The Founder
Well-Known Member
Our race has been cursed for years...it goes back to slavery days. We hate each other...black men can't stand black women and vice versa...hell, look at the posts on here, fb and any other social media outlet. Look at all the interracial dating...all I ever here is how BAD black women are and why the black men date outside their race. We simply can't/don't get along; therefore, we can't remain in a relationship, let alone get married. Then once all that schitt hits the fan, the men usually bounce. Either they just DGAF anymore and figure it's less headache to just stay away from the kid(s) b/c that means they have to deal with the mama, or they're having baby mama drama and the kid(s) are being used as pawns. It's always an excuse and neither party ever wants to be held accountable...it's always the other person's fault. Let's play the blame game...yada, yada, yada! That's why we never accomplish anything, nor are we going anywhere as a race of people.
So...there you have it ct, right there in a nutshell for ya!
True. Very True. I tend to stay away from the threads dealing with so many men this...or why so many men that....I look at self- accountability and fixing myself to be better man. I wish I would have done this some years ago because I would not be in the position I am in.
I mean really...it's that "it's not me it's her/him" syndrome has to stop before a person can move forward.
Truth be told I can't imagine not being in the home with my children if I had some....for the simple fact that my father, and both grandfathers were in the home....I don't know anything else.