Homosexuality 'Born' with it or 'Buck with it?


Maybe it?s the slow time of year in sports, but this topic has gone through the roof. To my surprise the dialog has been civil.

JSU Chad - They showed them on PBS and The Discovery Channel. The most publicized recent event was some penguins in some zoo or aquarium.
 
Olde Hornet said:
Maybe it?s the slow time of year in sports, but this topic has gone through the roof. To my surprise the dialog has been civil.

JSU Chad - They showed them on PBS and The Discovery Channel. The most publicized recent event was some penguins in some zoo or aquarium.
:eek:
 



Quite Frankly I get tired of the religious homosexual debate that's been hijacked by extreme right wing interpretations. The same ones that used the bible to condone slavery. The same people who try to qoute the bible run to the barber shop every week and gets haircuts. Isn't there a scripture forbidding a man cutting his hair? I'm not buying the religious argument against homosexuality. Been through this debate before. Before you throw scriptures at me be sure you have read 'all' of them and in context.
 
lil_j said:
Quite Frankly I get tired of the religious homosexual debate that's been hijacked by extreme right wing interpretations. The same ones that used the bible to condone slavery. The same people who try to qoute the bible run to the barber shop every week and gets haircuts. Isn't there a scripture forbidding a man cutting his hair? I'm not buying the religious argument against homosexuality. Been through this debate before. Before you throw scriptures at me be sure you have read 'all' of them and in context.

Good point.
 
lil_j said:
Quite Frankly I get tired of the religious homosexual debate that's been hijacked by extreme right wing interpretations. The same ones that used the bible to condone slavery. The same people who try to qoute the bible run to the barber shop every week and gets haircuts. Isn't there a scripture forbidding a man cutting his hair? I'm not buying the religious argument against homosexuality. Been through this debate before. Before you throw scriptures at me be sure you have read 'all' of them and in context.

Are you sure about any of what you have typed?

This is why one must study and show oneself approved to God, being a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth. If you know how to handle to Word of God correctly you have a much better understanding on what scripture teaches. Yes, and always in context. :nod2:
 
I know that this topic has a religious backdrop but what God says is not the answer to the question. The question is whether or not a person is born gay or if they chose the lifestyle. People are born with all kinds of defects, mental and physical. Why can't one be born with homosexual desires? I could say more but I really think that bringing religion into this is not answering the question. Going to God is what people feel is how to absolve it no matter how it came to be. The question at hand is HOW did it come to be? Again, let's not jump to the middle of the question.

To the person who mentioned not agreeing with his/her drug dealing/using cousins, this is a totally different issue because I GUARANTEE you that the drug dealer/user can point to HOW he became a drug dealer/user. Gays can't do that.

CriTauCal. I think you said that you know someone who married after being gay. Let me say this...you only know what goes on in half of your own household so you don't know what that man is doing. I hope that he/she has been healed but if he was able to overcome it, he needs to write a book becasue there are not many of him around.

Chad, you must not be from the country man? You have never seen gay animals? I grew up on a farm and :read:
 
lil_j said:
I'm impressed at the dialogue taking place in this forum. The world would be a better place if we all could sit down in earnest and talk about a host of things.


I am glad that we had this discussion too for MYSELF. I guess that when are not a part of a situation that you don't think much of it or see certain sides of it. I never would have imagined that in 2006 that people thought that gays chose to be gay. I have yet to read the other "gay" threads but when I get around to it, I think it will be an interesting read. It appears however that this dialogue has not changed the view of many but it would be interesting to see or know how many people's eyes were open to the problem.
 
Tigerpride said:
I am glad that we had this discussion too for MYSELF. I guess that when are not a part of a situation that you don't think much of it or see certain sides of it. I never would have imagined that in 2006 that people thought that gays chose to be gay. I have yet to read the other "gay" threads but when I get around to it, I think it will be an interesting read. It appears however that this dialogue has not changed the view of many but it would be interesting to see or know how many people's eyes were open to the problem.


I agree 100%
 
Tigerpride said:
CriTauCal. I think you said that you know someone who married after being gay. Let me say this...you only know what goes on in half of your own household so you don't know what that man is doing. I hope that he/she has been healed but if he was able to overcome it, he needs to write a book becasue there are not many of him around.


You don't know ME or the person I speak of. Not that it matters what you think or ASSume, but I know more than you think.
 
This is my $.02.

People do not choose to be gay. It's something they are born with. Like TP said, people are born with all sorts of "issues" (anger, addiction, phobia's, etc). I view homosexuality in the same light. Being a Christian, I believe that homosexuality can be conquered like any other issue but it's up to the individual.

If you look at drug addicts, they have are people with addictive personalities. That's why some people canuse drugs and not develop an addiction and some are addicted almost instantly. It's not the drug, it's the person. That's why people can be addicted to virtually anything.
 
Quite Frankly I get tired of the religious homosexual debate that's been hijacked by extreme right wing interpretations. The same ones that used the bible to condone slavery. The same people who try to qoute the bible run to the barber shop every week and gets haircuts. Isn't there a scripture forbidding a man cutting his hair? I'm not buying the religious argument against homosexuality. Been through this debate before. Before you throw scriptures at me be sure you have read 'all' of them and in context

what context is needed when u read that fire fell from heaven to destroy 2 cites b/c the men were evil and homosexuality was rampent? the Bible is pretty clear on the subject of homosexuality.
as for the other things you brought up, new thread.

I know that this topic has a religious backdrop but what God says is not the answer to the question. The question is whether or not a person is born gay or if they chose the lifestyle.

First, what God has to say on the topic is alway the answer. My answer to this is what does it matter whether your born gay or not? I mean, seriously, I understand that's the thread, but what does it matter? knowing the "whether or not" of this question doesn't get you anywhere. born gay or you chose the lifestyle, I'm still gonna say, brother/sister, I love you, but there is a better way. the only reason it would be important is if someone was looking to validate their behavior. "see, I was born this way, so that's makes it alright. It's who I am and why should I deny myself." again, as Christians we are called to deny ourselves, so whatever it is that seperates you from Christ, that is different from Him, you are to put aside. it doesn't matter if its nature or nuture b/c He doesn't care. men and women of faith must understand that sometimes the why is unimportant, b/c our responsibilities don't change....love them and share the gospel with them.

love them enough to tell them the truth. tell them the truth b/c you love them.
 
I understand fully what you are saying and I agree with you but AGAIN, that is not the topic. Love them all you want, they still gonna be gay whether they sleep with the opposite sex or not. Yes, they can forgo sex for the rest of their life or TRY to enjoy sex that is not natural to them but they will be gay until they die. Whether they forgo it or not is for a religious thread. This thread is about how they got that way.
 
major095 said:
the only reason it would be important is if someone was looking to validate their behavior. "see, I was born this way, so that's makes it alright. It's who I am and why should I deny myself." again, as Christians we are called to deny ourselves, so whatever it is that seperates you from Christ, that is different from Him, you are to put aside.

This is an interesting comment that has not yet been really pointed out. Some homosexuals feel the same others do in that "God does not make mistakes". They feel that since they were born that way, God intended for them to be that way; therefore, it is alright. I do tend to disagree but again, this is not intended to be a religious topic.
 
I have another angle on this issue.

What about hermaphrodites? They are real and they are born that way.

Do you believe they exist?
 
Tigerpride said:
I understand fully what you are saying and I agree with you but AGAIN, that is not the topic. Love them all you want, they still gonna be gay whether they sleep with the opposite sex or not. Yes, they can forgo sex for the rest of their life or TRY to enjoy sex that is not natural to them but they will be gay until they die. Whether they forgo it or not is for a religious thread. This thread is about how they got that way.

You need to see some testimonies from "former" gays to get a feel for what they have to say. I guess in the sense that an addict is always an addict then maybe a gay person is always gay but if you can overcome addiction you can overcome homosexuality, if you want to. That's the key phrase.
 



Quick observation. I noticed this conversation centered mainly around male homosexuality (as it almost always does). Why is that version of homosexuality always the issue that gets people up in arms? What's the consensus about female homosexuality?


ie.,

What 'chall think about two J-sette caliber chicks crawlin' on each other??? *watch this*
 
Olde Hornet said:
I have another angle on this issue.

What about hermaphrodites? They are real and they are born that way.

Do you believe they exist?

I KNOW hermaphrodites exist. Can I explain them. . . Well. . .

God don't make mistakes so I just have to leave it at that and 'Lend not to my own understanding'



Basically my way of saying. . . . ."I don't know what to say":spin:
 
HBCUs said:
Quick observation. I noticed this conversation centered mainly around male homosexuality (as it almost always does). Why is that version of homosexuality always the issue that gets people up in arms? What's the consensus about female homosexuality?


ie.,

What 'chall think about two J-sette caliber chicks crawlin' on each other??? *watch this*

In response to the theme of the thread, I say 'Buck Wit it'. Male as well as female persons practicing homosexuality do it by choice IMHO. Females are not excused even though our society views them as less 'threatning' or offensive. Our culture almost...boderline...semi. . .Kinda like. . . SUPPORTS the gay or bisexual women. It's promoted in advertising so much that generations to come may view female homosexual activity as 'acceptable' to some extent.
 
DonTiger said:
In response to the theme of the thread, I say 'Buck Wit it'. Male as well as female persons practicing homosexuality do it by choice IMHO. Females are not excused even though our society views them as less 'threatning' or offensive. Our culture almost...boderline...semi. . .Kinda like. . . SUPPORTS the gay or bisexual women. It's promoted in advertising so much that generations to come may view female homosexual activity as 'acceptable' to some extent.

Whether acceptable or not it will always exist and there is nothing we can do about it.
 
60 Minutes Transcript
The Science of Sexual Orientation
March 12, 2006

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(CBS)
There are few issues as hotly contested ? and as poorly understood ? as the question of what makes a person gay or straight. It's not only a political, social, and religious question but also a scientific question, one that might someday have an actual, provable answer. The handful of scientists who work in this under-funded and politically charged field will tell you: That answer is a long way off. But as Lesley Stahl reports, their efforts are already yielding tantalizing clues. One focus of their research is twins.


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The bedrooms of 9-year-old twins Adam and Jared couldn't be more different. Jared's room is decked out with camouflage, airplanes, and military toys, while Adam's room sports a pastel canopy, stuffed animals, and white horses. When Stahl came for a visit, Jared was eager to show her his GI Joe collection. "I have ones that say like Marine and SWAT. And then that's where I keep all the guns for 'em," he explained. Adam was also proud to show off his toys. "This is one of my dolls. Bratz baby," he said. Adam wears pinkish-purple nail polish, adorned with stars and diamonds. Asked if he went to school like that, Adam says, "Uh-huh. I just showed them my nails, and they were like, 'Why did you do that?'" Adam's behavior is called childhood gender nonconformity, meaning a child whose interests and behaviors are more typical of the opposite sex. Research shows that kids with extreme gender nonconformity usually grow up to be gay.

Danielle, Adam and Jared's mom, says she began to notice this difference in Adam when he was about 18 months old and began asking for a Barbie doll. Jared, meanwhile, was asking for fire trucks. Not that much has changed. Jared?s favorite game now is Battlefield 2, Special Forces. As for Adam, he says, "its called Neopets: The Darkest Faerie." Asked how he would describe himself to a stranger, Jared says, "I'm a kid who likes GI Joes and games and TV." "I would say like a girl," Adam replied to the same question. When asked why he thinks that is, Adam shrugged.

"To me, cases like that really scream out, 'Hey, it's not out there. It's in here.' There's no indication that this mother is prone to raise very feminine boys because his twin is not that way," says Michael Bailey, a psychology professor at Northwestern University and a leading researcher in the field of sexual orientation. Bailey says he doesn't think nurture is a plausible explanation.

Psychologists used to believe homosexuality was caused by nurture ? namely overbearing mothers and distant fathers ? but that theory has been disproved. Today, scientists are looking at genes, environment, brain structure and hormones. There is one area of consensus: that homosexuality involves more than just sexual behavior; it?s physiological.

Bailey and his colleagues set up a series of experiments in his lab at Northwestern University. In one study, researcher Gerulf Rieger videotaped gay and straight people sitting in a chair, talking. He then reduced them visually to silent black and white outlined figures and asked volunteers to see if they could tell gay from straight. The idea was to find out if certain stereotypes were real and observable.

Based on physical movement and gestures of the figures, more often than not, the volunteers in the study could tell a difference. "So, is the conclusion that gay people do in fact move differently?" Stahl asked Rieger. "Yeah, absolutely," he replied.

It's not true 100 percent of the time; it is true on average. The researchers also studied the way gay and straight people talk, and they found differences on average there too.


This research is controversial. Some say it is reinforcing stereotypes. But to Bailey, the stereotypes suggest there's a feminization of the brain in gay men, and masculinizing in lesbians. Ironically though, when it comes to their sex lives, he says gay and straight men actually have a lot in common. "Straight men tend to be shallow in terms of focusing on looks. Gay men are shallow, too. Straight men are more interested than straight women in having casual, uncommitted sex. Gay men are like that, too," says Bailey.

"One has the impression that gay men are much more inclined toward casual sex than straight men," Stahl said. "They're just more successful at it, because the people they're trying to have sex with are also interested in it," Bailey explained. "But don't you find this interesting that the one big area where gay men are more like straight men is in sex? I mean, that is?both amusing and odd," Stahl said.

"It suggests that whatever causes a man to be gay doesn't make him feminine in every respect. There must be different parts of the brain that can be feminize independently from each other," Bailey replied. But how and when does this feminizing occur? If the differences were already apparent in childhood, that would point to an early, perhaps even genetic origin ? and that's what Bailey and Rieger are testing in a new study using childhood home movies.

In the study, volunteers were asked to rate each child's femininity or masculinity. Stahl took the test and rated two girls highly feminine. When shown video of a toddler girl running a truck off of a table, Stahl observed, "She's really not girly. Isn't that interesting? She?s not girly."

She also observed differences in two boys, one of whom would grow up to be straight, while the other is now gay.

If you can spot a child's future sexual orientation before the child even knows he or she has one, doesn't that prove it's genetic? Studies have shown that homosexuality runs in families. So genes must be the answer. But then the researchers tell you identical twins can have different sexual orientations.

60 Minutes found identical twins Steve and Greg Lofts in New York. They had the same upbringing, have the same DNA ? and yet Greg is gay and Steve is straight.

When people meet the twins and find out one of them is gay, Greg says people have asked if he's sure, and how it can be. "Everyone is curious about that," he says. There were signs, even when they were little kids. Their mother told Stahl that Steve loved sports and the outdoors while Greg liked helping out in the kitchen. But it wasn't until high school that Steve became convinced Greg was gay. Asked if he said anything to his brother, Steve says, "I did actually. And I think the way I worded it was something like, 'You know, Greg, if you're gay, it's OK with me. And I'll still love you the same.' And he gave a very philosophical answer. He said something like, 'Well, I love the soul of a person and not the physical being.' And in my mind, I was like, 'Yep, he's gay.'" "I wasn't ready just yet," Greg added. Does this prove that it's not genetic?

"What it proves is it's not completely genetic. They have the same genes," says Bailey.

Asked if that brings us back to the mother and the father, Bailey says no.
"But that's environment," Stahl said. "That's environment. But that's not the only environment. There's also the environment that happens to us while we?re in the womb. And scientists are realizing that environment is much more important than we ever thought it was," Bailey explained.

A newborn rat pup in the lab of Dr. Marc Breedlove at Michigan State University, may, oddly enough, hold important clues to what happens in the womb. Dr. Breedlove says he can take a male rat and make it behave like a female for the rest of its life, and vice versa for a female, just by altering the hormones it's exposed to at birth. Because rats are born underdeveloped, that's roughly the same as altering a third-trimester human fetus in the womb. But first, he said, Stahl would need a crash course in rat sex.

Dr. Breedlove explained that male rats, including one he showed Stahl called "Romeo," would mount any rat that comes their way. In the mating process, the female performs something-called lordosis, where she lifts her head and rump. If Romeo goes after a male, Dr. Breedlove says the male will seem profoundly indifferent.

But Breedlove says he can change all that. He gave a female rat a single shot of the male sex hormone testosterone at birth. Now grown up, she will never perform lordosis. But a male rat did. He was castrated at birth, depriving him of testosterone. "So you created a gay rat?" Stahl asked. "I wouldn't say that these are gay rats. But I will say that these are genetic male rats who are showing much more feminine behavior," he explained. So the answer may be that it's not genes but hormones.

"That's exactly the question that we're all wondering. This business of testosterone has such a profound influence. Does that have some relevance to humans?" Breedlove said.
While biologists look at hormones for answers about human sexuality, other scientists are looking for patterns in statistics. And hard as this is to believe, they have found something they call "the older brother effect." "The more older brothers a man has, the greater that man's chance of being gay," says Bailey. Asked if that's true, Bailey says, "That is absolutely true." If this comes as a shock to you, you?re not alone. But it turns out; it?s one of the most solid findings in this field, demonstrated in study after study. And the numbers are significant: for every older brother a man has, his chances of being gay increase by one third. Older sisters make no difference, and there's no corresponding effect for lesbians. A first-born son has about a 2 percent chance of being gay, and the numbers rise from there. The theory is it happens in the womb.

"Somehow, the mother's body is remembering how many boys she's carried before," says Breedlove. "The favorite hypothesis is that the mother may be making antibodies when she sees a boy the first time, and then affect subsequent boys when she carries them in utero." "You mean, like she's carrying a foreign substance?" Stahl asked.

"And if you think about it, a woman who's carrying a son for the first time, she is carrying a foreign substance," Breedlove replied. "There are some proteins encoded on his Y chromosome that her body has never seen before and that her immune system would be expected to regard as 'invaders,'" he added.

It?s still not a proven theory and it gets even stranger.


"One of the things we've only found out lately is that older brothers affect a boy only if the boy is right-handed," Breedlove said. "If the boy is left-handed, if his brain is organized in a left-handed fashion, it doesn't matter how many older brothers he has, his probability of being gay is just like the rest of the population." You can give yourself a headache trying to apply all the theories to real people. Greg and Steve Lofts both are right-handed, and they do have an older brother, so maybe that's why Greg is gay. But they also have several gay relatives, which suggests it could be in the genes, except where does that leave Steve?

Adam and Jared, fraternal twins, have older brothers, but they're ambidextrous.

Then there's the question of how something in the womb could affect one twin but not the other. There are many more questions at this point than answers, but the scientists 60 Minutes spoke to are increasingly convinced that genes, hormones, or both ? that something is happening to determine sexual orientation before birth. Adam has come up with his own theory.

"I was supposed to be a girl in my mom's stomach. But my mom wished for all boys. So, I turned into a boy," Adam explained. Asked if he wished he were a girl, Adam nodded. "Do you think there was anything that you could have done that would have changed Adam?" Stahl asked Adam and Jared's mom Danielle. "I could have changed Adam on the outside to where he would have showed me the macho boy that I would want as a boy. But that would not change who he is inside. And I think that would have damaged him a lot more," she said. Stahl asked both boys if they are proud of the way they are, and both boys gave her big nods. "Yup," Adam replied.
 
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