Are Masculine Brothas..


STRAWDOG said:
Yeah.....we're out here and we don't wear ear rings, ear studs or any other adornments in our ear (it does not matter whether it is 10 carat diamond thing or not......WE DON"T WEAR EAR RINGS.......we keep our selves clean and neat in appearance......WE DON"T CARRY MAN-purses..........we keep our hand and fingernails clean and trimed (with our own fingernail clippers) WE DON'T GET MANICURES, peddicures, facial cures, eyebrow cures, foot cures or any of that other women stuff.
We don't pull, pluck or tweezer nothing on or about our bodies. We DON"T HAVE MAN-CRUSHES BUT we DO LOVE OUR SPOUSES, OUR CHILDREN, OUR PARENTS/GRAND PARENTS and most(if not ALL) of our family members.

We'll pick you up for Church/Bible Study or we'll take you grocery shopping or to pick up your medicines or take you to the doctor. We'll give councel when asked but we don't intrude in anybodies business especially when it does not affect us or our families.
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:clap: And you will be appreciated even when it's not "APPRECIATION DAY". Guarantee. ;)
 



STRAWDOG said:
Yeah.....we're out here and we don't wear ear rings, ear studs or any other adornments in our ear (it does not matter whether it is 10 carat diamond thing or not......WE DON"T WEAR EAR RINGS.......we keep our selves clean and neat in appearance......WE DON"T CARRY MAN-purses..........we keep our hand and fingernails clean and trimed (with our own fingernail clippers) WE DON'T GET MANICURES, peddicures, facial cures, eyebrow cures, foot cures or any of that other women stuff.
We don't pull, pluck or tweezer nothing on or about our bodies. We DON"T HAVE MAN-CRUSHES BUT we DO LOVE OUR SPOUSES, OUR CHILDREN, OUR PARENTS/GRAND PARENTS and most(if not ALL) of our family members.

We'll pick you up for Church/Bible Study or we'll take you grocery shopping or to pick up your medicines or take you to the doctor. We'll give councel when asked but we don't intrude in anybodies business especially when it does not affect us or our families.
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Man, you summed that up great. Masculine brothas are still around. I'm one of 'em. I'm a decision-maker, strong willed, hardworking leader in what I do... and I cut my own toenails. :tup:
 
Well said Straw. That fits me to a T! I have never been in LingLing's chair for her to play with my feet or hands. When I'm going to the beach or something, just clip the claws and call it a day. I'm not trying to have pretty feet or hands.

One thing these pretty boys fail to realize is women actually love to see a man working hard. When I've been out working in the yard getting all sweaty dusty and dirty, that is a major turn on for my wife.

Another thing... Women don't want a man that is prettier than she is.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
i dun told y'all metrosexual just means one ball on either side of the fence! :nod: Eyebrow arching, pedicure, manicures and makeup? :confused:---->SISSYPUNK!!!! No pootitang for you....EVER. :smh:

Shat, like I said before, just give me that crusty footed, ashy assed, bushy eyebrowed nucca. :swink: i can work with him. :nod:
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It ain't nothing wrong with getting a manicure and a pedicure. You act like a man ain't allowed to take a bath.
 
northern tiger said:
It ain't nothing wrong with getting a manicure and a pedicure. You act like a man ain't allowed to take a bath.
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After years of corns and calluses, I am proud of my soft hands and I do get a manicure a couple times a year.
I thnk women like 'pretty boys' and I think it is because media/society have taught them that other women are fair game.
 
C.O.G. said:
Masculinity has been down played and made into something bad.
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chocalate_topaz said:
interpretations are something else... :smh:
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This is the media's fault. Ironically the media has execs and decision makers that are homosexual. There are writers that are homosexual,producers that are homosexual, that's the TV and motion picture industry. Homosexuals control the most powerful industry in the world and that's the FASHION INDUSTRY. Their ideas of masculinity are the antithesis of what masculinity is about. Most of the ideas about men going to the beauty salon and getting pedicures and manicures came from the gay controlled fashion industry.
Also have you notice that on some tv shows and movies a man that is smart,intelligent and articulate has a soft manner about him. But the men who have a hard,strong or steel like deameanor about them are portrayed as brutes?


I remember a photo of Carl Lewis where he had red stilettos on. 3 years ago 50Cents was on the cover of GQ. A lady co-worker of mine saw the cover and said "that's sad they have 50 looking gay". LOL.
Women in America are taking notice.

You can find so many articles on women websites about the assassination of masculinty in America. Even Oprah magazine "O" featured an article about it (April 2006"In Praise Of Manly Men.)

Also it's a Black pastor in North Carolina that was on Michael Baisden Show earlier this year talking about the assault on masculinity. He said he see a lot of muscians in Black churches that have feminine mannerisms. lol
 
pbla said:
This is the media's fault. Ironically the media has execs and decision makers that are homosexual. There are writers that are homosexual,producers that are homosexual, that's the TV and motion picture industry. Homosexuals control the most powerful industry in the world and that's the FASHION INDUSTRY. Their ideas of masculinity are the antithesis of what masculinity is about. Most of the ideas about men going to the beauty salon and getting pedicures and manicures came from the gay controlled fashion industry.
Also have you notice that on some tv shows and movies a man that is smart,intelligent and articulate has a soft manner about him. But the men who have a hard,strong or steel like deameanor about them are portrayed as brutes?


I remember a photo of Carl Lewis where he had red stilettos on. 3 years ago 50Cents was on the cover of GQ. A lady co-worker of mine saw the cover and said "that's sad they have 50 looking gay". LOL.
Women in America are taking notice.

You can find so many articles on women websites about the assassination of masculinty in America. Even Oprah magazine "O" featured an article about it (April 2006"In Praise Of Manly Men.)

Also it's a Black pastor in North Carolina that was on Michael Baisden Show earlier this year talking about the assault on masculinity. He said he see a lot of muscians in Black churches that have feminine mannerisms. lol
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Good post. Sad enough, it's true. It's hard going places and looking around you, and the 12-20 year old demographic is so sugary. Even the dudes you'd think ain't no way gay be carrying all thoses ssses in their conversation....:smh:

It's like the line of fashion and thuggish type isht is razor thin for these young'ns. And, too much foolery tv is in the driver's seat.

That's why I don't go a week withouth either mean-mugg'n someone or tell'n them to sthu. Hopefully, my masculinity will rub off on some of these youngsters. Im trying to do my part....:swink:
 



Warndalyn said:
I'm glad you understood what I was saying, and didn't take me literally. :rolleyes:
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*pointing back and forth from eyes* We're here.

I have too many of THOSE brothers working around me. My daddy would have throttled my ass for some of the crap I see now days.
 
jag4life said:
Man I sometimes have to tell my son not to be so rough with other peoples' boys because I make sure he is a normal 'rough and tumble' boy, but other folks try to baby their sons to the point that it is sickening.

A lil boy on his bball team was taking jazz dance classes at the ymca "to help with his coordination" according to his mom. :smh:
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Lynn Swann took ballet classes when he played for the Steelers. Herschel Walker took dance classes as well.
 
Dang, PBLA was saying 3 years ago what folks wanted to run me off the board for saying. I fear it has only gotten worse.
 
CriTAUcal said:
They have key, executive-type positions in the metro area that pay heavy loot, and they invest their money.
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Them sissies aint investing no money.... they live beyond their means.... they will go 6 deep getting a condo in Midtown.... credit card fraud, money laundering.... all that illegal shit. Dont think them sissies really got money.
 
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