Can married men be friends with single ladies?


cat daddy said:
DSN all relationships don't revolve around sex. Everyone is not that shallow bruh.

Yet to answer the question: Yes married men can be friends with single ladies. Yet, can married men and women be friends with someone they used to fugg?

That is fine and understandable but why do most relationships end? Money and infidelity and I must tell you many people cannot and will not accept their spouse having a relationship with a person they used to fuggg.
 



J4J said:
That is a good one...but I think this is the one I'm trying to recall....I will find the one...
Mark 6:11 (New International Version)
New International Version (NIV)


11And if any place will not welcome you or listen to you, shake the dust off your feet when you leave, as a testimony against them."

And now for a look at the context for that verse.

Mark 6:1-13 NIV
6:1 Jesus left there and went to his hometown, accompanied by his disciples. 2 When the Sabbath came, he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were amazed. "Where did this man get these things?" they asked. "What's this wisdom that has been given him, that he even does miracles! 3 Isn't this the carpenter? Isn't this Mary's son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren't his sisters here with us?" And they took offense at him. 4 Jesus said to them, "Only in his hometown, among his relatives and in his own house is a prophet without honor." 5 He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. 6 And he was amazed at their lack of faith. Then Jesus went around teaching from village to village. 7 Calling the Twelve to him, he sent them out two by two and gave them authority over evil spirits. 8 These were his instructions: "Take nothing for the journey except a staff-no bread, no bag, no money in your belts. 9 Wear sandals but not an extra tunic. 10 Whenever you enter a house, stay there until you leave that town. 11 And if any place will not welcome you or listen to you, shake the dust off your feet when you leave, as a testimony against them." 12 They went out and preached that people should repent. 13 They drove out many demons and anointed many sick people with oil and healed them.

So...when you MINISTER TO your mother-in-law (or father-in-law or any other person) about the discomfitting of holding on to your spouse and she refuses to receive it, then shaking the dust from yourself would be appropriate. Continue to love her and extend to care for her...and get in your place where you belong beside your spouse so the two of you can walk together.
 
Dr. Sweet NUPE said:
It's as simple as this....if you used to fuggg...then it's a no no...what do you have to say that's so important....if the person wanted your ARSE they would be married to you....

See people want their cake and eat it to....marriage should be renamed sacrifice but there is a limit. We all have skirted around an issue of....if you hit one time...you can hit again...there's just a new angle. The issue is Kenn...this dude told his wife about you in his past and now...like a normal person she is like LLEH naw byach you need keep your distance. I don't anyone who's comforable with being around someone who has seen all parts of their lovers body. Furthermore people ain't really here play no games.

What you have to understand is that dude is married and if you are truly his friend...you would not press the issue with him....if your friendship with him is that serious....then the question remains....Why aren't you with him? Ahhhhhhh...but the answer may be....I didn't like him like that...but....do you because if you didn't this wouldn't be on your mind.

Ummm I see where you going with this, but this is a whole nother topic. The Thread didn't say " Can married folks be friends with their former fugg partners" :smh: Start that thread and then we can discuss.

I'm not playing these lil dayum games. I got married folks after me and they claim "they just wanna be friends", but their actions say otherwise. :ebrow: Actions do speak louder than words ya know. So my point is can married men REALLY be friends with single ladies without having a hidden agenda. Not speaking of lifelong friendships, but men you meet in the club, church, publics, etc and they flirt with you and then claim they just wanna be your friend.
 
LoyalTigress said:
Ummm I see where you going with this, but this is a whole nother topic. The Thread didn't say " Can married folks be friends with their former fugg partners" :smh: Start that thread and then we can discuss.

I'm not playing these lil dayum games. I got married folks after me and they claim "they just wanna be friends", but their actions say otherwise. :ebrow: Actions do speak louder than words ya know. So my point is can married men REALLY be friends with single ladies without having a hidden agenda. Not speaking of lifelong friendships, but men you meet in the club, church, publics, etc and they flirt with you and then claim they just wanna be your friend.

FUGG PARTNERS.....see if a MOFO flirt with you...they wanna hit....lol....:lmao:

What up Kenn...how ya momma nem...
 
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