chocalate_topaz
I wanna be your lover...
Posed by another poster, so, Lots of theories...what do you think?
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Posed by another poster, so, Lots of theories...what do you think?
:tup: tellem BW. :lol:
What do you mean? Lack of sex from their partner, or wanting to have sex with other women (or men)? Or both?
It's true! If you can have sex without being married why get married to the person?
It's true! If you can have sex without being married why get married to the person? Some men are only looking for a sexual conquest and then they move on. Even if they have kids by the person they move to the next victim.
It's true! If you can have sex without being married why get married to the person? Some men are only looking for a sexual conquest and then they move on. Even if they have kids by the person they move to the next victim.
Black men aren't the only ones that are able to have sex without getting married...but the numbers appear to be higher in the Black Community where the black man is absent in the black family.
The lack of committment is the "issue" more-so than sex. for whatever reason it seems to take black men a much longer time to want to commit, in my opinion
I was reading a story in the NYT a few weeks about the revelation that 1 in 5 children are born out of wedlock.
And part of the story mentioned how there isn't an obligation anymore for women and men to stick together/marry after conceiving a child. The women interviewed in the piece said the stigma of being an unwed mom or single mom doesn't exist.
Many said they felt they don't need a man to help raise their children.
Lets keep it honest, yes there are dead beat dads, but no one tells the truth about the sistas who keep or run these dudes away. When you keep up mess 24 hours, 7 days a week, you some times have to pick up the pieces and keep it moving for the better out come. There are always three sides to every story, his story, her story and the truth!!!
Did you say 1 in 5 children? Man, you are making too much statistical sense. This is too deep for some folks to understand.
Takes us longer to get settled and secure in life.
If they're being raised by women, what is it that these women aren't teaching them?
Did you say 1 in 5 children? Man, you are making too much statistical sense. This is too deep for some folks to understand.
Did you say 1 in 5 children? Man, you are making too much statistical sense. This is too deep for some folks to understand.
Even from the standpoint of being in a committed/monogamous relationship (not so much marriage but dating) Black men drag their feet. In my opinion Black men are scared of committment as if you're going to miss out on something/someone else. :lol:
Not all non-Black men are settled and secure in life when they decide to get serious and date/marry.
What's so deep about it!? :lol: :noidea: