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Originally posted by Blacknbengal
Suge, are you turning soft on us?
Originally posted by Suge
Sonic.....both you and Beans kan take turns kissing the left side of my phat arse!
I'm only trying to give JSTUS ideas because I know she isn't like most of yal other trife arse broads!
P.S. - Sonic.....itmay not be Friday, but FU!
Originally posted by AAMU Big Dawg
I'm not sure what the weather is like where you are, but I'd fall for a picnic or cookout, some beer, and nice scenery. Say the beach, or on a mountain lookout.
Originally posted by Suge
Sonic.....both you and Beans kan take turns kissing the left side of my phat arse!
Originally posted by Suge
All yall did was try to give her a menu. JSTUS is from Bunkie, LA. Cooking won't be here problem. She was trying to get some atmosphere.
If you want to impress dude and make his mouth drop. Do the things for him, that if he did for you when he invites you to his home would make your mouth drop. Basically treat him like the woman. Wine and Dine his arse. Anytime a woman has flipped the script on me, it took me weeks to get my jaw off the floor.
Cooking the dinner is easy..........Seriously, buy his arse a single rose. Just one......attach a note saying what you just said about being so busy, etc. Then sit him down to a nice dinner. Tell him to wear a suit, and you dress up as well, like it is a dinner party. Have the plates(the good plates) ready when he arrives so that you can both sit down and enjoy your meal together. You should have some jazz flowing in the background. Maybe Najee's "Love Songs". Boney James is always kool. I've got some hella Miles Davis, Coltrane, Wynton, kenny G, and George Benson compilations myself. Then after dinner you should just sit and talk, maybe watch a movie, but make sure that if you watch a movie that the movie is somthing that you both have already seen, so that you won't mind starting a discussion if something takes place in the movie. I would suggest my staples : Boomerang, Love Jones, Best Man. The point to this evening is to talk, so make sure you have something to talk about. Movies and music are great conversation starters.
Now if you really want to go over the top. Give him a small gift at the end of the date. Maybe a copy of the music you listened to that night, or the movie you watched, or maybe even a new CD of some artist that you know he likes. For example, with me, a Miles Davis CD is always a perfect gift.
Originally posted by JSTUS
Oh Suge you're the greatest. I love the detailed suggestion.
UPDATE: I mailed him an invitation yesterday inviting him to a "Night of Serenity."
He has no idea I did that.
Was that a good move?
Originally posted by Suge
Good looking D.
I have to agree with what you and sonic said. I was under the impression that she was letting dude know that she was open to spending more time with him and the possibility of a relationship may be on the horizon. If you are just goig to hang out with him to let him know that you are interested, but return to your normal routine after the fact.....then I say hold off on the romance, the flowers, and the gifts.
There is nothing more crushing than to think that you and a woman are heading in a certain direction, only to have your train derailed when she tells you that she doesn't have time to enteratain a relationship. And even more so if he is a good brother, and not just out to hit it. I think that if you really like this dude, which I assume you do, but still aren't even remotely open to the idea of a relationship with playboy, then you should tone down the evening some. Just keep everything casual. He will understand and respect your honesty. He may not like it, but he will understand. And if dude is a quality brother, he will respect that and you even more.
Originally posted by D-NICE
All of the ideas are good ones, I really didn't see one bad idea, but those are ideas for someone special, not a first date. I understand you have good perception of men, but some of the ideas given are little strong, and may give dude the wrong impression if you're not seriously trying to be him with like that.
Even though you could be telling him that you want to date, but not seriously, if you follow some of the advice that was given, and you add your extra special gifts into the equation, that may send mixed signals.
NICE