Normal1875
A&M #1
I saw a video recently about why getting a marriage license is an invitation to the state getting all in your business. As some have said, you lose up to half of everything plus other things that are definitely not in the favor of the man.
The suggestion was to get a marriage contract drawn up. If a person doesn't live up to their end in the marriage, they lose _____ (whatever is agreed upon). At the rate this country is going, I can see that becoming a thing
I wanted kids even as few as 5 years ago. Now I just wanna work and sleep and get some tang without the constraints of a marriage lol. And as my frat suggested, we are getting close to the age where the women our age will have grown kids or kids close to heading to college so it's best to get with those type of women. He's right although more women my age (30-40) are not having kids or waiting until they are where they wanna be in their career (one of my good friends from Valley falls in that boat) so it's possible that I could land a childless woman but I'm probably have to leave Mississippi to do that
If you're a man over the age of 30.. trying to have kids by a woman thats 30-40 age range is kind of shaky... just say 25-36..a woman older than 36 aint trying to have kids imo
The comedian Donnell Rawlings was 43 and had his 1st kid by a 23 yr old woman cause he said he didn't want to be a stepdad especially with a grown stepson to take care of lol...Charlemagne,Yee, & Envy asked him on their show about the age gap and he said he didn't care cause majority women in their late 30s not having kids....Imo a 20 yr gap is too much but 12-15 is ok'd in black society today cause of celebs like jay z and beyonce etc...jay z almost 50 still having kids lol
if the woman was 25 & over they wouldnt have asked him imo cause for some reason any attractive black woman over the age of 25 will say "I'm old" & the consensus by others is that she is a "grown ass woman" that can get knocked up by a man in his 40s
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