Beauty Diggers?!?!


Tony said:
This makes us sorta like simpletons don't ya think?
I mean we talk about how women make bad choices, but look @ us
chasing after that chicks booty, no matter what kinda woman its attached to.
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Y'all know I BEEN done told y'all this!:nod: Do you need an amen, hallelujah or a testimonial on the dumbness women see in y'all on the regularl? All that arguing, pontificating and talking shit this week when all along....y'all KNEW you were your own problem. :smh: I swear, y'all live by: "If I didn't say it or think it...its wrong...":rolleyes:
 



As for me i look at the total package BUT when you look at the situations of divorce, MAINLY INFIDELITY, this is a SO TRUE statement for a lot of males. I will say that a lot of pressure is on a lot of the wealthier men in the world because there is a lot of tug-and-push when these guys are doing a lot of their business deals and a lot of times those women are really putting on their CHARM and WITS and hence they fall--I just think their should be more communication on both ends before they make the big step in the relationship!
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Y'all know I BEEN done told y'all this!:nod: Do you need an amen, hallelujah or a testimonial on the dumbness women see in y'all on the regularl? All that arguing, pontificating and talking shit this week when all along....y'all KNEW you were your own problem. :smh: I swear, y'all live by: "If I didn't say it or think it...its wrong...":rolleyes:
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I think someone here presented what might be the answer, he said there is a shortage of PEOPLE (men & women)
with character. I think so also

therefore when you asked about the small supply of good men, I said it was because of the small supply
of good women, then you said men should just be good on their own accord.

I told you there was no sexual incentive to do that

Sooo Maybe the real question is; Why is character in short supply for men and women????
 
Tony said:
I think someone here presented what might be the answer, he said there is a shortage of PEOPLE (men & women)
with character. I think so also

therefore when you asked about the small supply of good men, I said it was because of the small supply
of good women, then you said men should just be good on their own accord.

I told you there was no sexual incentive to do that

Sooo Maybe the real question is; Why is character in short supply for men and women????
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This shit right here^^^^^ Man PUHLEASE! :rolleyes: You gonna take what I, me, CT, spit back at you in another thread and turn it around and act like you had this revelation on your own...and want to pose my previously posed question(s) now as your question(s)? If this ain't some testosterone bullshit there hasn't been any...:lol: WOOSAH...let me go find a drank...
 
chocalate_topaz said:
This shit right here^^^^^ Man PUHLEASE! :rolleyes: You gonna take what I, me, CT, spit back at you in another thread and turn it around and act like you had this revelation on your own...and want to pose my previously posed question(s) now as your question(s)? If this ain't some testosterone bullshit there hasn't been any...:lol: WOOSAH...let me go find a drank...
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Whatchew talking bout willma?
Your question was laden with an indictment
of “why are so many black men not in the houseâ€￾
Unbeknownst that women have been contributory
To this proliferation.

Also the brothers tried to take you down the path of slavery,
And you missed it, so I ‘ll try again.


CT men love taking care of their women and families; it makes us feel like real men.
If you have a want or need our manhood wants to be that answer.

NOW due to a lot of the societal ills, admittedly, some self inflicted,
Many brothers are in no shape to be ya husband, caregiver, etc etc


So in order to preserve our EGO some of us would rather get with ya every so often
And put a lot of effort into each isolated coming together.

Rather than allowing you or the kids to see the failures, ups and downs that
Come with staying constantly 24/7, and fighting this life.

Now if more women would make a man feel like it’s ok to fail sometimes
And she’s down for the ride then more brothers will feel empowered to
Take up the mantle and become a warrior for their families

Instead of making a man feel like you’re here but if I get a better offer I’m out.

See commitment, loyalty character, all these things are what build strong families,
And I think a lot of these things get lost in the facebook world of today.
 
No what YOU talking about. You need to reread the other topic cause if I"m missing some things..apparently you did also...
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Y'all know I BEEN done told y'all this!:nod: Do you need an amen, hallelujah or a testimonial on the dumbness women see in y'all on the regularl? All that arguing, pontificating and talking shit this week when all along....y'all KNEW you were your own problem. :smh: I swear, y'all live by: "If I didn't say it or think it...its wrong...":rolleyes:
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I'm right. You're wrong.

I don't see a problem there. Isn't that the way it always is?

:)
 
chocalate_topaz said:
No what YOU talking about. You need to reread the other topic cause if I"m missing some things..apparently you did also...
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This is the exact attitude I’m talking about, when women hold firm to
Some type of belief system, no matter how erroneous it may be, lots of men say
To hell with it then. Sorta like how God turns people over to a reprobate mind
And no longer hears their prayers.

Scriptures about how it is better to live in a comer of the roof then inside with a woman like that
Knocking dust off ya feet and keep it moving etc etc

Some would say it is even Godly to bounce from a woman like that


Until women and men humble themselves and say “hey I love you, how can we make this work”

More and more nuclear black families will be shot to hell

I remember when words like baby daddy and baby momma wasn’t part of our jargon
BUT people had to invent something to describe someone who was not a spouse or current boy/girl friend but we had sex and made a baby


Hell, You can order a man or woman off the internet
We’re all so slick and technologically advanced that we seem
To me, to be becoming something unrecognizable as human

Until we all get real and get humble we will continue to die
Missing out on the full benefits of what God had planned for us.
 
Tony said:
This is the exact attitude I’m talking about, when women hold firm to
Some type of belief system, no matter how erroneous it may be, lots of men say
To hell with it then. Sorta like how God turns people over to a reprobate mind
And no longer hears their prayers.

Scriptures about how it is better to live in a comer of the roof then inside with a woman like that
Knocking dust off ya feet and keep it moving etc etc

Some would say it is even Godly to bounce from a woman like that


Until women and men humble themselves and say “hey I love you, how can we make this work”

More and more nuclear black families will be shot to hell

I remember when words like baby daddy and baby momma wasn’t part of our jargon
BUT people had to invent something to describe someone who was not a spouse or current boy/girl friend but we had sex and made a baby


Hell, You can order a man or woman off the internet
We’re all so slick and technologically advanced that we seem
To me, to be becoming something unrecognizable as human

Until we all get real and get humble we will continue to die
Missing out on the full benefits of what God had planned for us.
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Preach Brother!!!!!!!
 
Tony said:
I was talking to this lady about how gold diggers,
Are just after a man for his money and some get these
Huge divorce settlements

And she said it’s fair because men are Beauty diggers!




She said men just want a pretty face, and a large booty, and that
We could careless about the character of a woman
So being a victim of a gold digger is our own fault.

She says no matter how horrible the man looks, he demands his wife to
To be fine, fine fine

So it’s our fault


I was lmao @ the term Beauty diggers :lol: I never heard that term before :lol:

are we Beauty Diggers?...lol...

Does she have a valid point?
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Tony said:
I was talking to this lady about how gold diggers,
Are just after a man for his money and some get these
Huge divorce settlements

And she said it’s fair because men are Beauty diggers!

She said men just want a pretty face, and a large booty, and that
We could careless about the character of a woman
So being a victim of a gold digger is our own fault.

She says no matter how horrible the man looks, he demands his wife to
To be fine, fine fine

So it’s our fault


I was lmao @ the term Beauty diggers :lol: I never heard that term before :lol:

are we Beauty Diggers?...lol...

Does she have a valid point?
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Tony ain't doing shat but rehashing what was already stated and acting like it was his idea. SO male of you. :rolleyes:

And actually--Tony, if you weren't so interested in belittling my point--you'd see I am a SOLUTIONS person. I WANT to get to the root of the problem. Thus, MY previous questions about character...which you seem to have adopted now. A lot of men don't "hear" women at all. Cause if you had of...you would have HEARD me back in the other thread. But "here we go round the Mulberry bush, the monkey chased the weasel.." :xeye:

And no gaskets will be blown...I'm a great debater..trust, I'll be hanging long after many of you will...:tup:
 
And no gaskets will be blown...I'm a great debater..trust, I'll be hanging long after many of you will...:tup:
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Hey Tony,

Don't blow a gasket man. It's not worth it.:lmao:

Some people are so preDICKtable.
 
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SUJagFan said:
Pretty much.

I wouldn't say that beauty and character are mutually exclusive in women, but sometimes we may overlook character issues and put ourselves into some bad situations.
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Tony said:
I mean like lately I've seen some dudes marry strippers, or marry chicks that are
well known to get around.

I also see alot of what I call A+++ women not married

I never saw this in the past. you think men are so increasely hung up on
Beauty that if she looks good we'll give the woman a pass
no matter what. Then complain later when we gotta hand over half our stuff?
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Tony said:
I understand no one wants somebody unattractive, is there a shortage of
attractive women with character?



This makes us sorta like simpletons don't ya think?
I mean we talk about how women make bad choices, but look @ us
chasing after that chicks booty, no matter what kinda woman its attached to.
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SUJagFan said:
Cee is actually right about that. You're going have the same amount of problems. The same amount of drama. So, it makes sense to choose what you like if you are going to have to put up with them anyway.
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Tony said:
I think us men bring alot of these relationship problems on ourselves

why would we have unprotected sex with someone we wouldn't want to marry?

Some women are messier than a tampon without the wings but if she's fine
will still deal with it, only to have headaches and die before her anyway.
and we were told to flee from these types of women

Seems like when getting a bj she sucking all the strength outta our brains also

I don't know, it seems all so superficial and meaningless, maybe
am just searching for meaning in a meaningless world ~sigh
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The part that's bolded: men (especially Black men) do this all the time, and it's nothing wrong with wanting your woman to look good....but what gets me (and I think CT is stressing this point also) is that you all complain about it when it goes wrong, and give us sisters that do have character a very bad rap/rep, but yet keep going back to the same situation.

So I simply say this to those men who do this:


"As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly. There is one thing worse than a fool, and that is a man who is conceited"



Oh, and by the way, that is from The Way (The Living Bible Illustrated).....found none other than the Book of Proverbs (26:11-12)


:)
 
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CT, I my opinion, God knows your heart.

But dammit!!!! when us brothers gone know it? :splat:

See we know when it's real and we know when it's BS

and sometimes if she's DTF we let the fake btich ride


BUT just like game recognizes game, real recognizes real Sooooooooooooooo

IMO, if some women
Keep playing games when that Real brother is right in front of them
he'll be adding somebody else's name as his beneficiary, while they're still
adding more facebook friends.
 
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96lioness said:
The part that's bolded: men (especially Black men) do this all the time, and it's nothing wrong with wanting your woman to look good....but what gets me (and I think CT is stressing this point also) is that you all complain about it when it goes wrong, and give us sisters that do have character a very bad rap/rep, but yet keep going back to the same situation.

So I simply say this to those men who do this:


"As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly. There is one thing worse than a fool, and that is a man who is conceited"



Oh, and by the way, that is from The Way (The Living Bible Illustrated).....found none other than the Book of Proverbs (26:11-12)


:)
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BOOM! They'll probably get it this time since you said it Lioness :lol:
 
Tony said:
CT, I my opinion, God knows your heart.

But dammit!!!! when us brothers gone know it? :splat:

See we know when it's real and we know when it's BS

and sometimes if she's DTF we let the fake btich ride


BUT just like game recognizes game, real recognizes real Sooooooooooooooo

IMO, if some women
Keep playing games when that Real brother is right in front of them
he'll be adding somebody else's name as his beneficiary, while they're still
adding more facebook friends.
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Tony, how about both sexes stop playing games? At the end of the day it makes it hard for everybody to establish real, meaningful relationships.
 
Once the tail starts to wagging the dog, all I can say is that I feel sorry for that poor dog.

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