Look stop putting words in my mouth, did I say it was "ok or right" for him to abuse her? Please cut and paste where I said, it was ok for him to abuse her.
Once again, whether anyone agrees with me or not [I don't care], knowing this man's history of being abusive, she placed herself in the position of being abused. She knew when he left the restaurant he was angry and when he?s angry he ?goes off.? So why not just stay in the restaurant, allow him to go about his business and attempt to rectify the situation later. It would have taken only ten minuets for him to leave the restaurant, start his car and be on his way.
Was she angry, more than likely she was?
How many of you have been angry at your spouse after a heated conversation has ended? One of you continued to agitating the other. One says to the other ?Honey or *&*** leave me a lone and either you do or you don?t? Now, most of the time the one will leave the conversation, if the other continue to argue, more than likely some physical touching will take place. So who was the agitator, continue to mock and run off at the mouth.
Folks, this is not difficult to understand, this is nor Plasma Physics were discussing. The problem is so many are caught up in Juanita Bynum; you cannot look at the entire situation. This woman followed him; it was not him following her. Why didn?t she get in her car and leave?
If the situation was reversed and she hit him with an object, how many would be saying she was wrong for hitting him? Very few, some will be saying ?He should not have followed her. And I would have hit him, if that had been me?.
Some of you sisters have been in abusive relationships and you the indicators of an abusive spouse / companion. You know when he is about to act a fool, so you leave him alone. You and the kids go shopping or somewhere out of his reach. An hour or so later, he calls and apologize. Ok, so you return home and all is well. However, you are mentally and physically alert watching his every move.
Does anyone agree this could have been avoided if she had remained in the restaurant, allowing him time to leave the parking lot? Has any of the sisters have ever allowed their spouse or male companion to ?just leave? in order to avoid any type of physical or verbal abuse. I know you will not "raise your hand" or say yes I have been in that situation and I had to leave, if not he would have hurt me and the children.
Come on get out of the Juanita Bynum mentality and look at the entire situation. I know some of you agree with me.
