Marry Me


SUJagFan said:
I don't see anything wrong with it.

Three women have asked me to marry them. One bought rings.

I married one of them and the other two are far from desperate.

:noidea:
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I thought you said that only stupid people get married.
 



I don't think a woman should ask a man.

does it work? I'm sure it does, heyal men ask women all the time and those marriages end in divorces so maybe it should be switched around!! LOL
 
SUJagFan said:
Sick to your stomach? Why?
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Cause If I ain't asked her yet, it probably means that I aint ready to my stomach. However, I may really want to eventually marry her but just not at that moment, so I wouldn't want to say no but still...
 
ToPdOg said:
Nah, you didn't hurt my feelings at all. I've never been married, LOL!! Just giving you a dose of your own bullshit. :emlaugh:
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:retard:

You figured it out, huh? Man, y'all are so slow.

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jsupop33 said:
Cause If I ain't asked her yet, it probably means that I aint ready to my stomach. However, I may really want to eventually marry her but just not at that moment, so I wouldn't want to say no but still...
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Okay. That makes sense.
 
I don't think she should. My ex asked the parents and me, bought the rings and everything. I won't buy a ring or ask. He has to find and then show me he wants to spend his life with me. But that's just me. :D
 
chocalate_topaz said:
I don't think she should. My ex asked the parents and me, bought the rings and everything. I won't buy a ring or ask. He has to find and then show me he wants to spend his life with me. But that's just me. :D
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What does that prove?

To me, both parties need to be 100% committed to the marriage or it won't be successful anyway. Who asks shouldn't matter.

I think trying to make a man prove something to a woman is a meaningless exercise.

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A woman has a place. An that place is not to do a man's job. Ain't nothing worst than a woman not knowing her place.
 



CriTAUcal said:
As a man not knowing or not doing what it takes to be a real man.
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Well if the man is not knowing how to be a real man, doesn't that show a real woman that he is not for her? Wouldn't a woman with common sense and self respect for her self move on instead of chasing and hounding down a loser? Nall that would be like doing right.
 
jsupop33 said:
Cause If I ain't asked her yet, it probably means that I aint ready to my stomach. However, I may really want to eventually marry her but just not at that moment, so I wouldn't want to say no but still...
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basically.

I have a friend whose wife proposed to him...smh, if I hear that story one more time!! LMAO I'm like, "why did you say yes?"...he was like, "i couldn't say No...but I wasn't ready".

Got another friend went through the same thing...she didn't ask him but she basically pressured him asking him why they weren't married yet, etc. He asked her but a lot sooner than he wanted.

They are both still married...but constantly repeat those stories. LMAO
 
They both gone get a side piece eventually too. If a man doesn't get that last wild fling out, he will alwyas wonder shoulda, coulda until he see what it is. Just keeping it real. Seen it happen a million times.........
southsuburbs said:
basically.

I have a friend whose wife proposed to him...smh, if I hear that story one more time!! LMAO I'm like, "why did you say yes?"...he was like, "i couldn't say No...but I wasn't ready".

Got another friend went through the same thing...she didn't ask him but she basically pressured him asking him why they weren't married yet, etc. He asked her but a lot sooner than he wanted.

They are both still married...but constantly repeat those stories. LMAO
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when a MAN finds a WIFE he finds a good thing. A man is head of the house and head of the family. if the woman asks she basically asking to be head of the house and family.
 
CEE DOG said:
They both gone get a side piece eventually too. If a man doesn't get that last wild fling out, he will alwyas wonder shoulda, coulda until he see what it is. Just keeping it real. Seen it happen a million times.........
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Basically. Most men need to sow their royal oats..
 
I think when a male makes himself available to be asked, 10 times out of 10, he'll eventually be asked. As females get older, that biological clock tix coupled w/ the very thought of spending the remaining yrs of life w/ no male/husbandry lol :emlaugh:, that estrogen causes the desperation meter to rise uncontrollably. :D lol
 
Since folks are keeping it all tradional, Do the parents of the bride/wife still need to foot the bill for the wedding, well not all of it, but half???

Do ppl still go by this caveman rule
 
Bighead said:
Since folks are keeping it all tradional, Do the parents of the bride/wife still need to foot the bill for the wedding, well not all of it, but half???

Do ppl still go by this caveman rule
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Probably, IF it’s the daughter’s first marriage and
She’s young, just starting out
but for older women on their
2nd or more marriage. I’d say NOT.
Like for instance if I got married as a young dude I would
Be looking for all the help I could get.
But now as an established gentleman, I’d probably pay
For it all, unless she volunteered to help
 
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