When the physical aspects change, does the love go with it?

[CEE DOG]

When the physical aspects change, does the love go with it? Being honest, I think women will leave the man before men will. Men although visual about everything tend to still wanna hit it like it was when she was slim. Women on the other hand tend to not wanna let you hit it when you get bigger. :lol:

 

[BRAVEHEART123]

When the physical aspects change, does the love go with it? Being honest, I think women will leave the man before men will. Men although visual about everything tend to still wanna hit it like it was when she was slim. Women on the other hand tend to not wanna let you hit it when you get bigger. :lol:

I got to agree with you Cee. In porn, BBWs are like a hot commodity right now. SuperstarXXX, Princess Amore? Beverly Blue? ConstancedaPrincessXXX.

A medical myth is that the bigger the gut, the smaller it gets. 30min Treadmill a day can help with this.

 

[CEE DOG]

I heard this topic on Keith Sweat's radio show Friday on my way home. Most of the dues was like nall more meat to hit. The women were like well it kind of sorta does change thing. :lol:

 

[JagHammer]

When the physical aspects change, does the love go with it? Being honest, I think women will leave the man before men will. Men although visual about everything tend to still wanna hit it like it was when she was slim. Women on the other hand tend to not wanna let you hit it when you get bigger. :lol:

If the love goes when the physical aspects fade, it was never there to begin with.

 

[SUJagFan]

I don't think true love goes when things change physically. For either sex.

I still have a problem with guts though. Big sagging belly. Ass that's wide as all outside. I know folks call that "thick" now or BBW, but it's just not sexy to me.

Just my personal preference. I know folks are going to be offended, but I don't give a damn.

Pisses me off to go to the gym and there are women in their 60s and 70s keeping it tight, but others are just fat and happy. And expect you to be happy with them being fat and happy.

:shame:

 

[chocalate_topaz]

It's the level of change. 20 or 30 lbs;, I'm still fine...100-150 lbs..not as happy with that look. Would I leave because they were obese? I don't think so. I'd be cooking healthy as heck and buy twin treadmills and we'd walk like heck to reverse it though...and JagHammer is right, if you have been in love with someone and something happens to change the physical and you canNOT see past that new physical to the old person you loved...what really were you loving in the first place?

 

[jag4life]

If my woman gains 100lbs I need to blame myself.

 

[jsupop33]

It's the level of change. 20 or 30 lbs;, I'm still fine...100-150 lbs..not as happy with that look. Would I leave because they were obese? I don't think so. I'd be cooking healthy as heck and buy twin treadmills and we'd walk like heck to reverse it though...and JagHammer is right, if you have been in love with someone and something happens to change the physical and you canNOT see past that new physical to the old person you loved...what really were you loving in the first place?

CT,
I dated a girl in college that was 5'11 175 lbs when we met. Nice, thick and tall.... In 3 months, she blew up to 220. I ran for the hills. Pop's already comes from an obese family. I am fighting genetics daily. I am sorry, I needed someone who would help me fight the good fight...

 

[jsupop33]

But it does kill me to see a bunch of 35 year old plus sisters in the gym looking great and a bunch of sisters in their late 20's who don't know the word gym. I got a white coworker with a 8 month old baby now. She bought this three wheel stroller, moved her clothes to her office and literally jogs and pushes her daughter's stroller 3 miles to daycare then jogs another 2 miles to work every morning.

 

[CEE DOG]

I have a friend who husband supposedly cheated on her because he told her she had gotten big. She lost 30lb and was looking nice. They worked things out and so called being in love again. Well I saw her at Walmart last night after not seeing her in 6 months and she has gained double that back. :shame: Head so big it looks like a sumo wrestler.