
chocalate_topaz
I wanna be your lover...
This is sad and very believeable. Definitely in line with the rest of your TSPN persona...
Men and women have certain expectations from each other since the beginning of relationships. But then again, remembering your topics...some levels of understanding have not reached you yet. Carryon...
How can you tell when you don't give her any chances?
Show her your gentlemanness...you'd be surprised how acts of kindness change people. Kind of like that smile and folks can't help but smile back at you thing...
POW! POW! You have not because you really expect not...Stop spewing that garbage! :lol: That kinda attitude will land with you the kind of woman ya'll love to complain about -- you know the ones with the stank attitudes who don't appreciate anything but love your wallets. And have ya'll sitting up looking like fools wondering where all the REAL GOOD, quality women?
:lol: Good one!
Brother was dumb, inconsiderate and Crit --->Deep six his azz. If he's like this during the getting to know you phase...you already know what comes behind is worse :smh:Not to criticize your friend, but brother was dumb on this one. It's Sunday night. You just meeting someone or just trying to take someone out, you make that an EARLY night for numerous reasons. First, hopefully, the young lady hass school or work to go to Monday monring. Second, if you think you got any shot at going back home with her for whatever, it's more likely to happen early than later ON SUNDAY. Third, if it was me Crit, knowing you have a son, I'm gonna respect that first and make sure you get home early. If nothing else, now you got the whole night to think about the type of guy I am
You obviously were tortured when you were young...
AMEN :clap:
He does...:lol:
It's implied in that humorous, great attitude, loves me to death, etc. You can't describe a good guy and women not implicitly assume he's already a gentleman.
Good manner never get old.
They'll be dancing with the 40 year old azz hole men who don't get that good manner don't go out of style. Should be a grand time! :tup:
POW!
:clap: Its some lameness and ugliness in here...:teleport:
Now this ^^ pretty much covers it.
I'll say after having read this thread, I just have to :smh:. Some basics are just not being taught/understood/enacted...and then folks are surprised they get shatty results cause they missed the basic fundamentals. If you never learn your ABCs, you won't learn to read. If you don't understand basic math, you will not be successful at algebra or calculus. If you can't get the fundamentals of social interactions down--->constant problems.
Like they said and I know to be true, good manners, gentlemanliness/ladylikeness behavior NEVER go out of style, get old, stale etc. They'll be talking about how great this person was LONG after you are out of their lives. You can't fugg them all and you surely don't want to end up without the "good" one cause YOU were the azz hole. :smh: Hoping y'all will try things differently and see what you get.
pbla
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Me being ole school..I definitely a gentleman..which means courtesy to anyone not nesscarily to the ladies.Civilized manners are in order. Some fellas think that you have to be a str8 out azzhole to women.Well you don't.Being a gentleman does not equate to being weak. Women can sense a man with backbone just by his persona,vibe and the way he talks. Never will forget what young lady said she wanted to some young guys...she said wanted MASCULINITY..a MANNLY MAN..not A THUG or JERKS.
Dr. Phreeze
It is I...Yes it is...
Right...:tup:
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
:tup:
CEE DOG
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Women are the biggest skimmers on earth. Fall in their trap and you will be scorned. Like the song says "Treat them like they wanna be treated". Ain't nothing funnier then seeing a cat hollering "My girl man, my wife man", then years later, "Man that broad took me for everything I had".......... The moral of the story you ask? When dealing with a woman, she will get hers. That's life. She is taught that at birth.........
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Oh hush!
I bet you're the main one on here whose woman got your nose (and wallet) WIDE open! :lol: Years from now, YOU 'gon be the husband who has your check deposited into HER (not joint) account, and you'll be the one getting an allowance for the week. Sap!
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CEE DOG
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Aye I am just trying to help these cats out. They spend to much time trying to prove they either being loved, or trying to figure out how not to get got by a woman. It is no possible. If you deal with a woman in life, you will get got. That is just the way it is. :lol: It amazes me how dumb some fellas are. They think that little, sweet innocent fine thing at home would never or has never gotten over on them. :shame: Wow!!! Can you believe them? :lol: Dumber than a box of rocks. :emlaugh:
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Speaking from experience, huh?
CEE DOG
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The difference is I already know who wins and who lost from the start.... After you :sperm: It's over:lol:
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
What's her name, Whipped, I mean, Cee? :emlaugh:
CEE DOG
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He who has :sperm: knows from experience. :emlaugh: I feel sorry for Ole Kenny Boy. He is going to be in trouble....
JR
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As expected from a fellow Charger Bruh!
PVSAX99
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How far are you willing to go in order to defend your woman's honor?
It's safe to say that the days of slapping a dude in the face with a handkerchief and challenging him to a duel at sunrise are long gone. But if somebody insults your lady's honor, as a gentleman, how far would you go to defend it?
It's safe to say that the days of slapping a dude in the face with a handkerchief and challenging him to a duel at sunrise are long gone. But if somebody insults your lady's honor, as a gentleman, how far would you go to defend it?
ToPdOg
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Ain't nothing wrong with being a gentleman, to a woman that deserves it. Unfortunately, there are many women out there that don't deserve a gentleman.
Most of my female friends say that most of their friends are male. When I ask them why, they say that they don't trust other women lol. They go on to say that other women are scheming, deceptive, like to play too many games, drama queens, etc. And then I see women that don't understand why some men have problems committing to a woman. Some men have problems committing to the a woman for the same reasons that causes these women to have mostly male friends. :lol:
There are good women out there that deserve a gentleman, but in this day and age, they can sometimes be difficult to find. Yeah, you can do these "acts of kindness" thinking they will change someone, but often times women say, "like me as I am or not at all."
I hold the door open for a woman (guys too if we're all walking in the same entrance/exit at the same time), offer to walk female coworkers to their car if it's dark outside, offer to carry something for her if I see that she's struggling to carry something heavy, etc.
Often times women make men jump through too many hoops before there is any kinda reciprocation. I too got passed over by being the nice guy when the woman wanted to be with the the macho thug bad boy type dude. Then they get mad and act surprised when the bad boy treated them bad. :lol: And I'm like, ain't that what you wanted? Then years later our paths would cross, and they be trying to cozy up to brotha acting all nice and shit. And I be like, you had your chance, and you threw it away, and I'm no longer interested in you like that.
Like it's been said before, you can be a nice guy and a gentleman without being weak. You can be confident without being arrogant and cocky. I heard this one a radio once. "95% of single women are looking for that 5% of good men." It's a man's market lol. It's too many willing women out there for a guy to have to jump through all kinds of hoops to impress a certain woman that may not appreciate it.
Most of my female friends say that most of their friends are male. When I ask them why, they say that they don't trust other women lol. They go on to say that other women are scheming, deceptive, like to play too many games, drama queens, etc. And then I see women that don't understand why some men have problems committing to a woman. Some men have problems committing to the a woman for the same reasons that causes these women to have mostly male friends. :lol:
There are good women out there that deserve a gentleman, but in this day and age, they can sometimes be difficult to find. Yeah, you can do these "acts of kindness" thinking they will change someone, but often times women say, "like me as I am or not at all."
I hold the door open for a woman (guys too if we're all walking in the same entrance/exit at the same time), offer to walk female coworkers to their car if it's dark outside, offer to carry something for her if I see that she's struggling to carry something heavy, etc.
Often times women make men jump through too many hoops before there is any kinda reciprocation. I too got passed over by being the nice guy when the woman wanted to be with the the macho thug bad boy type dude. Then they get mad and act surprised when the bad boy treated them bad. :lol: And I'm like, ain't that what you wanted? Then years later our paths would cross, and they be trying to cozy up to brotha acting all nice and shit. And I be like, you had your chance, and you threw it away, and I'm no longer interested in you like that.
Like it's been said before, you can be a nice guy and a gentleman without being weak. You can be confident without being arrogant and cocky. I heard this one a radio once. "95% of single women are looking for that 5% of good men." It's a man's market lol. It's too many willing women out there for a guy to have to jump through all kinds of hoops to impress a certain woman that may not appreciate it.
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SUJagFan
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That's why some men make them jump through hoops.
It's another one of life's choices: You can be the one jumping through hoops or the one making folks jump through hoops. Or you can sit out the game altogether. Either way, it's your choice. I guess we have to decide which role we want to play.
Good post though.
It's another one of life's choices: You can be the one jumping through hoops or the one making folks jump through hoops. Or you can sit out the game altogether. Either way, it's your choice. I guess we have to decide which role we want to play.
Good post though.
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Sure is. :smh: I hate that! :lol:
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
I'll sit it out if I have to and really don't mind. I ain't jumping through no hoops, and I ain't making the one I'm interested in jump through hoops either. Matter of fact, I ain't making the one I'm not interested in jump through hoops either, cause I'm not going to waste his time.
ToPdOg
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That's why some men make them jump through hoops.
It's another one of life's choices: You can be the one jumping through hoops or the one making folks jump through hoops. Or you can sit out the game altogether. Either way, it's your choice. I guess we have to decide which role we want to play.
Good post though.
Thanks man. I know we went at it in that other thread, but I found myself agreeing with a lot of what you said in this thread lol.
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