yeah, I grew up with them too.
I too grew up with southern whites. Back then (in elementary/Jr/High school) I didn't understand them too much, but as I look back now, I don' t see it as them really being truely dedicated in their hate/prejudice. That I know of,,, I didn't have any white associates who were directly associated with the KKK and such, so much of their antics back then I see today as pretty much status quo, run-o-the-mill acts for the period and the society that we lived in. Things like watermelon jokes, "where are you, I can't see you" jokes on the band bus at night coming back from games, the wearing of rebel flag gear,,,,, all while hanging out with you, getting drunk, playing sports together, going fishing/hunting together,,, blah, blah, blah. That was pretty traumatic stuff back then and led to some good fist fights,,,, and then we'd be right back playing speed box (or whatever you call that game where you have a guy acting like a baseball runner caught between bases) or picking on some reclusive misfit.
I think the COUNTRIES of Japan, India, Russia, Iran, Iraq, etc,, really want no parts of black immigrants. What's the population of Black African immigrants in these countries????? In that sense, the U.S. has done the best job of being a melting pot,,, other than maybe some south Amercian countries like Brazil, Argentina, Venezuala, the carribean,, etc.