Vinita
Let's Go Lions, GO!
Okay, I have something I need feedback on. I have a male friend who is in somewhat of the doghouse. Let me give you some background.
Not too long ago, he and his wife were having some serious issues. However, they chose to stay together and weather the storm. While they were having problems, he had a "fling" with another woman.
*disclaimer: I am not trying to lay sole blame on the man, because the woman was no saint as far as behavior. However, her behavior didn't include adultery*
Anyway, the wife has found out that the husband is still in communication with this woman, and she is steaming like lava in water. My friend, however, does not understand the problem, because he considers this woman a "friend." To me, she is nothing more than a wolf in sheep's clothing, and he is extremely stupid for not seeing that.
When I say that, though, I get, "I thought I was your boy ... you don't give your boy any credit." Now, if you only communicate with someone on your cell phone, work phone, or via work e-mail, you are doing something you know you don't have any business doing, in my opinion. I could go on for days on this, but I want other opinions.
What's your take on this?
Not too long ago, he and his wife were having some serious issues. However, they chose to stay together and weather the storm. While they were having problems, he had a "fling" with another woman.
*disclaimer: I am not trying to lay sole blame on the man, because the woman was no saint as far as behavior. However, her behavior didn't include adultery*
Anyway, the wife has found out that the husband is still in communication with this woman, and she is steaming like lava in water. My friend, however, does not understand the problem, because he considers this woman a "friend." To me, she is nothing more than a wolf in sheep's clothing, and he is extremely stupid for not seeing that.
When I say that, though, I get, "I thought I was your boy ... you don't give your boy any credit." Now, if you only communicate with someone on your cell phone, work phone, or via work e-mail, you are doing something you know you don't have any business doing, in my opinion. I could go on for days on this, but I want other opinions.
What's your take on this?