Reading signs of attraction


Devil's Gun Trigger Man

Devil's Gun Trigger Man

onward and upward son!
I've talked to many people and from my personal experience it is sometimes hard to pick up when somebody is interested/attracted to you. Some people have said that they are totally oblivious, so what do you all think? How do you know? What signs give it away?
 
It takes a while to master that from women. They know we are slow, but over a period of time we learn the hints. :lol:
 



I think it's the eyes too, or moreso the look & being attentive. Men look at a woman a certain way when they're attracted to or feeling her. I can't really explain it, but I think y'all get what I'm saying. My lil shoobie doobie looks at me in a way no other man does...he acts as if I'm ALWAYS the only woman in the room.
 
What most men never realize is that not everyone will have game. Let's be honest, it is not how you say hello, but the way you say hello. Your body gives off a different kind of scent when you got those skills. Women naturally are attracted to it. You can be as ugly as Flavor Flav, but if you got that charm it just comes thru naturally. Some men try to have it, so just got it. Those women who are not even attracted to you or you don't fall in that kind of guy she is looking for finds something about you they like. It's called macking baby. You have to be born with it.
 
If she laugh at "any" you say that's not too serious....

Like they say..

If you could make her grin you are in..

:tup:
 
Warndalyn said:
I think it's the eyes too, or moreso the look & being attentive. Men look at a woman a certain way when they're attracted to or feeling her. I can't really explain it, but I think y'all get what I'm saying. My lil shoobie doobie looks at me in a way no other man does...he acts as if I'm ALWAYS the only woman in the room.
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lol!!!!! not yo shoobie doobie?
 
Devil's Gun Trigger Man said:
I've talked to many people and from my personal experience it is sometimes hard to pick up when somebody is interested/attracted to you. Some people have said that they are totally oblivious, so what do you all think? How do you know? What signs give it away?
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Devil's Gun Trigger Man said:
i am seeing that is a common theme with women, the feeling that the man is actually listening to them and is paying attention
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Attentiveness also includes initiating and returning calls/texts/emails, etc., remembering my likes and dislikes (i.e. I'm cold-natured so having the temp at 60 and/or not offering a blanket means you don't want me around), noticing this and that, etc etc.
 
Devil's Gun Trigger Man said:
I've talked to many people and from my personal experience it is sometimes hard to pick up when somebody is interested/attracted to you. Some people have said that they are totally oblivious, so what do you all think? How do you know? What signs give it away?
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Maybe you can help me.
There’s this nurse that always comes around,
Touching my arm, hands on my shoulders, always
Having something to say to me like
“you look tiredâ€
“you’re so smartâ€
“that’s a beautiful tie you have onâ€

We don’t even work together, but she always finds a way
To be in my grill.

Now I would normally say, ok she’s feeling a brother

BUT

She always finds a way to mention her husband to me,

Like “hey my husband has a vehicle like yoursâ€

Or “my husband has that same umbrellaâ€

I’m thinking WhyTF you keep coming around me
Seemingly flirting while simultaneously telling me all about your husband?

What’s up with this crazy chick?
 
Tony said:
Maybe you can help me.
There’s this nurse that always comes around,
Touching my arm, hands on my shoulders, always
Having something to say to me like
“you look tired”
“you’re so smart”
“that’s a beautiful tie you have on”

We don’t even work together, but she always finds a way
To be in my grill.

Now I would normally say, ok she’s feeling a brother

BUT

She always finds a way to mention her husband to me,

Like “hey my husband has a vehicle like yours”

Or “my husband has that same umbrella”

I’m thinking WhyTF you keep coming around me
Seemingly flirting while simultaneously telling me all about your husband?

What’s up with this crazy chick?
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Easy. She wants to show interest without looking desperate (ie, hiding behind using the hubby). What's she's hoping and waiting on is for you to show some interest back and to not care about her spouse. It'll lessen the guilt if she can cheat with you knowing her home situation.
 
CriTAUcal said:
Easy. She wants to show interest without looking desperate (ie, hiding behind using the hubby). What's she's hoping and waiting on is for you to show some interest back and to not care about her spouse. It'll lessen the guilt if she can cheat with you knowing her home situation.
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Let me get this straight,
She’s telling me about her husband so I will know she’s married
But @ the same time tryin’ to let me know that she’s down for whatever?
 
Tony said:
Let me get this straight,
She’s telling me about her husband so I will know she’s married
But @ the same time tryin’ to let me know that she’s down for whatever?
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From only what you're describing, yes. It sounds like she's trying to push up on you without appearing desperate or bold. Some men don't care about a woman having a husband. So she's testing you to see if you'll bite and see if you don't mind the spouse. If a woman is always in your face and especially touching on you, she sounds interested to me. Watch her interaction with other men and see if there's a difference. Is she always flirtatious with other men or just you?
 
CriTAUcal said:
From only what you're describing, yes. It sounds like she's trying to push up on you without appearing desperate or bold. Some men don't care about a woman having a husband. So she's testing you to see if you'll bite and see if you don't mind the spouse. If a woman is always in your face and especially touching on you, she sounds interested to me. Watch her interaction with other men and see if there's a difference. Is she always flirtatious with other men or just you?
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Yeah she speaks to me even when she’s really too far away to be speaking to someone

Someone gave me a bottle of wine for a Christmas present once, and she saw it on my desk

and immediatly started asking questions

And I said “yeah I’ll sit back and relax this weekend with it”

She goes “why wait till the weekend, where do you live we can drink it this evening”

I just gave a blank stare.
 
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Tony said:
Yeah she speaks to me even when she’s really too far away to be speaking to someone

Someone gave me a bottle of wine for a Christmas present once, and she saw it on my desk

and immediatly started asking questions

And I said “yeah I’ll sit back and relax this weekend with it”

She goes “why wait till the weekend, where do you live WE can drink it this evening”

I just gave a blank stare.
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Yeah, she wants her some Tonnnnnn-eeeeeeee! :lol:
 
Tony said:
That’s what I figured,
But she brags on her husband alot, so I’m like
Why don’t she drink wine with him,
And not worry bout what I’m doing?
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Why don't you tell/ask her these same questions? I know I would, unless you just like the attention.
 
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