THE WORD LOVE AND WHAT WOULD YOU DO OR THINK


gramuntildeath said:
Historyyyyyy

1. What if you knew they cheated on you??
2. They also lied on numerous occasion about there whereabouts.
3. What if you went out of town to hang out with some friends and you ran into them and they were supposign to be staying at a friends house and then you find out they stayed at a hotel for a weekend.......
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JSTUS said:
Yes. We do have expections. Take note of when they don't meet your expectations and respond accordingly. :idea:
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ARE YOU READING WHAT WE SAY? :lecture:
 



gramuntildeath said:
She loves him ALOT!!!!!!!!
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If he shows that he loves her ALOT, he may not be the type of person who can say it. Some people are not brought up in families where 'I love you' is verbalize, BUT it is shown.

If she basing her relationship off of words and not actions, maybe she need to evaluate why she NEED to hear it RIGHT NOW.
 
SLT said:
If he shows that he loves her ALOT, he may not be the type of person who can say it. Some people are not brought up in families where 'I love you' is verbalize, BUT it is shown.

If she basing her relationship off of words and not actions, maybe she need to evaluate why she NEED to hear it RIGHT NOW.
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She does not have to neccesarily hear it but she cannot truly determine if he really cares about her and that is her struggle.
 
aamuprettywoman said:
Shouldn't be saying it if he/she doesn't mean it.
Just because you feel that way does not mean the other person feels the same way regardless of how many years or days you've been seeing each other. Years and time does not = love...only love=love. There are people that have been together in shorter length relationships that love each other more than people that have been together or known each other for 10, 20, 30 or 40 years.

Thus, the divorce rate.
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Agreed.:tup:
 
CriTAUcal said:
Sounds like she needs to love herself first.
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I know without a shadow of a doubt that she does love herself but when she met him she thought he was just a perfect person.

I was informed that he says he has two personalities. He has two names for himself. :what::what:
 
gramuntildeath said:
Historyyyyyy

1. What if you knew they cheated on you??
2. They also lied on numerous occasion about there whereabouts.
3. What if you went out of town to hang out with some friends and you ran into them and they were supposign to be staying at a friends house and then you find out they stayed at a hotel for a weekend.......
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This is enough to SHOW he does not love her.

gramuntildeath said:
She does not have to neccesarily hear it but she cannot truly determine if he really cares about her and that is her struggle.
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She must be her Momma's slowest child. I really hope she's not having sex with him and ceases to really invest in this person.
 
gramuntildeath said:
I was informed that he says he has two personalities. He has two names for himself. :what::what:
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This is getting to be hilariously ridiculous now. One name he uses with her and the other with his other woman. One personality to reel her in and the other with he's not with her. :shame:
 
When I was single, I didn't give a dayum if a woman told me she loved me everyday, she wasn't getting it from me, unless I absolutely felt that way. Period!!!

I don't care if it's a week, month, year, 2 years, love has no timetable, and your friend needs to understand that, and if that's what she wants, and can't get, she needs to get to steppin.

GUD, I can understand being in a friends corner, but getting yourself emotionally caught up in their relationships can be mentally draining for you. Tell your friend to schit, or get off the pot.

Right now it seems as though you're taking it just as personal as your friend is (not saying that you are), and if you are, you're in their bid'ness just a tad bit too much, and it may be time for you to give your friend your advice, and then back up off that relationship. You've said what you can say, and done all you could do, and now it's up to them....but as aapw, and others have said, love has no timetable my friend, and ones actions will tell you more how they feel, than any word can say.

Good luck with your friend.

NICE
 
JSTUS said:
This is getting to be hilariously ridiculous now. One name he uses with her and the other with his other woman. One personality to reel her in and the other with he's not with her. :shame:
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1st name= maternal name he uses when at work being professional, etc.....




2nd =The other name is really a weekend name that gets out of control and will do things that the first one would not do.(IS THAT NOT CRAZY OR WHAT)

I'm like so the 2nd person might hit you .....:no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no:
 



D-NICE said:
When I was single, I didn't give a dayum if a woman told me she loved me everyday, she wasn't getting it from me, unless I absolutely felt that way. Period!!!

I don't care if it's a week, month, year, 2 years, love has no timetable, and your friend needs to understand that, and if that's what she wants, and can't get, she needs to get to steppin.

GUD, I can understand being in a friends corner, but getting yourself emotionally caught up in their relationships can be mentally draining for you. Tell your friend to schit, or get off the pot.

Right now it seems as though you're taking it just as personal as your friend is (not saying that you are), and if you are, you're in their bid'ness just a tad bit too much, and it may be time for you to give your friend your advice, and then back up off that relationship. You've said what you can say, and done all you could do, and now it's up to them....but as aapw, and others have said, love has no timetable my friend, and ones actions will tell you more how they feel, than any word can say.

Good luck with your friend.

NICE
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DNICE, I'll never stress behind someone relationship bruh. Hell I was just telling MSGSU yesterday after my interview for a job that a guy interviewing me asked me: IF WE WERE IN A STAFF MEETING AND I SAID SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE DID NOT LIKE AND GOT CALLED OUT TO TAKE A CALL AND THEY WERE IN THERE TRYING TO GET OTHER TO SEE THERE POINT WOULD YOU BASICALLY CLICK UP WITH THE REST OF THEM: GUD RESPONSE WAS UMMMM SIR I STAND ON MY OWN TWO FEET AND I DON'T ALLOW OTHERS TO MAKE MY DECISIONS FOR ME. WHAT I LOOK LIKE BEING UPSET WHEN HE COME BACK INTO THE ROOM AND SPEAKING OUT AND THAT PERSON IS OVER THERE LOOKING WHILE THE SH** IS ABOUT TO HIT THE FAN... NOT GUD NOT GUD.....


Dnice I just hate telling other folks what they should be doing!!!!!
 
This ain't about love, this is about whether or not she sees this brother for who he is. She sees it, but is looking for someone to deny what she sees, and feels. It hurts to love someone who doesn't love you back, but what hurts more is handing over your self-esteem, confidence and love for self, to someone who doesn't give a rat's azz.

I agree with Crit, talk to him...but by his actions (and that dual-personality) she really doesn't know him...and he doesn't care.

She sees it, and she should be singing, "to the left, to the left."
 
gramuntildeath said:
I just hate telling other folks what they should be doing!!!!!
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You're just simply giving advice, no more, or no less. My thing is, don't let their problem become yours, when they're not doing anything (or so it seems) to make the situation better.

Believe me man, being a brother to sisters, and play brother to female friends, I've been through enough relationships with them to tell you, after a while no matter how many times you advise them, tell them, show them, they're not going anywhere, or they not going to do anything until they get fed up. In the meantime, you keep hearing the same ol crap about their crappy relationship, until you get tired of dude, or them, whichever comes first.

NICE
 
Jacy said:
This ain't about love, this is about whether or not she sees this brother for who he is. She sees it, but is looking for someone to deny what she sees, and feels. It hurts to love someone who doesn't love you back, but what hurts more is handing over your self-esteem, confidence and love for self, to someone who doesn't give a rat's azz.

I agree with Crit, talk to him...but by his actions (and that dual-personality) she really doesn't know him...and he doesn't care.

She sees it, and she should be singing, "to the left, to the left."
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J, stop listening to Teddy Pendergrass woman. LOL

NICE
 
Jacy said:
This ain't about love, this is about whether or not she sees this brother for who he is. She sees it, but is looking for someone to deny what she sees, and feels. It hurts to love someone who doesn't love you back, but what hurts more is handing over your self-esteem, confidence and love for self, to someone who doesn't give a rat's azz.


:jump: :jump: :jump: :jump:

I agree with Crit, talk to him...but by his actions (and that dual-personality) she really doesn't know him...and he doesn't care.

She sees it, and she should be singing, "to the left, to the left."
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IN A NUTSHELL!!!!!!
 
D-NICE said:
You're just simply giving advice, no more, or no less. My thing is, don't let their problem become yours, when they're not doing anything (or so it seems) to make the situation better.

Believe me man, being a brother to sisters, and play brother to female friends, I've been through enough relationships with them to tell you, after a while no matter how many times you advise them, tell them, show them, they're not going anywhere, or they not going to do anything until they get fed up. In the meantime, you keep hearing the same ol crap about their crappy relationship, until you get tired of dude, or them, whichever comes first.

NICE
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