Dating vs Relationship


southsuburbs said:
Michael Baisden show?!?!

If so...I heard the mother that called in and said her daughter would not be dating until she graduated from high school. I was like, "poor baby...will have no social skills and will not know how to interact with boys"!:shame:
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You forgot one other thing! Will be the whore of the school and fock everything walking! :nod:
 
Tony said:
I would like to read your views
on this topic.
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Tony, I'm an old school chick. All this new school lingo has me confused. When did dating someone involve going out with other people also. :xeye: How can you get involved in a relationship without dating first and how can you date if you are dating several people at one time?

This new school dating vs relationship stuff is confusing to me. I'm going to stick to my old school dating ways. :lmao:
 



kellis said:
Tony, I'm an old school chick. All this new school lingo has me confused. When did dating someone involve going out with other people also. :xeye: How can you get involved in a relationship without dating first and how can you date if you are dating several people at one time?

This new school dating vs relationship stuff is confusing to me. I'm going to stick to my old school dating ways. :lmao:
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This is a good example of why you should really get to know someone,
Before creating an understanding of them.
I would have never expected this kind of post
Coming from you, with the limited amount of knowledge I have of your person.
Did you grow up around your grandmother any?
 
Tony said:
This is a good example of why you should really get to know someone,
Before creating an understanding of them.
I would have never expected this kind of post
Coming from you, with the limited amount of knowledge I have of your person.
Did you grow up around your grandmother any?
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:retard: My grandmother and my mother RAISED me....I'm just an old country girl raised in the delta in MS....but what does that have to do with anything? It takes common sense to know what you want in a relationship/dating. I know how I AM and I know what works FOR ME and what DOESN'T work for me is this NEW SCHOOL dating/relationship jargon. :tup:
 
For me dating is like the first round of interviewing. I'm looking to see if we have chemistry, similar interests, etc. At that point there could be multiple people you're dating and I let people know that up front. After dating for a while you go to the second round which is a relationship. A relationship is an agreement. As long as both people agree to the terms, they're good. For me a relationship involves being monogamous and not dating anyone else. The whole point of a relationship for ME is deciding if this person is marriage potential. I'm not trying to be in a relationship for 10 yrs w/o getting married.
 
kellis said:
:retard: My grandmother and my mother RAISED me....I'm just an old country girl raised in the delta in MS....but what does that have to do with anything? It takes common sense to know what you want in a relationship/dating. I know how I AM and I know what works FOR ME and what DOESN'T work for me is this NEW SCHOOL dating/relationship jargon. :tup:
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I knew it, I knew it, I knew it!!!!
& I agree with you
Even outlaws in the old west had a certain code they lived by.

The basic truths of life remain the same no matter what
Colorful names we come up with or what the calendar says.

A man will play with what he likes, but
He will commit and cherish what he loves if it’s
Coupled with what he can trust.
 
I think dating is just a made up term. I think it should really be called socializing. For instance, I have many female friends who are married that I sometimes meet out at the bar or lunch. We never, ever mention anything sexual or stuff like that. We just are friends. Folks think that something is wrong with that. If you have communication skills you can be around anyone. I think the problem is folks are all into just laying up with each other now. That's why they can't be cool with the opposite sex. Just because we hang out don't mean I want you in the sack.
 
Tony said:
The basic truths of life remain the same no matter what
Colorful names we come up with or what the calendar says.

A man will play with what he likes, but
He will commit and cherish what he loves if it’s
Coupled with what he can trust.
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:lecture: :lecture:
 
Tony said:
I knew it, I knew it, I knew it!!!!
& I agree with you
Even outlaws in the old west had a certain code they lived by.

The basic truths of life remain the same no matter what
Colorful names we come up with or what the calendar says.

A man will play with what he likes, but
He will commit and cherish what he loves if it’s
Coupled with what he can trust.
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So you only talk or hang with women you wanna screw? :retard:
 
CEE DOG said:
I think dating is just a made up term. I think it should really be called socializing. For instance, I have many female friends who are married that I sometimes meet out at the bar or lunch. We never, ever mention anything sexual or stuff like that. We just are friends. Folks think that something is wrong with that. If you have communication skills you can be around anyone. I think the problem is folks are all into just laying up with each other now. That's why they can't be cool with the opposite sex. Just because we hang out don't mean I want you in the sack.
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The percentage of men who can hang out with a woman without trying to get her in bed is very small. Some women have made it so easy for men that they assume that's what most women want these days.
 
kellis said:
The percentage of men who can hang out with a woman without trying to get her in bed is very small. Some women have made it so easy for men that they assume that's what most women want these days.
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so what do most women want these days?
 
kellis said:
The percentage of men who can hang out with a woman without trying to get her in bed is very small. Some women have made it so easy for men that they assume that's what most women want these days.
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Believe me I understand where you coming from. I have learned that those are guys who realistically ain't use to getting sex. If a man is use to it, he could be around Halle Berry and not try to sex her. A man who is use to women doesn't have to try and sex everything that moves. One thing about me an my crew from the yard, it is about 30 of us who have been hanging for 21 years . We have females part of our crew also, and we don't cross those lines. I guess we are use to it. I do know plenty of guys though who can't understand why we have never tried to hit our girls. We tell them in a heart beat, we use to women, we don't have to try and hit every thang that moves.
 
CriTAUcal said:
I agree, esp. parts in red.

Just like open relationships don't have to mean that you're sexing everyone you're dating. It means you have options or free to have options and be open/honest about it with the person(s) you're seeing. That's why I don't see anything wrong with open relationships, because I have way more respect for someone who wants the benefits of a relationship but also wants to see other people, than someone who claims they want to see a person exclusively yet secretly sleeping with other people.
Just be up front 'bout yours and what you want, because I just may want what you want.
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I think people don't have communication skills any more. You know just like in college when a dude could have a cool female friend who he never slept with. This might have been his home girl or something. you know dude would look at your car when something was wrong or yall would sit in the cafe and talk or at the games or something. This internet and cell phone stuff has killed the communication of folks. No interaction is not a good thing.
 
CEE DOG said:
I think people don't have communication skills any more. You know just like in college when a dude could have a cool female friend who he never slept with. This might have been his home girl or something. you know dude would look at your car when something was wrong or yall would sit in the cafe and talk or at the games or something. This internet and cell phone stuff has killed the communication of folks. No interaction is not a good thing.
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You hit the nail on the head for the most part.
 



CEE DOG said:
I think people don't have communication skills any more. You know just like in college when a dude could have a cool female friend who he never slept with. This might have been his home girl or something. you know dude would look at your car when something was wrong or yall would sit in the cafe and talk or at the games or something. This internet and cell phone stuff has killed the communication of folks. No interaction is not a good thing.
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Communication is definitely the key...that's the first thing I said in my post. Folks need to learn how to say what they want and don't want.
 
CEE DOG said:
I think people don't have communication skills any more. You know just like in college when a dude could have a cool female friend who he never slept with. This might have been his home girl or something. you know dude would look at your car when something was wrong or yall would sit in the cafe and talk or at the games or something. This internet and cell phone stuff has killed the communication of folks. No interaction is not a good thing.
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yep.
 
Warndalyn said:
All people need to do is communicate what they want and stop playing so many games. If adults would just act like grown folks, all this confusion would go away. No need to be confused...either you're dating (keeping your options open) or you're in an exclusive, monogamous relationship.
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it's society now...marriage used to be the "ultimate ending" but people now are seeking a reversal and being single in your 40s, etc. is considered "cool"

You got the "cougar" concept now

You get folks divorcing long-time wives in their 40s and 50s to date younger

Some get married to validate their place in society, have a kid and then end it so they don't have to do it again as they never wanted to do it in the first place

Some achieve a different social and financial status later in life, receive power and fame they never had. People follow them now so they prefer to start anew and will enter affairs or dump the spouse a result to take advantage of their position

Women now have a bigger place in the workforce and can achieve status just as much as a man now....they're pickier than ever like alot of men so you're going to have tons of single folks now looking for something..

hope folks read this....if not....I guess it wasn't worth writing :emlaugh:
 
the band fan said:
Some get married to validate their place in society, have a kid and then end it so they don't have to do it again as <b>they never wanted to do it in the first place</b> :read:

Some achieve a different social and financial status later in life, receive power and fame they never had. People follow them now so they prefer to start anew and will enter affairs or dump the spouse a result to take advantage of their position

Women now have a bigger place in the workforce and can achieve status just as much as a man now....they're pickier than ever like alot of men so you're going to have tons of single folks now looking for something..
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Well... :read:
 
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