I never thought I'd say this, but in light of this exchange, if Black people have an issue with someone else using any form of the n word, then we as a people need to stop using it, plain and simple.
No more we use it as term of endearment, most (not on this board) probably don't even know that phrasing. No more we use it like white people use the term red neck. No more "it's our word now".
No more excuses for anything, it just needs to be dropped from the English lexicon. If this were to ever happen, then people would no longer be confused and call us hypocrites.
Yes this reporter should've known better, but how are people going to be up in arms when she called herself a news n***a? The other story is that a white lady basically sold integrity to get a story.