Funny some folks, such as yourself, degrade, devalue, deface, and downplay the efforts and successes of the many African American/Black people who DO embrace their brothers and sisters. Your very post proves that. I don't know what race/ethnicity you are, it makes no difference, but I notice how you often (very, very often) bring up A LOT of "stereotypical" scenarios of what you think is going with Black people or what's going on in the Black communities, but you hardly ever post all the positive and good that actually does go on with the Black family and in the Black community.
And I never referred to any Black person who "find degrees, certain jobs". I believe the word I used was "earned" when it came to degrees. Your use of the word "find" is additional proof of the degrading, devaluing, defacing, and downplaying of AA/Black efforts and successes. But if you are an African American/Black person, then I guess you yourself would be one of those Black people who don't embrace other Black people's success and achievements and advancements.
Lastly, bringing awareness to racism unwarrantedly and unjustifiably brought toward AA/Black people is not "mess", nor is it "crying victim". Nor are those who are victims of racism crybabies. And white folks should be doing more about it since they're the ones being racist and/or targeting racism toward Black people.