Topic Revisited: Web Site Sparks Discussion of Race


Venom Skywalker

S. Enigma
By DEBORAH KONG

Eniola Oluwole was surprised and a little hurt when a close friend told him he wasn't like other black people: He was "cool."

Oluwole didn't know how to tell his friend, who is white, that the comment bothered him, until he saw www.blackpeopleloveus.com.

The satirical Web site portrays a fictional white couple, Sally and Johnny, proclaiming how well-liked they are by blacks, and offers up testimonials from their black "friends." New York comedian Chelsea Peretti and her brother, Jonah Peretti, created the site to poke fun at how some whites can be patronizing toward minorities.

Though its weapon is humor, the site has provoked some serious discussions - and thousands of e-mails - about the ever-sensitive topic of race relations since it was launched in October.


Some people, like Oluwole, have sent the site's Web address to friends hoping to initiate a conversation on race. Oluwole said he thought it would be a non-confrontational way to give his white friend "the opportunity to see how out of place it is to say that."

The site uses "humor as that little bridge," said the 25-year-old Bostonian.

Some unamused Web surfers say the site is offensive because it stereotypes blacks and whites and pokes fun at a serious topic.

But others feel the stereotypes it portrays play out in real life. On the site, a black "friend" recounts how Johnny "always says, 'I'm not a racist; one of my best friends is Black!'"

Another black character observes how Johnny is "generous enough to remark upon how 'articulate' I am," and a third notes how Sally says, "You're so cool, you're different, you're not like other Black people!'"

Diane Johnson, who is black, sent the site to Oluwole. She identified with its dig at whites who display an unusual fascination with black people's hair.

"I could put myself in a lot of these different situations. I'm sick and tired of people treating me like I'm a show poodle," said Johnson, 30, of Framingham, Mass.

After Manuel Rivera posted the site in an online forum, an Italian-American friend told him he was offended by it.

"The way they portrayed black people on that site was racist to the point of being disgusting," said the friend, New Yorker Dominick DiGiorgio, 25. "I just feel ashamed in general for people that can't understand the idea of living together in harmony."

The two exchanged e-mails, sharing their views on race.

"The way I see it, it's not offensive at all. It really is like that," said Rivera, 20, who told an online forum he encounters discrimination as a black person living in Puerto Rico.

Chelsea Peretti, a standup comic and free-lance writer, has been surprised at the buzz the site has inspired - about 4,000 people have sent e-mails. The site is part of a project that Jonah Peretti, research and development director at New York-based new media arts nonprofit Eyebeam, is working on to track the spread of ideas on the Internet.

"I didn't anticipate getting hate mail from neo-Nazis and angry or hurt black people," said Peretti, 24, but she did realize "whenever you talk about race, there's always going to be a pretty charged reaction, especially if you're using humor."

Site visitors have speculated about whether its creators are black or white. Peretti, who is Jewish and Italian, said she wrote the material based on her life experience, including situations she saw her black stepmother experience and complaints she heard from friends who aren't white.

"There's something valuable to white people participating in a criticism of racism, or subtle, nuanced forms of it," Peretti said.
 
I'm sure many of us have been in a situation when a white person has made that, "you're not like other black people" statement. Whenever I've been told this I always challenged the person to tell me what black people are "like". Of course all they can say is the stereo-typical information and I basically remind them that for every stereo-type they call out, I can come up the just as many for white folk.
 

Originally posted by Venom Skywalker


Diane Johnson, who is black, sent the site to Oluwole. She identified with its dig at whites who display an unusual fascination with black people's hair.

Mane, what chu talkin bout!! :nod: I get more compliments about my natural from white folks than I do black folks!! :lol: Especially when it's twisted!
 
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