Would you home-school your child?


buckwheat

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Below is an article that I found on CNN. I know of some people that were home-schooled until they were like 15 and they were pretty good students. Would any of you or are any of you home-school your kids?

Home-schooled students head to college
Strong academic track records help ease path to campus
Tuesday, January 27, 2004 Posted: 11:31 AM EST (1631 GMT)




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(AP) -- Home-schooling advocate Karl Bunday used to get a lot of blank looks when he visited college fairs in his native Minnesota and pitched the virtues of students educated around the kitchen table.

Nearly a decade later, things have changed. "It seems like this time, everybody has heard of home schooling," said Bunday, who operates the Web site learninfreedom.org about "taking responsibility for your own learning."

Until recently, educators say, home-schooled students mostly gravitated to small, primarily religious colleges. Now, as the movement keeps gaining in popularity, they can be found on many -- even most -- campuses nationwide.

"As the numbers (of home schooled) have increased, and there have also been more admitted to college, they've actually performed quite well," said Barmak Nassirian, a policy analyst with the American Association of Collegiate Registrars and Admissions Officers.

While exact figures are not available, the number of middle and high school students educated at home is now estimated at between 1 million and 2 million.

Such young people have grown up academically with a greater emphasis on learning -- rather than testing -- compared with conventionally educated students, said Laura Derrick of the Home Education Network.

Derrick thinks colleges are starting to recognize that. Schools are "looking at kids as human beings and as people who bring a specific experience to their school rather than just a grade or a grade point average," she said from her home in Austin, Texas.

Educated at home from kindergarten through high school, Holly Porter said the flexibility of home schooling made the transition to university life easy.

"It prepared me better than going to a regular high school would have because I was independently motivated," said Porter, now a graduate student at the University of Denver.

Overcoming stereotypes
Asher Albertson was home schooled until age 16, when he started attending classes at a community college.

Now a junior at the University of Wyoming, Albertson said finding his way to classrooms was the most difficult adjustment to college life. "Before, it was the dining room table," he joked.

Academically, Albertson added, the move to campus was nearly seamless.

"In college, you go to class, but you spend most of your time studying outside of class getting ready for tests, so it wasn't much different from what I was doing before," he said.

Beyond academics, the uptick in home schooled students on college campuses has helped them overcome the stereotype that they're socially maladjusted, said Mark Hegener, the publisher of Home Education magazine.

When Porter moved into her first undergraduate residence hall at Denver five years ago, she felt like it was the conventionally schooled freshmen who had trouble adjusting.

"It was kind of a shock," she recalled.

"I had been given a lot of independence and a lot of freedom inside my parent's home. And I kind of got the feeling that there were all these girls that had never been away from their families before and they just went hog wild."

I had to explain that I'm not a high school dropout -- that I have had a lot of unique experiences that a regular high school student doesn't have.
-- Holly Porter, University of Denver graduate student


Within a week, Porter transferred to a dormitory that emphasized academics.

Porter and others say the home-schooled develop their social skills through volunteerism and other networks that allow them to join in as many or more extracurricular activities than conventional students.

Texas State University admissions director Christie Kangas said home schooled applicants almost always list more community service than those conventional students.

Nassirian said the barriers that once discouraged the home schooled from attending secular colleges began to fall five years ago after the schools overcame "fundamental misgivings" about applications who lacked grade transcripts and report cards.

Porter encountered some of those obstacles.

"On paper, I looked like a high school dropout," she said.

"I had a (high school equivalency diploma) but I didn't do an accredited high school curriculum. So I had to explain that I'm not a high school dropout -- that I have had a lot of unique experiences that a regular high school student doesn't have."

Tom Bear, dean of admissions at the University of Evansville, credits home-schooled students' strong performances on standardized tests for changing their image.

Additionally, applicants to Evansville -- a private institution in southern Indiana -- must submit a reference from a coach, minister or another source.

"We have some checks and balances in place," Bear said. "But the home schooled kids who are here have done well."
 
My Niece was home schooled and she turned out pretty good. Just got accepted to Yale. Finshed school at 16. I guess parents have to do what's best for there kids.
 



I personally would not do it. Home-schooling like anything else has it pros, and cons. Yes, it is good to do as far as academics goes. But in my opinion, there should be more to school than just books. I mean, what about the social aspects of schools? Schools are a good place to learn social skills. How to enteract with other people, some who might not even look like you. You will not get that experience sitting around your dinner table looking at mommy and daddy.
 
Originally posted by TSU/BAMA
I personally would not do it. Home-schooling like anything else has it pros, and cons. Yes, it is good to do as far as academics goes. But in my opinion, there should be more to school than just books. I mean, what about the social aspects of schools? Schools are a good place to learn social skills. How to enteract with other people, some who might not even look like you. You will not get that experience sitting around your dinner table looking at mommy and daddy.


Exactly.
 
In most cases students who are home school are allowed to take part in activies at their local school, so they have the same social experience as some of the other kids.

If I have the means I would like to home school my child.
 
Originally posted by JSU*Toi
In most cases students who are home school are allowed to take part in activies at their local school, so they have the same social experience as some of the other kids.

Oh, ok. I didn't know that. But if that is the case, then why not let them go to the local schools since they will be allowed to participate in the school activities anyway?

Another thing that puzzles me about home-schooling is, I guess the word I want to use is "qualification". I mean, are you really qualified to teach your child the things that he needs to learn. For example, my weakest subjects were the maths, algebra, geometry, trigonumetry (see, I can't even spell it, let alone try to teach it.) How can I teach my child that if I don't know myself.

You know, I just think that home-schooling is overrated, but that is neither here nor there. But anyway, to each his own.
 
Maybe in the beginning stage where the arts are crucial. Unless your school just happens to be a "magnet" or there arts are actually an integral part of the curriculum and encouraged, children are most likely not going to get the exposure.
 
Originally posted by TSU/BAMA
Oh, ok. I didn't know that. But if that is the case, then why not let them go to the local schools since they will be allowed to participate in the school activities anyway?

Another thing that puzzles me about home-schooling is, I guess the word I want to use is "qualification". I mean, are you really qualified to teach your child the things that he needs to learn. For example, my weakest subjects were the maths, algebra, geometry, trigonumetry (see, I can't even spell it, let alone try to teach it.) How can I teach my child that if I don't know myself.

You know, I just think that home-schooling is overrated, but that is neither here nor there. But anyway, to each his own.

In many states the parents have to have at least a Masters Degree and they also must pass the same exam that teachers take to teach.

Also the students are have to "test out" to advance to the next grade level. Here in GA the test is given twice a year once in the summer and once again in the spring.
 
Absolutely not. I wouldn't want my kids to have a teacher who's a stupid as me!

That's what I pay taxes for.
 
No.

These kids (sisters and brothers of a girl that works at Walgreens) come in the store and get nothing but candy that cost like $00.86, and they pull out like $2.49 worth of quarters, dimes, nickles and pennies.
I asked, "What school do you go to" they looked at me like I was speaking Swahili. They said they learn everything like math, science, english etc at home. Them kids looked ragady, teeth not cleaned, and they didnt know how to count money. I wanted to call Social Services on their parents.

I want my kids to go to Public or either Private schools.
 
I view home schooling as I do small private schools, in that I think they both loose theoir effectiveness after about 3rd-4th grade. By that time I think that you have to start allowing your kid to start to interect with other children and allow them to develop socially. I see and read all of the succes stories about home school kids and them being accepted into college, but where are the failure stories? I know they exist, but they won't be printed in the newspaper. Plus I don't see anything about the social education that these children have received. Because we all know that success in your chosen profession is only partially academic.
 
I agree with all of your comments that's why my neice didn't start doing home school until year Junior Year of Highschool.
 
Originally posted by TSU/BAMA
I personally would not do it. Home-schooling like anything else has it pros, and cons. Yes, it is good to do as far as academics goes. But in my opinion, there should be more to school than just books. I mean, what about the social aspects of schools? Schools are a good place to learn social skills. How to enteract with other people, some who might not even look like you. You will not get that experience sitting around your dinner table looking at mommy and daddy.

There are many homeschool associations that offere social activities. Students who are homeschooled interact with other homeschoolers in activities such as sports, music, art, etc.
 



Originally posted by TSU/BAMA
I personally would not do it. Home-schooling like anything else has it pros, and cons. Yes, it is good to do as far as academics goes. But in my opinion, there should be more to school than just books. I mean, what about the social aspects of schools? Schools are a good place to learn social skills. How to enteract with other people, some who might not even look like you. You will not get that experience sitting around your dinner table looking at mommy and daddy.


ORIGINALLY POSTED BY SUGE
I view home schooling as I do small private schools, in that I think they both loose theoir effectiveness after about 3rd-4th grade. By that time I think that you have to start allowing your kid to start to interect with other children and allow them to develop socially. I see and read all of the succes stories about home school kids and them being accepted into college, but where are the failure stories? I know they exist, but they won't be printed in the newspaper. Plus I don't see anything about the social education that these children have received. Because we all know that success in your chosen profession is only partially academic.













Co signing.
 
Seems to me like a lot is dependent on the parents to set up in home-schooling situations. They have to make sure they have the skills necessary to teach their children all these specialized courses or find some others in the homeschooling community to aid them. They have to search for and set their children up in social & community activities to get them out of the house and interract. They have to seek out the details and make sure their children are taking the appropriate tests and taking the appropriate measures to make sure their children can make it to the next level. It certainly takes dedicated parents to do this job, and a lot of time.

I applaud those who do it successfully, but it would be so much more beneficial if these dedicated parents put time in at their children's local public schools. As many homeschool parents as there seem to be these days, I'd think there'd be plenty of volunteers. Then the resourses, information & skills are already established for parents to take advantage of. Plus, I KNOW the quality of these schools would improve with so many parents taking personal stake in the schools. Those dedicated parents could be a benefit not only to their children, but the entire community. It's because schools are left with the parents & students who just don't care that they are falling apart now.
 
Originally posted by Vinita
I don't have enough confidence in my competence ....

I don't have enouigh confidence in your competence either....That is another reason for me to MANcott Texas!! :lmao:
 
Fortunately, I don't give two sh*ts about what you have confidence in, and I couldn't give less than two sh*ts about what you "MAN"cott if I died right now ...

So, I guess we're both happy! :D
 
Originally posted by Suge
I think they both loose theoir effectiveness after about 3rd-4th grade. By that time I think that you have to start allowing your kid to start to interect with other children and allow them to develop socially. I see and read all of the succes stories about home school kids and them being accepted into college, but where are the failure stories?

Amen! At some point and time, the kids have to learn to live and learn with others. Unless they intend to spend the rest of their lives as hermits, they must learn to live with the myriad of other cultures around them.

I wouldn't be surprised to find out that many of these pistol-packin' teens, and "trench coat mafias" are home-schooled kids gone wild.

Besides, I honestly worry about SOME of these folks who home-school their kids. Some of these parents don't know anything themselves, so how can they effectively teach their children?
 
My kids go be home schooled, as long as I'm not at home with them.

Love em to death, but I couldn't spend 12 years with them from 7:30am to 3:30pm Aug til May. Plus, they would be the best spell-checking users on earth. I wouldn't require them to learn to spell *ishhhh as long as their is a spell checker.
 
Originally posted by Da_Sperm
My kids go be home schooled, as long as I'm not at home with them.

Love em to death, but I couldn't spend 12 years with them from 7:30am to 3:30pm Aug til May. Plus, they would be the best spell-checking users on earth. I wouldn't require them to learn to spell *ishhhh as long as their is a spell checker.

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
 
My children went to Christian school for 6 years. We then moved them to the gifted program in our local public schools.

Home schooling is great. We might have considered it if the network had been larger in our community. It is now quite formidable as my children are in HS. The benefit of networking is that children can be home-schooled with other home-schoolers. That way they have interaction, some parents can get breaks, and its easier to find parents who may be better prepared to teach certain subjects that you are not well-suited to teach.

To answer the original question, I would have loved to home-school my children but my wife did not earn enough for us to be financially able to do that AND she is more nurturing than I am. We actually have home-school networks in Florida with HS sports teams, bands, and drama units that compete alongside public and private HS.
 
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