An Open Letter To The Black Women Who We Failed


Rated R Superstar said:
A man is admitting that he, and other men, have failed women and the response by men is to castigate women. This is no different than when white people get called out for white supremacy and respond by bringing up black-on-black crime.
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Who reprimanding women? The issue is each time a man writes an article like this he utilizes "across the board" examples to justify his opinion. What he does is greatly offends men who are doing what they are supposed to but become belittled because of a guy who lacks the moral courage to truly understand that this issue goes both ways.
 



The Founder said:
Who reprimanding women? The issue is each time a man writes an article like this he utilizes "across the board" examples to justify his opinion. What he does is greatly offends men who are doing what they are supposed to but become belittled because of a guy who lacks the moral courage to truly understand that this issue goes both ways.
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Ya'll sound like white people who say "not all of us are racist." Or the Blue Lives Matters folks who say, "not all cops are bad." The point of the critique is to hold us accountable for how we collectively treat women just like we demand white people be held accountable for racism and police accountable for killer cops.
 
Rated R Superstar said:
A man is admitting that he, and other men, have failed women and the response by men is to castigate women. This is no different than when white people get called out for white supremacy and respond by bringing up black-on-black crime.
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Only a misandrist equates personal responsibility to castigation!
 
Rated R Superstar said:
Ya'll sound like white people who say "not all of us are racist." Or the Blue Lives Matters folks who say, "not all cops are bad." The point of the critique is to hold us accountable for how we collectively treat women just like we demand white people be held accountable for racism and police accountable for killer cops.
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Man stop.....this author speaks as if there is not a man on this earth who is good. The smallest mistake a man makes against a woman will be held against him for LIFE!!!! Yet, there is a probability that there are a larger number women who take absolutely no personal accountability what so ever simply because they are a woman.

Take this example....it's ok for a woman to slap a man when she is angry per women.

My take from that is....you mean to tell me that women are so emotionally out of control that the only way to express themselves in anger it is to slap a man. Yet, let a man do it..

My take on life is simple....so goes women so goes the world.

Now think about that statement deeply before you respond: SO GOES WOMEN....SO GOES THE WORLD.
 
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Most men who become players or dog became that way from when some chick used him. Women are notorious for using the good guy as a transition dude until the thug or dog comes along or gets his so called act together. Then she dumps you quicker than you can turn your head and acts like she did nothing wrong....
 
CEE DOG said:
Most men who become players or dog became that way from when some chick used him. Women are notorious for using the good guy as a transition dude until the thug or dog comes along or gets his so called act together. Then she dumps you quicker than you can turn your head and acts like she did nothing wrong....
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Ahhh but when she gets older and than body starts drooping she tries to find that good guy who has moved on to a woman who appreciates him.
 
The Founder said:
Ahhh but when she gets older and than body starts drooping she tries to find that good guy who has moved on to a woman who appreciates him.
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I find these statement SO laughable...like men ain't drooping with balls hanging halfway to their knees. I keep telling y'all young women ain't looking for no older dudes...y'all got to put money in our faces to even consider you...

And those last 2 comments from you and Cee? See y'all keep tying our worth to our looks but then act like you don't and its a negative when we use those same looks to get what we want. Now who is really caught up? Men are CONFUSED!
 
The thing is you have to weed through their angle. You don't truly know whether you are the friend they are using or the dude they have an objective for. You can bet if a woman is friends with you or hang around you she has an alternative motive.
 
CT see I'm old now. I just go ahead and tell these young chicks up front what they need or what is it they are seeking. They just busy out laughing saying Mr.Cee you funny. Then it's well sense you ask will you blah blah blah. Lol

chocalate_topaz said:
I find these statement SO laughable...like men ain't drooping with balls hanging halfway to their knees. I keep telling y'all young women ain't looking for no older dudes...y'all got to put money in our faces to even consider you...

And those last 2 comments from you and Cee? See y'all keep tying our worth to our looks but then act like you don't and its a negative when we use those same looks to get what we want. Now who is really caught up? Men are CONFUSED!
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An for the record there are some young chicks who do like older men. Not all of them are after money either, but that is a factor in many cases. Lol

chocalate_topaz said:
I find these statement SO laughable...like men ain't drooping with balls hanging halfway to their knees. I keep telling y'all young women ain't looking for no older dudes...y'all got to put money in our faces to even consider you...

And those last 2 comments from you and Cee? See y'all keep tying our worth to our looks but then act like you don't and its a negative when we use those same looks to get what we want. Now who is really caught up? Men are CONFUSED!
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chocalate_topaz said:
I find these statement SO laughable...like men ain't drooping with balls hanging halfway to their knees. I keep telling y'all young women ain't looking for no older dudes...y'all got to put money in our faces to even consider you...

And those last 2 comments from you and Cee? See y'all keep tying our worth to our looks but then act like you don't and its a negative when we use those same looks to get what we want. Now who is really caught up? Men are CONFUSED!
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Men know they getting old. I follow a former coach's wife on instagram and she is at the club with her daughter. Yes she is still sexy but damn. LOL....

Also...i hate seeing old men trying to do young boy shit. I saw a old dude in skinny jeans once. SMH
 
The Founder said:
Men know they getting old. I follow a former coach's wife on instagram and she is at the club with her daughter. Yes she is still sexy but damn. LOL....

Also...i hate seeing old men trying to do young boy shit. I saw a old dude in skinny jeans once. SMH
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My dude said a gang related dude died last week and he was busy as heck as all the Old G's came in getting haircuts and stuff , said they had to do colors. He was like, they 50, talking about if this dude who died had sent them on a "mission", if they couldn't get a "deferment or exclusion", they would have carried out the order. I'm like, they willing to be 50 and doing drivebys? O_o. He said they were like, Yeah. I'm like they gangbanging at 50??
 
chocalate_topaz said:
My dude said a gang related dude died last week and he was busy as heck as all the Old G's came in getting haircuts and stuff , said they had to do colors. He was like, they 50, talking about if this dude who died had sent them on a "mission", if they couldn't get a "deferment or exclusion", they would have carried out the order. I'm like, they willing to be 50 and doing drivebys? o_O. He said they were like, Yeah. I'm like they gangbanging at 50??
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Dumbasses......

My wife and love going to concerts. we normally sit on the front row or close to it. Well we went to Lela James on the Savage Tour and this chick who was like 45 was like "When you have front row seats you get to have a meet and greet with artist. The we headed to the club. Yall going?"

My wife was like "Nope we going to Superior Steak House." The lady was like "Oh IHOP is better." Then she looked up Superior and was like "Yall must got money."

I'm thinking to myself....why is it folks have to be wealthy to enjoy life at a mature age.
 
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Organized crime groups don't stop . Those old mobsters still will knock you off at 70.....

chocalate_topaz said:
My dude said a gang related dude died last week and he was busy as heck as all the Old G's came in getting haircuts and stuff , said they had to do colors. He was like, they 50, talking about if this dude who died had sent them on a "mission", if they couldn't get a "deferment or exclusion", they would have carried out the order. I'm like, they willing to be 50 and doing drivebys? o_O. He said they were like, Yeah. I'm like they gangbanging at 50??
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The Founder said:
Yes.

See CeeDog women like dudes like this so that when they finally come to their senses they can blame men for wasting their time. Meanwhile, that good dude who was trying to holla at them has moved on and gotten married a BECKYwho appreciates him and all D sistas B mad.
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Lol. Man, I am 33 and it takes a lot to get me to the club. It has to be someone I am really close with bday and they got a section and I aint seen them in a while. Still I am giving them about 20 minutes and dipping. Since, I stopped drinking hard liqour, my patience with drunk people has plummeted.

I took my wife to Mardi Gras last week and she wanted to go on Bourban. We made it about 20 minutes.
 
Da Sleeper said:
See CeeDog women like dudes like this so that when they finally come to their senses they can blame men for wasting their time. Meanwhile, that good dude who was trying to holla at them has moved on and gotten married a BECKYwho appreciates him and all D sistas B mad.
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Founder, there your Trump slide is...I have said over and over, y'all dudes have proved my points. If that^^ ain't a dog whistle designed to hit them at the core...doesn't matter that only 8% of black married men marry outside their race...THIS was placed as a ha ha FU rationale....we gots to do better for US.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Founder, there your Trump slide is...I have said over and over, y'all dudes have proved my points. If that^^ ain't a dog whistle designed to hit them at the core...doesn't matter that only 8% of black married men marry outside their race...THIS was placed as a ha ha FU rationale....we gots to do better for US.
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Please, this wasn't no ha ha FU, this was a get yo shit together because I do have options. I love sister's and the darker the better. I love a deep dark chocolate sista. Hell, I was ready to riot when they replaced the first Aunt Viv on the Fresh Prince with that funny looking yella heifer. But I'm tired of these women over 35 with multiple kids still trying to figure it out and thinking they still the shit. Tell them you don't want their azzez wirh all kids and they say I'm the one who's fugged up. What part of the game is that? I work my ass off to get ahead and use my resources to raise a bunch of other dudes kids. I know this is not all black women but it's a bunch of their asses. Anyone who dates my kid's mom date her and her only.. My kids don't need Jack and she nor I expect anybody else to take care of them. It may be where I live, education level of minorities isn't all that high in Fort Worth.
 
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