As a young alumni, I totally agree with you. It's about priorities. If a person really wants to give back they will. For example, why not give up eating out a few nights a month or make your coffee at home? That's easily a $50 gift. Now I'm a little late to the convo, but this was actually part of my dissertation research. In the findings, it didn't matter how much discretionary income a person had at the end of the month. The three key indicators of whether a person gave back to their alma mater was 1) Were they giving to another organization (i.e. tithing at church, etc.); 2) How often the institution asked them to give; and 3) How was their overall experience at their alma mater
Folks who didn't give back still had monthly discretionary income, they just claimed they were never asked to give and/or they had a bad experience. Of course the study was done at only two HBCUs, but still the idea that the primary reasons black people don't give is because we don't have the income is a bit short-sided. The problem is we don't make giving back a priority (im not talking about people who are living paycheck to paycheck). We tend to have a consumer mindset. Heck if black America was it's own country we would have the 15th largest economy based on our spending. So if we get out of the mindset of accumulating stuff that holds little to no value and defeat "selfism", we could give back to HBCUs and other pillars of the black community.