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Condoms don't protect a man from bat crap craziness. The best form of protection is ABSTINENCE. We need to teach our young Black men to look for the right signs in a woman before they get involved with a female that is just eye candy at first sight. I'm sure if a few of us on this board had the chance to do things all over again, we would not have gotten involved with a few people in our lives. But too many of us act in the heat of the moment, which is why hindsight is 20/20. A good way of helping our young Black men to recognize bat crap craziness is to teach them basic logic/math and the natural laws of science. If they encounter women who disagree with basic logic/math or the natural laws of science, they need to leave those women completely ALONE. In most cases, if the wrapping on the outside looks TOO good, more than likely the wrapping on the inside is not wrapped too tight. LOL!!!

Below is a good example of some crazy female I encountered in a FB Spades Plus game. After the game was over, I had to post the game's dramatic ending.on my FB timeline . A simple example like this one could help young Black men to distinguish a crazy person from a sane person. It also works in reverse for young women, but too many young Black men are the ones that are always getting caught in some crazy woman's venus fly trap. But there is this one female I do know who is having a hard time getting rid of some crazy fool she once dated. Not only he has once tried to choke her, but supposedly he has just recently broken her foot in a car door. From what I understand, the police is now searching for this crazy fool. Her situation is similar to the scene in the movie 'I Think I Love My Wife' when Teddy (Michael Kenneth Williams) who lived in DC started kicking Richard Cooper's (Chris Rock) azz for helping the ex-girlfriend (Kerry Washington) move her stuff out of his apartment. Once Richard Cooper escaped from getting his behind beaten, thanks to the arrival of two police officers, it was later broadcast on the evening news that Teddy had shot the two police officers and was apprehended after a violent standoff. LMAO!!! IMO, it would be hard for any man to date females like that due to their crazy past.

Spades Plus game dramatic ending I posted on my timeline:
There are some dummies that play Spades Plus. This one female who was my partner, left before she could collect her winnings. She actually thought that we had lost the game, since a player on the other team was successful in making a nil (100 points) in the final hand. The score was 182 to 154 in our favor. The game was to 250. Both my partner (crazy female that left) and I bid 5 books each or 10 books total, while the other team's bid was 2 books in one hand and a nil in the other hand. Based on the math alone, all we had to do was make our books and we win. We made 11 books and the other team made their 2 books and the nil. The finally score was 283 to 274 in our favor. But since my partner wasn't able to do the math, she got upset and left before the game ended. She missed out on collecting her coins due to dumbness. This is why it is so important for individuals to stay in school. Too many people are always missing out on their fortunes due their own ignorance and would blame others for their own shortcomings. LMAO!!!
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Below is the full movie 'I Think I Love My Wife'. For the movie scene I referenced above, fast forward to the 34:50 minute mark and watch to the 42:48 minute mark. IMO, that was one of the funniest part of the movie. LMAO!!!

 
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Are these two still together. From what I've heard, he has caught hell from white people for doing this. I'm sure a few sistas gave him hell too. LOL!!!

 
JAG89 said:
Condoms don't protect a man from bat crap craziness. The best form of protection is ABSTINENCE. We need to teach our young Black men to look for the right signs in a woman before they get involved with a female that is just eye candy at first sight. I'm sure if a few of us on this board had the chance to do things all over again, we would not have gotten involved with a few people in our lives. But too many of us act in the heat of the moment, which is why hindsight is 20/20. A good way of helping our young Black men to recognize bat crap craziness is to teach them basic logic/math and the natural laws of science. If they encounter women who disagree with basic logic/math or the natural laws of science, they need to leave those women completely ALONE. In most cases, if the wrapping on the outside looks TOO good, more than likely the wrapping on the inside is not wrapped too tight. LOL!!!

Below is a good example of some crazy female I encountered in a FB Spades Plus game. After the game was over, I had to post the game's dramatic ending.on my FB timeline . A simple example like this one could help young Black men to distinguish a crazy person from a sane person. It also works in reverse for young women, but too many young Black men are the ones that are always getting caught in some crazy woman's venus fly trap. But there is this one female I do know who is having a hard time getting rid of some crazy fool she once dated. Not only he has once tried to choke her, but supposedly he has just recently broken her foot in a car door. From what I understand, the police is now searching for this crazy fool. Her situation is similar to the scene in the movie 'I Think I Love My Wife' when Teddy (Michael Kenneth Williams) who lived in DC started kicking Richard Cooper's (Chris Rock) azz for helping the ex-girlfriend (Kerry Washington) move her stuff out of his apartment. Once Richard Cooper escaped from getting his behind beaten, thanks to the arrival of two police officers, it was later broadcast on the evening news that Teddy had shot the two police officers and was apprehended after a violent standoff. LMAO!!! IMO, it would be hard for any man to date females like that due to their crazy past.

Spades Plus game dramatic ending I posted on my timeline:


Below is the full movie 'I Think I Love My Wife'. For the movie scene I referenced above, fast forward to the 34:50 minute mark and watch to the 42:48 minute mark. IMO, that was one of the funniest part of the movie. LMAO!!!

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Man that can only be taught with experience. Ain't no man who has not had a crazy woman trying to hear that. Hell I had two bat shit crazy women. I told my wife that every man will choose a woman that will totally turn his life upside down at one point and time in his life. I mean she will have a cat totally confused about life in general. LMAO!!!!

That puddin be strong with them crazy chicks.
 
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Man that can only be taught with experience. Ain't no man who has not had a crazy woman trying to hear that. Hell I had two bat shit crazy women. I told my wife that every man will choose a woman that will totally turn his life upside down at one point and time in his life. I mean she will have a cat totally confused about life in general. LMAO!!!!

That puddin be strong with them crazy chicks.
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I know nature can be so cruel and some young Brothers won't listen, but we have to do whatever we can to teach those that will listen the life mistakes we have made, hoping that they won't make the same mistakes. When my dad was police officer, touring the local jail left a life long experience on me at a young age. Also, my dad would show us pictures of friends who have died in some foolish car accident. I still remember this one dude in high school who died in a car accident. His body was cut in half after wrapping his car around a power pole from racing another car. During that time, my older brother who is now a police officer would always race against my cousin along a main highway back home. LA Hwy 1 (3rd Street in Alexandria, LA) passes through several neighborhoods back home and it was one of their main roads they would choose to raced on. They would sometimes continue their racing road rage from Alexandria, LA to Marksville, LA, which is approximately 25 miles apart in distance. After their race would be over, they would get together to brag about how they made it from one city to the other within 10 to 15 minutes. A few times, I was crazy enough to ride along. Like the danger of racing, we have to show this young Brothers how confused and messed up their life could quite possibly become from chasing behind bat crap crazy eye candy or sweet smelling sexy looking hoodrats.
 
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Man that can only be taught with experience. Ain't no man who has not had a crazy woman trying to hear that. Hell I had two bat shit crazy women. I told my wife that every man will choose a woman that will totally turn his life upside down at one point and time in his life. I mean she will have a cat totally confused about life in general. LMAO!!!!

That puddin be strong with them crazy chicks.
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"stronger than pride stronger than teflon"
 
Man let's be real. Men like beautiful women. A woman with a nice shape, nice azz, pretty feet, pretty teeth, well groomed nails, well groomed hair, sexy walk and pretty eyes is what every man dreams of and See's first. The only laws of physics men wanna be taught is how to beat that puddin into submission. In that cat gets hot somebody's gonna get it. That's why wearing a condom must be taught. Folks been licking and sticking sense Eve got butt naked and touched Adams balls.
 
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Man let's be real. Men like beautiful women. A woman with a nice shape, nice azz, pretty feet, pretty teeth, well groomed nails, well groomed hair, sexy walk and pretty eyes is what every man dreams of and See's first. The only laws of physics men wanna be taught is how to beat that puddin into submission. In that cat gets hot somebody's gonna get it. That's why wearing a condom must be taught. Folks been licking and sticking sense Eve got butt naked and touched Adams balls.
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From experience, all that prettiness come with a price. I have yet to see the perfect woman who was extremely beautiful and I have met some of the prettiest women on the planet when I lived in Los Angeles. Again, condoms can't stop bat crap craziness. All it takes is one bi-polar second and you just might wake-up with your Johnson's cut off. And if you are lucky, physics might help you find your sh!t intact so that a medical doctor can re-attach it. LMAO!!!
 
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JAG89 said:
From experience, all prettiness that come with a prize. I have yet to see the perfect woman who was extremely beautiful and I have met some of the prettiest women on the planet when I lived in Los Angeles. Again, condoms can't stop bat crap craziness. All it takes is one bi-polar second and you just might wake-up with you Johnson's cut off. And if you are lucky, physics might help you find your sh!t intact so that a medical doctor can re-attach it. LMAO!!!
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We are all in our 40s...hell when we were 19...a fresh in college even woman was fair game...LOL
 
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We are all in our 40s...hell when we were 19...a fresh in college even woman was fair game...LOL
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Until you realize that the fair game you've been chasing is really wild game that you can't handle. When I was SU, one of your Kappa brothers got arrested for beating up this cute girl from Tallulah, LA. The Kappa who was from another state, apparently came from a family with a little money. Not only he stayed off-campus in his own apartment, he also drove a brand new Nissan 300ZX. You know as well as I do that most Black people from Tallulah, LA or anywhere in Northeast Louisiana are barely making ends meet, but what I was told the girlfriend was very cute with a funky attitude and rarely spoke to anyone. By the Kappa having his own place off-campus, she wasn't the only girl he was hitting. One evening, the girlfriend decided to visit him at his off-campus apartment, but he wasn't for her company, since he had another female at his place at the time. Once the girlfriend realized what was going on, she decided to take her anger and frustration out on his brand new Nissan 300ZX. From what I was told, she slashed all the tires, broke all the windows, scratched up the car's paint from front to back, and did others damages to the car. The next day, the Kappa and his frat brother caught her at the cafeteria (Mayberry Hall), which the Kappa proceeded to beat her while his frat brothers stood-by to make sure no else jumped in. From what I understand, she ended up with several broken bones, bruises all over, and a cracked skull. Supposedly, the Kappa got arrested and she was walking around campus with a head brace and a whiplash collar on speaking to people that she had never spoken to before. The moral of the story, everything that happen to her and the Kappa could have easily been avoided if they didn't get so wrapped up into each other, but I'm sure the frustration of her not having much and being played by him made her go a little overboard on his car, which resulted in him going overboard on her. People need to be careful before they decide to seriously get involved with one another, which most females feel as if you and her are having sex, then ya'll are having a serious relationship, unless she comes out and tell you that she is only doing it for the money. Therefore, pay her and be on your happy way, until you can get so more money and CONDOMS to pay her again.

Thank God for Youtube. Now people can see just how bad bat crap crazy can be:

In this video, she really tried to kill him. Good thing that fool had some quick reactions:

This is when both are bat crap crazy and use their cars as bumper cars:
 
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The Founder said:
Man that can only be taught with experience. Ain't no man who has not had a crazy woman trying to hear that. Hell I had two bat shit crazy women. I told my wife that every man will choose a woman that will totally turn his life upside down at one point and time in his life. I mean she will have a cat totally confused about life in general. LMAO!!!!

That puddin be strong with them crazy chicks.
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Quick question: If you had to do it all over again and you knew those two bat shit crazy women you dated were the way they are, would you have dated them??? If you say yes that means you are hardheaded and don't listen to other's GOOD advice and if you say no that means you had no one to tell you any different. My parents told me some things that I took for granted, but they also told me some things that were very helpful advice. I guess we should ignore the cycle of screw ups when it comes to Black kids and let them experience life for themselves, which explains why a lot of highly educated individuals (people in the teaching profession) have some of the dumbest kids on the planet. I guess those kids have to learn for themselves.
 
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Quick question: If you had to do it all over again and you knew those two bat shit crazy women you dated were the way they are, would you have dated them??? If you say yes that means you are hardheaded and don't listen to other's GOOD advice and if you say no that means you had no one to tell you any different. My parents told me some things that I took for granted, but they also told me some things that were very helpful advice. I guess we should ignore the cycle of screw ups when it comes to Black kids and let them experience life for themselves, which explains why a lot of highly educated individuals (people in the teaching profession) have some of the dumbest kids on the planet. I guess those kids have to learn for themselves.
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If I had to do it over again ALOT in life would change but it would also change my present. Which is why I don't like to think about those scenarios. My parents told me the best ass whoopin is the one you give yourself. If a child grows up and never fucks up...when they do fuck up as an adult it is EPIC!

It's good to protect your kids but there comes a time where the child must leave the nest. Yet, as parents we have to teach them but let's be honest, as adults we often forget that at one time we were young screwed up, thought we knew it all and the answers to life. Later we got a reality check.
 



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If I had to do it over again ALOT in life would change but it would also change my present. Which is why I don't like to think about those scenarios. My parents told me the best ass whoopin is the one you give yourself. If a child grows up and never fucks up...when they do fuck up as an adult it is EPIC!

It's good to protect your kids but there comes a time where the child must leave the nest. Yet, as parents we have to teach them but let's be honest, as adults we often forget that at one time we were young screwed up, thought we knew it all and the answers to life. Later we got a reality check.
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The Founder said:
If I had to do it over again ALOT in life would change but it would also change my present. Which is why I don't like to think about those scenarios. My parents told me the best ass whoopin is the one you give yourself. If a child grows up and never fucks up...when they do fuck up as an adult it is EPIC!

It's good to protect your kids but there comes a time where the child must leave the nest. Yet, as parents we have to teach them but let's be honest, as adults we often forget that at one time we were young screwed up, thought we knew it all and the answers to life. Later we got a reality check.
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Any screw up could end up EPIC, which is why you as a parent should do your best to help your child understand that. I recently read an article in the Baton Rouge Advocate, where some female in Baton Rouge was shot and killed by here ex-boyfriend. Supposedly, due to the ex-boyfriend's criminal past, she was warned by several individuals that he was bad news and she shouldn't date him. I guess those individuals should have kept their mouth shut and let her find out for herself. Either way, she'll never get a second chance to do different.

Gross said their family — and other people — had tried to convince Maxie that Antoine was bad news.

"People she didn't know who knew him, they tried to tell her that he was a bad person," said Niette Maxie, another sister of the victim. "We couldn't choose for her, she had to find out."

http://www.theadvocate.com/baton_ro...cle_db0b1a12-6a35-11e7-8d23-8b728b204891.html
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JAG89 said:
Any screw up could end up EPIC, which is why you as a parent should do your best to help your child understand that. I recently read an article in the Baton Rouge Advocate, where some female in Baton Rouge was shot and killed by here ex-boyfriend. Supposedly, due to the ex-boyfriend's criminal past, she was warned by several individuals that he was bad news and she shouldn't date him. I guess those individuals should have kept their mouth shut and let her find out for herself. Either way, she'll never get a second chance to do different.
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Bad things happen to good people. Also, if she was warned then whatever happens is on her. This is the reason we have so many kids that don't amount to shit. They are coddled and babied but when they hit the adult life they are forced in 360 degrees and have no idea of how to manage life.

Let's face it no matter how much a person is warned you can't control their decisions. I tell folks all the time, I warn an adult one time. That's it. I don't care how close we are. I don't have the time nor inclination to keep on trying to save, and save, and save. Sooner or later I would start neglecting myself. Part of me has also got to the point where I don't even get involved with giving other kids advice because of what has happened to me in the past with a confrontation with another father who wasn't shit and was mad because his son was seeking advice from me. The sad part is he is a relative of my wife on his mother's side. What's even more frustrating is her family looks at me as the blueprint for the young men because I'm able to say I fucked up; but rebounded and moved on.
 
Don't RG3 have a pre-nup? I don't think she will get more than child support since she signed a pre-nup agreement.
But he is a simp. LOL.
 
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Bad things happen to good people. Also, if she was warned then whatever happens is on her. This is the reason we have so many kids that don't amount to shit. They are coddled and babied but when they hit the adult life they are forced in 360 degrees and have no idea of how to manage life.

Let's face it no matter how much a person is warned you can't control their decisions. I tell folks all the time, I warn an adult one time. That's it. I don't care how close we are. I don't have the time nor inclination to keep on trying to save, and save, and save. Sooner or later I would start neglecting myself. Part of me has also got to the point where I don't even get involved with giving other kids advice because of what has happened to me in the past with a confrontation with another father who wasn't shit and was mad because his son was seeking advice from me. The sad part is he is a relative of my wife on his mother's side. What's even more frustrating is her family looks at me as the blueprint for the young men because I'm able to say I fucked up; but rebounded and moved on.
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I'm sure you meant 180 degrees and not 360 degrees. 360 degrees is heading back in the same direction as one started. Our kids need good advice from day one, reinforced by showing them examples. We as parents can't continue to shelter them from the outside world and expect them to know what to do once they are adults. Doing this might reduce a lot of the shucking and jiving that we see everyday in Black communities. It has gotten so bad, even Black churches have succumbed to using some of the same dumb methods found in the hood as a means of survival. Now our HBCUs are beginning to experience such behavior more frequently. Stuff have gotten completely out of control in most Black communities. It's not just one simple solution. The difficult thing about raising a Black child in this world today, not only we have to teach them to understand the BS in Black communities, but we have to teach them to understand the BS in White communities, wheres White kids are raised in a stereotypical world that teaches them that most or all people of color are bad and not to be trusted, which also reinforces self-hatred within Black kids.
 
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I'm sure you meant 180 degrees and not 360 degrees. 360 degrees is heading back in the same direction as one started. Our kids need good advice from day one, reinforced by showing them examples. We as parents can't continue to shelter them from the outside world and expect them to know what to do once they are adults. Doing this might reduce a lot of the shucking and jiving that we see everyday in Black communities. It has gotten so bad, even Black churches have succumbed to using some of the same dumb methods found in the hood as a means of survival. Now our HBCUs are beginning to experience such behavior more frequently. Stuff have gotten completely out of control in most Black communities. It's not just one simple solution. The difficult thing about raising a Black child in this world today, not only we have to teach them to understand the BS in Black communities, but we have to teach them to understand the BS in White communities, wheres White kids are raised in a stereotypical world that teaches them that most or all people of color are bad and not to be trusted, which also reinforces self-hatred within Black kids.
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I meant 360 degrees. A crazy woman will have a dude go in an entire circle and go back in the same direction.....
 
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Well in that case, he won't be going anywhere. He'll just be spinning in circles.
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Basically....man that puddin is something powerful. In those cases you damn near have to get the man in an entirely different area. This type of situation usually happens after bereavement and the young man is living somewhere without family and friends. Meaning he is isolated with this woman.
 
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Basically....man that puddin is something powerful. In those cases you damn near have to get the man in an entirely different area. This type of situation usually happens after bereavement and the young man is living somewhere without family and friends. Meaning he is isolated with this woman.
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Black men have to realize that a lot of women need them to carry most of their physical burden. Basically, they are looking for a man to take care of the things that they refuse to do or can't do themselves . I remembered this chick from Nashville, TN jumping on my case when she decided to express her frustrations on FB on how an auto mechanic shop in Nashville screwed over her. My reply to her was for her to learn how to fix her car herself. Her reply back to me was that she was a girly girl and I better not ever suggest something like that to her again. So me being me replied back by saying, "I guess your only option is putting your trust in mechanics that might screw over you." Now we are no longer FB friends. LMAO!!! And what's sad, she claims she has a degree from Tennessee State. Even if she doesn't do the repairs herself, she should at least be able to read and understand how to fix her own car. At least she would have the knowledge to know which mechanics might screw over her and those that might not.
 
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