Vinita
Let's Go Lions, GO!
Okay, now when Queen comes up to you in a Tau Beta Sigma jacket @ Homecoming talking about, "Show me LOVE, frat! Show me LOOOOOOOOOVE!!" :love: :kiss: I want you to come back and tell us how you LYAO at that one, 'kay?
++ This Gay ISHT is getting out of hand ++
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Okay, now when Queen comes up to you in a Tau Beta Sigma jacket @ Homecoming talking about, "Show me LOVE, frat! Show me LOOOOOOOOOVE!!" :love: :kiss: I want you to come back and tell us how you LYAO at that one, 'kay?
Bartram
Brand HBCUbian
yeah well for the record, others can see my avatar and know the answer, so the question is answered, just not on your terms, and pming me was a rhetorical suggestion of coarse. You're welcome.
staggalee83
War & Thunder
Okay, now when Queen comes up to you in a Tau Beta Sigma jacket @ Homecoming talking about, "Show me LOVE, frat! Show me LOOOOOOOOOVE!!" :love: :kiss: I want you to come back and tell us how you LYAO at that one, 'kay?
Shat..............If a QUEEN came up to me talking bout show me love, I'LL SHOW HIM MY FOOT, which would be followed by all the other foot's at the tailgate. :emlaugh:
A QUEEN get's the boot period. :lol:
You wanna be gay............go ahead.........I ain't gonna spit in your face.
Just don't ask me to be part of it in no way shape or form.
I'll leave the understanding to the AKA's.
And yes...........I know there are chapters of KKpsi's and TauBSigmas that are co-ed because their music departments only has 1 or the other.
Dr. Sweet NUPE
New Member
Nah it started when stop letting their little boys do boy HITS. I remember I had every Star Wars figuren(sp) there was. Every space ship, some toy guns, Tonka Trucks...Hot wheels cars.
Man I went in the toy Department...because my plan was to buy some star wars figures and bronz them for myself and hang on the wall in my office...man I ain't find HITS.
So because Star Wars is not as popular now boys are gay? Did you see the hundreds of other toy male figurines?
Bartram
Brand HBCUbian
Actually I see a deep-rooted socio-political aspect to this. Today there's an advocacy group for everything/everybody that's not a "normal" regular person. (don't know how to say that without starting a big argument. see, even my mind has been altered by how politically correct you must be today when you say things or get ripped to shreads for being "homophobic", insensitive, prejudice or whatever you want to call it.) It's like everybody has to have a "cause". If you are different, that's a badge of pride now days AND you must be proud of it(not saying anyone shouldn't be selfconfident-there i go again trying to watch how i say things on such a sensitive topic to avoid controversy) AND you must be outspoken and "equal" and whatever people/society say you can't/shouldn't do, why then, that's EXACTLY what you must do to prove society wrong and force other people to "accept" you/your views/way of life.
The whole gay thing fits this perfectly. I liken it to this segment of society feeling like they are like blacks of the Jim Crow/segregation era(which many argue they are exactly the same as in terms of rights and such) who are oppressed and this is all about liberation and breaking down of (homophobic) barriers just like blacks broke down color barriers integrating white orgs and/or starting our own. Besides now days pop culture pushes the acceptance of alternative lifestyles (look at all the MTV/network TV sitcoms that shows the gay life style in a positive "it's ok to be gay" light and frowns on anti-gay sentiment as "backwards", "Archie Bunkeresque" etc,,) which further embloldens this type of social change lets call it. So these guys are more free than ever to express themselves by doing this type of thing is the way i see it and why I was being sarcastic/facetious in my original reply to this thread lampooning the way our increasingly indoctrinated to be ultra-tolerant of everything/everybody society is today.
The whole gay thing fits this perfectly. I liken it to this segment of society feeling like they are like blacks of the Jim Crow/segregation era(which many argue they are exactly the same as in terms of rights and such) who are oppressed and this is all about liberation and breaking down of (homophobic) barriers just like blacks broke down color barriers integrating white orgs and/or starting our own. Besides now days pop culture pushes the acceptance of alternative lifestyles (look at all the MTV/network TV sitcoms that shows the gay life style in a positive "it's ok to be gay" light and frowns on anti-gay sentiment as "backwards", "Archie Bunkeresque" etc,,) which further embloldens this type of social change lets call it. So these guys are more free than ever to express themselves by doing this type of thing is the way i see it and why I was being sarcastic/facetious in my original reply to this thread lampooning the way our increasingly indoctrinated to be ultra-tolerant of everything/everybody society is today.
Bartram
Brand HBCUbian
Addendum to previous:
Ironically that's what this country is founded on and/or has become so famous for around the planet. You can come to this country and no matter what your circumstance, you can be what you want to be and if there are social norms you can change them. Blacks in America, ironic that we are on this topic, have been the most successful at being a much (the most) maligned group to go from least accepted to mainstream most integrated and actually i think every group, everybody with a "cause" uses the black civil rights movement and the assention of blacks in American society in general as their road map to acceptance and changing of socio-political views in this country. Gays are only one of the latest iterations of countless groups who have followed the example of American black society's struggle for equal rights and justice under the law and socio-political acceptance. so that's the ironic thing about this country; it's like be careful what you ask for because one day there will be something you don't agree with that some other group will demand. yet and still, you can't rightly discriminate against people-or can you in certain circumstances (i mean there have been all kinds of movements for females to integrate traditionally male worlds right?), i'm asking not stating definitively so don't blast away at me just posing question,, which is why this is such a complicated issue to deal with. what do you do?
Ironically that's what this country is founded on and/or has become so famous for around the planet. You can come to this country and no matter what your circumstance, you can be what you want to be and if there are social norms you can change them. Blacks in America, ironic that we are on this topic, have been the most successful at being a much (the most) maligned group to go from least accepted to mainstream most integrated and actually i think every group, everybody with a "cause" uses the black civil rights movement and the assention of blacks in American society in general as their road map to acceptance and changing of socio-political views in this country. Gays are only one of the latest iterations of countless groups who have followed the example of American black society's struggle for equal rights and justice under the law and socio-political acceptance. so that's the ironic thing about this country; it's like be careful what you ask for because one day there will be something you don't agree with that some other group will demand. yet and still, you can't rightly discriminate against people-or can you in certain circumstances (i mean there have been all kinds of movements for females to integrate traditionally male worlds right?), i'm asking not stating definitively so don't blast away at me just posing question,, which is why this is such a complicated issue to deal with. what do you do?
Dr. Sweet NUPE
New Member
What I am saying is toys have toned down over the years...
staggalee83
War & Thunder
To a non-existant gender netural status. :shame:
If it was a toy gun or any activity that involved "physical activity", ............ dodgeball for example, it was deemed not right.
The age of self-esteem..........................Little boy's were made to feel like something was wrong with them if they even looked like they had "MAN" tendencies. :lol:
Da_Sperm
New Member
Well, it ain't fair to the OLD HEAD GAY PEOPLE. I remember back in the day, the real gay (males) were straight up GAY. I mean, they walked gay, talked gay, no shame in their game. They had some very manly qualities to, because if you F'ed with one of em, you were likely to get your azz whipped. They were also the fastest guys on the track team for some reason.
But now, this gay thing is more of a FAD, than a way of life. Women want other women because they want to experience it, not because they are gay. Same with men. Back in the day, you could tell who was going to be GAY at age 8 or 9. Its different now, it comes later in life, sometimes very late.
I know I couldn't be gay simply because when its time for me to be F'ed in the azz, I'm out the game. I'm scared to get that exam men get at age 40.
But now, this gay thing is more of a FAD, than a way of life. Women want other women because they want to experience it, not because they are gay. Same with men. Back in the day, you could tell who was going to be GAY at age 8 or 9. Its different now, it comes later in life, sometimes very late.
I know I couldn't be gay simply because when its time for me to be F'ed in the azz, I'm out the game. I'm scared to get that exam men get at age 40.
97JSULEGEND
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Warndalyn
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HoldMyDrink
New Member
**To the men who are members of underground sororities***
Wow, what attention has been brought to you in the past few days! No matter where we turned, we saw pictures of one of your events. In our email, on message boards, and on facebook, we saw pictures of what appeared to be a probate show. Several comments we read about these pictures were complimentary ? focusing mainly on your outfits and masks, as well as some of your individual physical features.
Unfortunately, the majority of the comments we read were negative. The homophobia that was so virulent in these responses was not your fault. We will not condone any responses that threatened your safety or right to express yourselves the way you see fit. Those comments against you were wrong and we hope that those people one day see the error of their hatred.
You know that the world in which we live is not forgiving to gay men. You know that it is even less forgiving for gay men who embrace a more feminine aesthetic. In 2006, our hero Kevin Aviance was nearly beaten to death. Transgender people all across this country are being brutally murdered. And we aren?t that far away from the death of Matthew Shepard. Yes, it is dangerous out here for all gay people, especially those who are not closeted or on the so-called ?DL.?
That is why along with the right to express yourselves freely also comes a very important responsibility. Gentlemen, your actions go beyond expressing yourselves. You are expressing an affinity for and connection to an organization that does not feel that same connection to you. It is unfair of you to express yourselves in this way when the vast majority of members of this organization do not identify with you.
When you dress in pink and green, assume the ?ivy stance? and mirrors, have probate shows, line up according to height and number yourselves?when you assemble yourselves into an organization that, at best, idolizes the organization that you admire so highly, it actually does the exact opposite of what you intend. It forces a relationship that was not meant to be. It is unfair to the women that you idolize.
By now, many of you are reading this and are pointing to your history as a justification for your existence. We will not be the one to tell you that your history is not real. However, we do implore you ? share the text that confirms the existence of ?Wade Lyle? and then we can continue this discourse on a scholarly level.
Until then, we ask you, men to men ? stop what you are doing. In addition to the strife you are causing the women you admire, you are making it hard for gay men who are fighting in other arenas on your behalf. The closeted gay men who were inching toward the outness that you celebrate are now inching in the other direction because of the homophobia that you are inciting. The out gay men who are striving toward equality can?t defend you when your lack of decorum is so blatant.
What can we now? We humbly and respectfully ask you to stop. It is harming gay black men. It is harming the sorority you are emulating. It is harming men in gay fraternities with their own unique identity. It is harming gay members of traditional fraternities and sororities. In fact, your actions are only benefiting yourselves ? which is antithetical to the values of the sorority you are attempting to emulate.
You have the power to end underground sororities. If it is fraternalism that you seek, there are several fraternities for gay men of color. In fact, there are fraternities for lesbian women ? why can?t there be a sorority for gay men? I want you to be inspired to make that change. Eliminate the traditions of another organization from your program. Be yourselves. Be strong. Be unique.
If you do not stop these behaviors, we cannot continue to include you in the discourse on equality. It is unfair to have to defend your right to express yourselves when you take it too far. In addition, if you do not end these harmful traditions, we will not support your candidacy in traditional fraternities through sponsorship, letters of reference, or an affirmative vote. Finally, we will endeavor to report your unauthorized use and reproduction of registered trademarks to the appropriate officials. Your use of official sorority symbols is perhaps the most brazen of your disrespectful actions.
We will continue to pray for your continued safety in the areas in which you operate. Most importantly, we will continue to hope that you change your ways before a homophobe decides to take the decision away from you.
Peace and blessings,
Concerned gay men of color.
*If you know an underground sorority member, please send this to them.*
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Wow, what attention has been brought to you in the past few days! No matter where we turned, we saw pictures of one of your events. In our email, on message boards, and on facebook, we saw pictures of what appeared to be a probate show. Several comments we read about these pictures were complimentary ? focusing mainly on your outfits and masks, as well as some of your individual physical features.
Unfortunately, the majority of the comments we read were negative. The homophobia that was so virulent in these responses was not your fault. We will not condone any responses that threatened your safety or right to express yourselves the way you see fit. Those comments against you were wrong and we hope that those people one day see the error of their hatred.
You know that the world in which we live is not forgiving to gay men. You know that it is even less forgiving for gay men who embrace a more feminine aesthetic. In 2006, our hero Kevin Aviance was nearly beaten to death. Transgender people all across this country are being brutally murdered. And we aren?t that far away from the death of Matthew Shepard. Yes, it is dangerous out here for all gay people, especially those who are not closeted or on the so-called ?DL.?
That is why along with the right to express yourselves freely also comes a very important responsibility. Gentlemen, your actions go beyond expressing yourselves. You are expressing an affinity for and connection to an organization that does not feel that same connection to you. It is unfair of you to express yourselves in this way when the vast majority of members of this organization do not identify with you.
When you dress in pink and green, assume the ?ivy stance? and mirrors, have probate shows, line up according to height and number yourselves?when you assemble yourselves into an organization that, at best, idolizes the organization that you admire so highly, it actually does the exact opposite of what you intend. It forces a relationship that was not meant to be. It is unfair to the women that you idolize.
By now, many of you are reading this and are pointing to your history as a justification for your existence. We will not be the one to tell you that your history is not real. However, we do implore you ? share the text that confirms the existence of ?Wade Lyle? and then we can continue this discourse on a scholarly level.
Until then, we ask you, men to men ? stop what you are doing. In addition to the strife you are causing the women you admire, you are making it hard for gay men who are fighting in other arenas on your behalf. The closeted gay men who were inching toward the outness that you celebrate are now inching in the other direction because of the homophobia that you are inciting. The out gay men who are striving toward equality can?t defend you when your lack of decorum is so blatant.
What can we now? We humbly and respectfully ask you to stop. It is harming gay black men. It is harming the sorority you are emulating. It is harming men in gay fraternities with their own unique identity. It is harming gay members of traditional fraternities and sororities. In fact, your actions are only benefiting yourselves ? which is antithetical to the values of the sorority you are attempting to emulate.
You have the power to end underground sororities. If it is fraternalism that you seek, there are several fraternities for gay men of color. In fact, there are fraternities for lesbian women ? why can?t there be a sorority for gay men? I want you to be inspired to make that change. Eliminate the traditions of another organization from your program. Be yourselves. Be strong. Be unique.
If you do not stop these behaviors, we cannot continue to include you in the discourse on equality. It is unfair to have to defend your right to express yourselves when you take it too far. In addition, if you do not end these harmful traditions, we will not support your candidacy in traditional fraternities through sponsorship, letters of reference, or an affirmative vote. Finally, we will endeavor to report your unauthorized use and reproduction of registered trademarks to the appropriate officials. Your use of official sorority symbols is perhaps the most brazen of your disrespectful actions.
We will continue to pray for your continued safety in the areas in which you operate. Most importantly, we will continue to hope that you change your ways before a homophobe decides to take the decision away from you.
Peace and blessings,
Concerned gay men of color.
*If you know an underground sorority member, please send this to them.*
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Jax
Chief Trolling offICEr
:lmao: at phrat. I'm sced to get that exam too, but...I gotta git er done.