An Open Letter To The Black Women Who We Failed





Another "Across the Board Article" designed to continue to blame black men. He needs to come to my home and see how I treat my wife.like the Queen that she is. Moreover, he needs to witness how when I ask a black woman does she need any assistance before she can answer my son has grabbed the tire from her and taking it to her car.

He needs to ask how many black men still date their wives.

Articles like this contribute more to the problem than solving it. There are just as many screwed up black women as there are men but there is no accountability on EITHER side.
 
2kool said:
Where is the personal accountability among black women?
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There is none. No matter what it is WE (black men) are blamed for it. If we treat a woman nice, we are TOO nice. If we dog them out we are dogs.

CT by her own admittance has said that black women want bad boys. So how does the guy who has a clearance and working hard become this figure
 
The Founder said:
There is none. No matter what it is WE (black men) are blamed for it. If we treat a woman nice, we are TOO nice. If we dog them out we are dogs.

CT by her own admittance has said that black women want bad boys. So how does the guy who has a clearance and working hard become this figure
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Now if you gonna tell it, tell it all. WOMEN want bad boys WITH clearance AND working hard AND great manners/treatment in their soul!
 
Y'all funny...personal accountability? How many times have I asked/stated how black men don't pull their bruhs coat tails about their actions/behavior. HOw many times have I said the old "He can't do any more than she allows him to" mindset is bullshit? How many times have the guys on TSPN said, not my problem so I don't get involved. Yeah it's 50/50...but real convos are NOT being had to get to a better solution...just when you think you are making ground...Petty Pete/Betty will pull out one of those bullshit myths that touch a nerve...and back to square 1...

I think the article was a great read and has much validity.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Y'all funny...personal accountability? How many times have I asked/stated how black men don't pull their bruhs coat tails about their actions/behavior. HOw many times have I said the old "He can't do any more than she allows him to" mindset is bullshit? How many times have the guys on TSPN said, not my problem so I don't get involved. Yeah it's 50/50...but real convos are NOT being had to get to a better solution...just when you think you are making ground...Petty Pete/Betty will pull out one of those bullshit myths that touch a nerve...and back to square 1...

I think the article was a great read and has much validity.
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How many times do sisters pull each other's coat tail on some bullshit. I dislike one of my spouses relatives right now because of hr bullshit. I asked this heffa to get my wife's ring size(we were dating at the time) so that I can get an engagement ring. Well when I got it I sent her cousin the picture and told her when I was going to ask her. My wife started getting antsy and do you know this chick is going to tell my wife to break up with me.

Now I told when, where, and how...but this stanky ass wench told her to break up with me....GTFOH with that BS.

See a brother would have told his boy to sit tight and chill, especially if he knew something good was going to happen.

All my wife's relatives knew and to this day they are still pissed at her for telling my wife this. Furthermore, I realized that she was unhappy because her man was not doing her right. See women don't really want other women to be happy. They want women to be just as miserable.
 
The Founder said:
How many times do sisters pull each other's coat tail on some bullshit. I dislike one of my spouses relatives right now because of hr bullshit. I asked this heffa to get my wife's ring size(we were dating at the time) so that I can get an engagement ring. Well when I got it I sent her cousin the picture and told her when I was going to ask her. My wife started getting antsy and do you know this chick is going to tell my wife to break up with me.

Now I told when, where, and how...but this stanky ass wench told her to break up with me....GTFOH with that BS.

See a brother would have told his boy to sit tight and chill, especially if he knew something good was going to happen.

All my wife's relatives knew and to this day they are still pissed at her for telling my wife this. Furthermore, I realized that she was unhappy because her man was not doing her right. See women don't really want other women to be happy. They want women to be just as miserable.
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MAN!!! YOU being a Petty Pete! YO Ring drama don't equate to responsibility and accountability. That was her being petty and you being petty...work on yo analogies!!!
 
Besides...how she 'spose to know you good for her? You could be another Scoundrel with a Silver Tongue wasting another black woman's life...everything that glitters ain't gold
 
chocalate_topaz said:
MAN!!! YOU being a Petty Pete! YO Ring drama don't equate to responsibility and accountability. That was her being petty and you being petty...work on yo analogies!!!
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I was not being petty. LMAO!!!! She knew what I was trying to do but was back dooring the situation. Look yall women folk got issues. Sad part is yall know it and do nothing about it. Yall would see your girl doing the damn fool but do a praise dance celebrating her foolishness. Men...we see our boy doing the fool and we say "Man you need to stay over there with that mess."
 



The Founder said:
I was not being petty. LMAO!!!! She knew what I was trying to do but was back dooring the situation. Look yall women folk got issues. Sad part is yall know it and do nothing about it. Yall would see your girl doing the damn fool but do a praise dance celebrating her foolishness. Men...we see our boy doing the fool and we say "Man you need to stay over there with that mess."
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FYI: That is NOT a solution to get us to better...that's doing EXACTLY what I said y'all were doing ^^^^

And if women got issues, you can best bet a man is at the root of them...take a poll of women....
 
chocalate_topaz said:
FYI: That is NOT a solution to get us to better...that's doing EXACTLY what I said y'all were doing ^^^^

And if women got issues, you can best bet a man is at the root of them...take a poll of women....
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Women don't have a solution yall just finger point but hate to examine those three fingers pointing back...then you go dudes like this author who is writing this to get some puddin.
 
The Founder said:
Women don't have a solution yall just finger point but hate to examine those three fingers pointing back...then you go dudes like this author who is writing this to get some puddin.
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You have just put a branch on that tangent you went on behind the ring. NOBODY APPARENTLY has a solution...I told you ^^^ we need convos...**le sigh** and then you get Petty Pete AGAIN....Lawd, be with Found's wife...He crazy as a road lizard.....THAT'S what that cousin saw in you you still mad at...
 
TSU/BAMA said:
SMH!!!! Lord have mercy. LOL!!!! WOW!!!! Ok allow me to ask you this, if a man has issues....well, er, never mind, I already know your answer.
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ASK them...when you peel that onion, a naked man will be at the center of life issues for many women...for men...I don't know
 
chocalate_topaz said:
ASK them...when you peel that onion, a naked man will be at the center of life issues for many women...for men...I don't know
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No they won't....it's yall fellow women who keep opening their leggins....LOL....see yall blame men but yall know damn well this negro is with your fellow woman. LOL...but we the blame.
 
The Founder said:
No they won't....it's yall fellow women who keep opening their leggins....LOL....see yall blame men but yall know damn well this negro is with your fellow woman. LOL...but we the blame.
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don't the man know he with her fellow friend too and needs to wear a condom? BOTH phucked up on personal responsibility here. It's not HER's along...it's BOTH...You know your post are proving the hell out of my comments, right?
 
chocalate_topaz said:
don't the man know he with her fellow friend too and needs to wear a condom? BOTH phucked up on personal responsibility here. It's not HER's along...it's BOTH...You know your post are proving the hell out of my comments, right?
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Your post always prove our comments. See you trying to justify that men are at fault then trying to flip it at the same time by saying it's both...ultimately in your heart it's the man's fault. LOL
 
The Founder said:
Your post always prove our comments. See you trying to justify that men are at fault then trying to flip it at the same time by saying it's both...ultimately in your heart it's the man's fault. LOL
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see, I just be trying to show you men the errors of your ways.....unappreciative....
 
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