Tigerpide
I agree with every single thing you posted in this thread but the following statement in your first post, IMO, really nails it down:
Three guys. Guy #1 is a cousin of mine, Guy #2 is from the old neighborhood and Guy #3 is an older homeboy.
Guy #1 is young. In fact he is a senior in high school. When he was a little boy he was bad as hell. I couldnt stand the little isht. One day one of his cousins told me that he was going to be gay. I was like "man, he's just a 3 yr old. Why are you saying that about him? He's so damn bad there is no way he'll be gay." Shortly afterwards I would see him and started noticing how feminine he was (just as his cousin had said). All of a sudden he was not only bad with but he was bad with the Blaine Edwards and Antoine Merriweahter patented "z" snap. LOL. That was then. I was hoping he was just feminine like that. Now, he is 17 yrs old and gay as a blade. Good news for you Southern people. You'll have his little sweet ass on your campus in the FALL.:flippy:
Guy #2 is not as young and I didnt meet him until he was like 10 yrs old. He was already sweet as a watermelon when I met him but I was told by his older brother that when his mom was pregnant with him she wanted a girl so bad that when he born she treated him like a girl so much that she groomed a sugarpop. He came out of the closet while a freshman in college although I always felt he had one cheek in and one cheek out of the the closet since the day I met him.
Guy #3 is older than I am and was a good high school athlete. He went to prison for some foolisness about 15 yrs ago and, according to the old schoolers, got turned out there. He has 4 kids but he and his wife did not reunite when he got out of prison. He lives alone and supposedly is a johnson lover. My sister told me that he sleeps with this married dude. I dont know for sure if that's true as I haven't seen it for myself but I believe her. He isn't at all the same macho guy I knew before. Friendly but sugarry.
In all, I think Guy #1 (cousin) born that way. Guy #2 (neighborhood friend) could have born that way but his rearing (no pun intended) sure as hell wasn't conducive to him ever being a straight male. Guy #3 (older homey), to me, has chosen his lifestyle. He got pummeled in the joint, enjoyed it or learned to enjoy it and now has chosen that lifestyle.
The bottom line for me is that I just dont feel you can pinpoint one thing that causes/helps determine people to be gay.
I agree with every single thing you posted in this thread but the following statement in your first post, IMO, really nails it down:
Tigerpride said:Also, there is probably not one right answer.
Three guys. Guy #1 is a cousin of mine, Guy #2 is from the old neighborhood and Guy #3 is an older homeboy.
Guy #1 is young. In fact he is a senior in high school. When he was a little boy he was bad as hell. I couldnt stand the little isht. One day one of his cousins told me that he was going to be gay. I was like "man, he's just a 3 yr old. Why are you saying that about him? He's so damn bad there is no way he'll be gay." Shortly afterwards I would see him and started noticing how feminine he was (just as his cousin had said). All of a sudden he was not only bad with but he was bad with the Blaine Edwards and Antoine Merriweahter patented "z" snap. LOL. That was then. I was hoping he was just feminine like that. Now, he is 17 yrs old and gay as a blade. Good news for you Southern people. You'll have his little sweet ass on your campus in the FALL.:flippy:
Guy #2 is not as young and I didnt meet him until he was like 10 yrs old. He was already sweet as a watermelon when I met him but I was told by his older brother that when his mom was pregnant with him she wanted a girl so bad that when he born she treated him like a girl so much that she groomed a sugarpop. He came out of the closet while a freshman in college although I always felt he had one cheek in and one cheek out of the the closet since the day I met him.
Guy #3 is older than I am and was a good high school athlete. He went to prison for some foolisness about 15 yrs ago and, according to the old schoolers, got turned out there. He has 4 kids but he and his wife did not reunite when he got out of prison. He lives alone and supposedly is a johnson lover. My sister told me that he sleeps with this married dude. I dont know for sure if that's true as I haven't seen it for myself but I believe her. He isn't at all the same macho guy I knew before. Friendly but sugarry.
In all, I think Guy #1 (cousin) born that way. Guy #2 (neighborhood friend) could have born that way but his rearing (no pun intended) sure as hell wasn't conducive to him ever being a straight male. Guy #3 (older homey), to me, has chosen his lifestyle. He got pummeled in the joint, enjoyed it or learned to enjoy it and now has chosen that lifestyle.
The bottom line for me is that I just dont feel you can pinpoint one thing that causes/helps determine people to be gay.