A blessing for single American men


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luvdaboom said:
hey fukk u ole i write paragraphs trying to explain why these hoes aint shit, but im still lonely ass nicca!!!!!

lightskinned nikkas always trying to crack lol
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Ouch!!!

Nucca now you done went and hurt my lightskin feelings :bawling:

:lmao:
 
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ROYAL BLUE said:
Lol! Some folk don't know that, so I had to inform that I do more than look at beautiful women in that country. I'm actually taking my own dollars to help a poor family in that country. They don't have welfare, food stamps, housing allowance and etc. They don't even have running water.
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Well, that is commendable for you to assist the people in that manner. There should be more folks down for the cause.

But the thread did throw me for a loop a little bit. I mean, one day you are posting a plethora of bible verses and the next you are posting YouTube videos featuring scantily clad dressed, big boobed Latin women. LOL.

But it's nice to see a brotha expand their horizons, though.
 
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chocalate_topaz said:
What I'm noticing is that AA men don't offer their OWN women what they offer women of other races. Its hard to find an AA man that from the jump wants him AA wife to not work, stay at home and just cook and clean. Haven't seen that one too much.

He also doesn't seem to be able to treat, give, and voice as much positivity toward the AA woman. See, AA men will sit around telling an AA woman "No" before she gets the whole idea out, tell her that he don't want to go to the movies, let's watch bootleg, tell her she's uppity cause she likes to stay at the marriott, and won't hold hands or even admit he's her boyfriend, cause "I don't like PSA's. Ai'nt nobody got to know but you and me." Now, get with another race, and dude has all of a sudden found manners, telling his friends about staying at the Hilton Royale with his girl with the 800 thread count sheets, will walk hand in hand with his chick and wife her in less than a year. However, he never allowed his AA relationship to get to that point. Just sabotaging left and right.

But that's good. Go abroad. Since the AA male population is depleted (Y'all say despite the stats), its time women realized that maybe, just maybe AA men and women just can't make it anymore. Maybe it time to get with some AVAILABLE for them men, mentallly, physically and economically.
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And in your eyes, as an AA woman, something is very wrong with this picture right? So let me ask this...

Exactly what are they doing that AA women aren't? How are they bringing the proud "gentleman" out of that dude that the AA women can't seem to get to, even if their lives depended on it? If we could get to the bottom of that, then that MIGHT help solve our issue. Apparently they are doing SOMETHING over abroad that isn't being done here at home.

These days, if you tell an AA woman that she doesn't need to work and stay at home, they tend to feel as if we are trying to take their sacred independence away from them...and all hell breaks loose.

If you tell an AA woman that she needs to work, they tend to feel as we are trying to dictate their lives and every little facet of it....and at the same time, belittle the man's adequacy (as a man) and ability to maintain a home...and all hell breaks loose.

When you feel that you are in a lose/lose situation, you just don't want to deal with it. One thing AA women stress to us brothas is to learn to pick our battles. But then all hell breaks loose when that advice doesn't go the way they intend it to.
 
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they aren't doing anything differently. AA men perceive them differently from the jump as many things we are not used to is perceived as different/better. You AA woman can cook, clean, sex you all you want and AA men do just that, eat their cooking, relax in that clean environment, fukk the hell out of them...for years. Afterall, AA men aren't in a hurry for AA women. When she gets tired of the same show going nowhere, all of a sudden she's bytching, complaining and not cooking or cleaning like she used to then its--->other race. Now other race, you again, are wifing in less than a year and she's doing the same thing. BUT when she bytching and complains, actually HEAR her for some reason. I think its the "something other than me" is better syndrome.

And what are AA men doing that they can't get this grand treatment at home? :idea: I don't think you can get past what you are used to to see the individuality of each. Get in an argument, your mind immediately zooms to the "Angry Black Woman" thought. But maybe its just an argument and she likes to talk with her hands and head. :tup: You guys make the mountain then take the ropes away.
 
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chocalate_topaz said:
they aren't doing anything differently. AA men perceive them differently from the jump as many things we are not used to is perceived as different/better. You AA woman can cook, clean, sex you all you want and AA men do just that, eat their cooking, relax in that clean environment, fukk the hell out of them...for years. Afterall, AA men aren't in a hurry for AA women. When she gets tired of the same show going nowhere, all of a sudden she's bytching, complaining and not cooking or cleaning like she used to then its--->other race. Now other race, you again, are wifing in less than a year and she's doing the same thing. BUT when she bytching and complains, actually HEAR her for some reason. I think its the "something other than me" is better syndrome.

And what are AA men doing that they can't get this grand treatment at home? :idea: I don't think you can get past what you are used to to see the individuality of each. Get in an argument, your mind immediately zooms to the "Angry Black Woman" thought. But maybe its just an argument and she likes to talk with her hands and head. :tup: You guys make the mountain then take the ropes away.
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Maybe the reason we hear them is because they actually have something to gripe about, but when they gripe it's done in a respectful way and a resolution is quickly given. They're not disrespecting men by cussin out a father in front of his children, and callin him every name in the book. They don't violently put their hands on a man or provoke men to anger. If a man says that he doesn't like a meal, then they don't get an attitude and throw a fit, they ask how can I do it better papi. This is what I see happening out there.

Oh, and to answer your question earlier, my wife is an AA...my bad.
 
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chocalate_topaz said:
they aren't doing anything differently. AA men perceive them differently from the jump as many things we are not used to is perceived as different/better. You AA woman can cook, clean, sex you all you want and AA men do just that, eat their cooking, relax in that clean environment, fukk the hell out of them...for years. Afterall, AA men aren't in a hurry for AA women. When she gets tired of the same show going nowhere, all of a sudden she's bytching, complaining and not cooking or cleaning like she used to then its--->other race. Now other race, you again, are wifing in less than a year and she's doing the same thing. BUT when she bytching and complains, actually HEAR her for some reason. I think its the "something other than me" is better syndrome.

And what are AA men doing that they can't get this grand treatment at home? :idea: I don't think you can get past what you are used to to see the individuality of each. Get in an argument, your mind immediately zooms to the "Angry Black Woman" thought. But maybe its just an argument and she likes to talk with her hands and head. :tup: You guys make the mountain then take the ropes away.
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okay...if it's not something they are doing that yall aren't doing, then they must NOT be doing something that AA women are doing.

Cause the men are going foreign, and not complaining. Most sound ecstatic about the relationships they are in with the foreign lady friend.

Something is definitely up. Cause if AA women were doing the same things for/to their men, like foreign women are doing, this wouldn't be an issue.
 
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chocalate_topaz said:
they aren't doing anything differently. AA men perceive them differently from the jump as many things we are not used to is perceived as different/better. You AA woman can cook, clean, sex you all you want and AA men do just that, eat their cooking, relax in that clean environment, fukk the hell out of them...for years. Afterall, AA men aren't in a hurry for AA women. When she gets tired of the same show going nowhere, all of a sudden she's bytching, complaining and not cooking or cleaning like she used to then its--->other race. Now other race, you again, are wifing in less than a year and she's doing the same thing. BUT when she bytching and complains, actually HEAR her for some reason. I think its the "something other than me" is better syndrome.

And what are AA men doing that they can't get this grand treatment at home? :idea: I don't think you can get past what you are used to to see the individuality of each. Get in an argument, your mind immediately zooms to the "Angry Black Woman" thought. But maybe its just an argument and she likes to talk with her hands and head. :tup: You guys make the mountain then take the ropes away.
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And I'd like to add to CT by saying that most of the bruthas think that because we are independent, we don't want or need them, don't want to be bothered by them, but it's because THEY skipped out on us for the other race, skipped out on their kids, skipped out on their responsibility. That's why we are so strong, so ambitious, so self-serving......A LOT OF OUR AA MEN DROVE US TO THAT POINT!!!

Again, it's not entirely our fault AA men choose not to be with us. But if that's what the bruthas want, it's what they want. There are a few kings out there that will be happy to make us their queens.
 
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Tony said:
now you know y'all not into that anymore
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Can't speak for anyone but myself. I'm simple and don't require much, but I do want to spend time with the person I'm dating. I want him to be as into me as I am into him. Take me up to the mountains to see the beautiful foliage in the fall, or surprise me with a picnic in the country under a beautiful huge oak tree in the spring, or invite me over and throw some patties on the grill in the summer. I'd actually prefer this than going out.
 
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96lioness said:
Can't speak for anyone but myself. I'm simple and don't require much, but I do want to spend time with the person I'm dating. I want him to be as into me as I am into him. Take me up to the mountains to see the beautiful foliage in the fall, or surprise me with a picnic in the country under a beautiful huge oak tree in the spring, or invite me over and throw some patties on the grill in the summer. I'd actually prefer this than going out.
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from what I'm seeing
your type is becoming more and more rare
don't ever settle for less than what you TRULY want :tup:
 
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This is a very good thread and some great comments. Props in particular to RB and Tony!!!
 
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i have dated black women and latin women and i see the difference..but i cant turn my back on my sistas!

they're some good ones out there that know how to be submissive when need be and tone down all that attitude and bs lol

you get the good with the bad...just know what you have and govern yourself accordingly!
 
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96lioness said:
And I'd like to add to CT by saying that most of the bruthas think that because we are independent, we don't want or need them, don't want to be bothered by them, but it's because THEY skipped out on us for the other race, skipped out on their kids, skipped out on their responsibility. That's why we are so strong, so ambitious, so self-serving......A LOT OF OUR AA MEN DROVE US TO THAT POINT!!!

Again, it's not entirely our fault AA men choose not to be with us. But if that's what the bruthas want, it's what they want. There are a few kings out there that will be happy to make us their queens.
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I get so sick of hearing these same ol BS excuses from women. "Its men fault, men made me this way, men men men." And men dont THINK because AA women are independant that you dont need a man, AA women are the main ones constantly SAYING that such is the case. And honestly, from a PERSONAL standpoint non-American black women are a lot easier to deal with in terms of relationships and dating. Mainly because you dont have to worry about having TWO heads of the household.
 
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Ya'll men have clearly pointed out the black women's problems and why it's easy for ya'll to go to another race.

I'd LOVE to hear what ya'll (the men) think YOUR flaws are and what contributes to OUR problem of not getting along better? Please share those thoughts. I'm really interested in knowing.
 
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ain't gonna happen crit. They cant get that mirror past their ass to see the BS they are spouting from their mouths...

royal Blue, its illogical to believe that an ANY woman would promote or knowingly allow you to promote other race women over her own. Who does that? that's like saying you'd be cool with walking in and finding out your wife has a thread on how other races are better than the black man cause of all his failing, missteps, lack of discipline and hasn't learned to be a leader, per Tony. That doesn't make sense.
 
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Dang. Y'all angry women are up and at it early this morning.

Probably been tossing and turning all night. Mad.

:lol:
 
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SUJagFan said:
Dang. Y'all angry women are up and at it early this morning.

Probably been tossing and turning all night. Mad.

:lol:
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Exhibit 1 of what I said below

chocalate_topaz said:
Get in an argument, your mind immediately zooms to the "Angry Black Woman" thought. But maybe its just an argument and she likes to talk with her hands and head. :tup: You guys make the mountain then take the ropes away.
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