Why are black women so angry and fighting all the time now?


I can't. Like, I want a black man with some fuggin sense! What can I do with a jose? What can I do with a spencer? NOTHING.....this is why we get angry when yall do it, because secretly we want bm to want us back and care so we won't have to date spencer and jose :lmao: I am very interested in dating a Hispanic but I will never date a Caucasian because they are not attractive and they smell weird.

Dollface, there are plenty of brothas walking around these streets with plenty of sense. It's just y'all kind don't want to fugg with or fugg them because at this stage in y'all lives the primal desire to go after the Tyrone's is greater.
 
Marrying down is crazy imo. You put in all that work to get your house in order to invite someone in to muck it up... Nall ninja...... After 90 days of dating, I believe credit scores should be exchanged.
 



Marrying down is crazy imo. You put in all that work to get your house in order to invite someone in to muck it up... Nall ninja...... After 90 days of dating, I believe credit scores should be exchanged.

If someone is marrying up, someone else is marrying down. The only way "marrying up" is possible.
 
but don't most black women do the opposite?

Don't think of it just in the context of marriage, but in relationships period. Women don't see themselves stepping down if the person they choosing makes them "feel" better. It ain't about what you are(you can be a dope dealer, murderer, or shiftless) it's about how you make them feel. You can be a person that ain't sh*t in a social since but pull a queen with three phDs if you make her feel a certain way. We see this everyday. That's why it's bullsh*t shen people give other people dating advice like "be yourself". This is for all races not just black.
 
Marrying down is crazy imo. You put in all that work to get your house in order to invite someone in to muck it up... Nall ninja...... After 90 days of dating, I believe credit scores should be exchanged.

Women marry down FAR more than men do.
 
Don't think of it just in the context of marriage, but in relationships period. Women don't see themselves stepping down if the person they choosing makes them "feel" better. It ain't about what you are(you can be a dope dealer, murderer, or shiftless) it's about how you make them feel. You can be a person that ain't sh*t in a social since but pull a queen with three phDs if you make her feel a certain way. We see this everyday. That's why it's bullsh*t shen people give other people dating advice like "be yourself". This is for all races not just black.

Excellent advice!! :tup:

thx for this post!!!
 
Marrying down is crazy imo. You put in all that work to get your house in order to invite someone in to muck it up... Nall ninja...... After 90 days of dating, I believe credit scores should be exchanged.

You gotta take thir attitude into consideration. Bad credit and financial issues are temporary in the grand scheme of things. But if he/ she has a plan to move past that, then that's your mate.

Most self made millionaires have had financial hardships, at some point, because they are risk takers by nature.
 
You shole is right. The white boys ain't no better than us. Just usually have the means to do whatever they want. Their wives are conditioned to shut the fugg up and deal with their isht because he is paying the bills. Plus they seen Daddy do the same isht.

They invented all this isht men do in the U.S. How the hell do folks think they fathered all those children with slave women. They been doing some ratchet isht. And if they got money they will do more isht. I have been out and around them mofos with some loot and they are wilder than a mofo. Young and old. Had me SMH.

Exactly. White men are just better at hiding their deceit and White women usually just sit back and quietly accept it.
 
I think people overall are just angrier, not any particular race or sex. Black men are killing each other in alarming numbers...so their anger is there, White men are killing folks at a whim...so the anger is there. Youtube has all races fighting...the anger is there.

As far as the roles, this psychologist came to a workshop and spoke on it. Historically the Caucasoid male is about dominance--he brings the food and money and his wife does the turning it into food and other things necessary, He promotes dependence because he is about absolute control. Thus, when the caucasoid woman is not taken care of, she tends to wimp out and look for another benefactor instead of standing on her own,

The African story, however is about partnership. He and the wife tend to be equals...he is not one for absolute dependence, he wants that helpmate to pull her weight and they equally join in decisions. The village concept. Thus, when the african woman is not taken care of, she has enough perseverance to turn that into independence and subsist without his assistance or with only the assistance of her sistergirls; same for the men.

The Asian story is about collectives. Families tend to form small social groups that tend to live in close proximity, kids grow together, spouses work together at the same office, cliques vacation together and the kids tend to marry each other. The women work together to collectively improve their men's and thus their own lot in life. The removal of a person from the collective feels like death and usually no new member family is allowed to take their place. They live and die within this small circle without much desire to seek outside of it.

The major problem has been the insertion of religion as the guiding force for American Africans and Caucasoids. They have been sold on a book which promoted the Caucasoid and indoctrinated into every aspect of our lives. Thus, we now have the African man looking at the actions of the Caucasoid male as being "right" and the pinnacle of actions for success. However, this yearning to imitate is foreign to Africans true nature, thus the constant battle between the male/female. The now constant negativity shown to the African female has resulted in her strengthening her resolve and increasing her independence to the point where the African male is no longer sure of where he fits into her life. Thus, he turns to the "weaker" female, the Caucasoid, who relishes being a dependent but cloaks her dependence with lavishing lots of attention to increase her desirability. It has been shown that if the African male does not support the Caucasoid female, again, she will move on to a better benefactor. The African male in many cases, tends to "think more" before he acts and casts off the Caucasoid simply because he realizes he will not get this level of attention without much buy in, except for money, from the African woman. He must walk beside the African Queen, whereas with the Caucasoid, he can walk in front with no comeuppance.
 
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Most murders in the Black community are drug and gang related and every now and then over a woman.

Black women also have the assistance of the government where it bans the man from the home buy giving the woman and the children health insurance, a free home, pays the bills and buys the food. This is why many women can say, "I don't need no man". Heck, the government is her man.

The major problem has been the insertion of religion as the guiding force for American Africans and Caucasoids. They have been sold on a book which promoted the Caucasoid and indoctrinated into every aspect of our lives. Thus, we now have the African man looking at the actions of the Caucasoid male as being "right" and the pinnacle of actions for success. However, this yearning to imitate is foreign to Africans true nature, thus the constant battle between the male/female.

Been trying to tell folks about the White man's religion and how it demeans Black women and women in general but folks just look at it as hating on a religion.
Western religion has done more damage in subjugating women than anything a Black man could ever do.
 
Perhaps we need 200 years of slavery with the Black Man as the "Massa" to resolve all of these issues. :lol: :emlaugh: We can put our women on a pedestal and say they are as rich and beautiful as crude oil. :lol: :emlaugh: Every black man gets a white belly warmer and our virtuous women stay in their place and make the home/plantation a happy place. Of course we will need the next 40 or so presidents and law makers to be black, control all fortune 500(s) etc. We would change the name of Harvard to Timbuktu and the White House to the Ebony House :lol: :emlaugh: I can go so much more into this but will leave it alone. :lol: :emlaugh:
 



Most murders in the Black community are drug and gang related and every now and then over a woman.

Black women also have the assistance of the government where it bans the man from the home buy giving the woman and the children health insurance, a free home, pays the bills and buys the food. This is why many women can say, "I don't need no man". Heck, the government is her man.



Been trying to tell folks about the White man's religion and how it demeans Black women and women in general but folks just look at it as hating on a religion.
Western religion has done more damage in subjugating women than anything a Black man could ever do.

That would be foolish coming out of a person on public assistance's mouth...
 
Perhaps we need 200 years of slavery with the Black Man as the "Massa" to resolve all of these issues. :lol: :emlaugh: We can put our women on a pedestal and say they are as rich and beautiful as crude oil. :lol: :emlaugh: Every black man gets a white belly warmer and our virtuous women stay in their place and make the home/plantation a happy place. Of course we will need the next 40 or so presidents and law makers to be black, control all fortune 500(s) etc. We would change the name of Harvard to Timbuktu and the White House to the Ebony House :lol: :emlaugh: I can go so much more into this but will leave it alone. :lol: :emlaugh:

That means you would have to go back in time to almost over 2000 years ago and keep that Black woman (Cleopatra) in Egypt from becoming the Queen of the Egyptian Empire who slept with two different Roman rulers (Julius Caesar and Mark Antony) and was conquered by a third Roman ruler (Octavian) due to her promiscuous ways, which ultimately lead her to commit suicide. Once the Romans kicked the door into Africa by taking control of its most powerful region the wheels were put into motion to control its people within.
 
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That means you would have to go back in time to almost over 2000 years ago and keep that Black woman (Cleopatra) in Egypt from becoming the Queen of the Egyptian Empire who slept with two different Roman rulers (Julius Caesar and Mark Antony) and was conquer by a third Roman ruler (Octavianus) due to her promiscuous ways, which ultimately lead her to commit suicide. Once the Romans kicked the door into Africa by taking control of its most powerful region the wheels were put into motion to control its people within.

That's okay, I just want to heal AA issues with 200 years of reverse slavery in this fantasy. :lol: :emlaugh: During the Civil Rights era the NOI would be controlling the South. :lol: :emlaugh: Herman Cain would be General Sherman during the civil war and burn down Atlanta. :lol: :emlaugh:
 
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That's okay, I just want to heal AA issues with 200 years of reverse slavery in this fantasy. :lol: :emlaugh: During the Civil Rights era the NOI would be controlling the South. :lol: :emlaugh: Herman Cain would be General Sherman during the civil war and burn down Atlanta. :lol: :emlaugh:

I think Allen West would be General Sherman and Cain would be General Grant. The Black Panther Party would be the KKK , Al Sharpton would be Robert E. Lee, and Jesse Jackson, Sr. would be General Pickett who is better known for Pickett's charge in the Battle of Gettysburg. :lol: :emlaugh:
 
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You shole is right. The white boys ain't no better than us. Just usually have the means to do whatever they want. Their wives are conditioned to shut the fugg up and deal with their isht because he is paying the bills. Plus they seen Daddy do the same isht.

They invented all this isht men do in the U.S. How the hell do folks think they fathered all those children with slave women. They been doing some ratchet isht. And if they got money they will do more isht. I have been out and around them mofos with some loot and they are wilder than a mofo. Young and old. Had me SMH.

That's what trips me out when folks act like blacks are the only ones that got dating/marriage problems and that that 50% divorce rate only happens for blacks.
 
Some cats I grew up with shot this a few months ago.. One of them actually has talent and would be cool with better other production but the other 2, na son. [video=youtube;bfYUm5e-xSM]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfYUm5e-xSM[/video]


The internet has made it possible for cats 30 and over with talent to get exposure and views (which equals shows) without the need of a major label (which can be a good and a bad thing). 2 Chainz didn't really just BLOW up until 2 years ago at age 35-36 I believe. Same with Rick Ross in 2010 who was like 34 I believe even though he had a couple of gold albums.
 
Marrying down is crazy imo. You put in all that work to get your house in order to invite someone in to muck it up... Nall ninja...... After 90 days of dating, I believe credit scores should be exchanged.

I was wondering when credit score was going to come up. :smh:


You gotta take thir attitude into consideration. Bad credit and financial issues are temporary in the grand scheme of things. But if he/ she has a plan to move past that, then that's your mate.

Most self made millionaires have had financial hardships, at some point, because they are risk takers by nature.

THANK YOU!!!
 
I think Allen West would be General Sherman and Cain would be General Grant. The Black Panther Party would be the KKK , Al Sharpton would be Robert E. Lee, and Jesse Jackson, Sr. would be General Pickett who is better known for Pickett's charge in the Battle of Gettysburg. :lol: :emlaugh:

Don't try to change my mind about the characters, it's made up. Ronald Reagan will be Dred Scott. :lol: :emlaugh:

[video=youtube;7LoHdNo4RYE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=7LoHdNo4RYE#t=6[/video]
 
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