Now...about your last seious relationship


Legend :bow: outstanding :nod2:

that's how it is.....the relationship was doomed from the beginning...why even waste time talking about what he could've been when it was never going to work anyway?
 



Legend35 said:
:topic: Ma'am,
That's why I quit while I was behind. To re-emphasize a statement Suge said earlier. You knew he was smoking weed when you first met him as well as other things you probably didn't agree with. Yet,... you got caught up into a relationship anyway thinking that perhaps you could change a grown man.
For the young man with a good heart and head on his shoulders,.... with a well rounded upbringing,....that's not out in the streets drawing a lot of attention at a hole in a wall,....he's looked over for being boring a.k.a. NERDY. He tries to treat these type of women like a gentlemen would,...with respect and honor. These women consider such acts as weakness. He opens doors for (them) like a fool and he doesn't even get some level of acknowledgement for doing so. These women would rather get their name and honor trashed in the streets and talking about he loves them!!! Some loves to be refered to with a four letter word!!! :vomit:!!! Some want to get what's left of those loose screws in their head beat out of them because that's how a so-called true love shows his love for that stupid girl!!!!! :vomit: :angry: :angry: :angry: What a sick world!!!! It's only years later that (those type of crazy, materialistic and self centered) women realized what they have passed up. They have now reaped the benifits of being dogged by a dog and a good man wouldn't even give them the time of day. (leftovers) Good things do come to those who faithfully wait. Sorry for once again changing the subject but, this is one issue that erks me to the extreme.
To try to get back on your subject,.....
Gettin' back with an ex????
No Way In Hail!!!!
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Let me first say this...NO I DID NOT know that he smoked weed when we first met. No where did I say that in my post. Another thing...when I did find out, along with the cheating, (because he didn't do it around me)...it was OVA. The relationship ended...and he didn't get any second chances. I didn't try to change that grown man because I didn't have the time. My upbringing didn't teach me to accept anything less.

For those good guys with good hearts that might be considered a nerb...guess what. I married a good man with a good heart and book worm that doesn't go around calling women anything less then a lady. I can't speak for other women, but I for one along with the circle that I travel in don't go for those wanna be thug types. Call me or mine a biotch and that will be one well whupped azz. :lol:

The subject was what would it take...NOT about actually going back. Heyul naw I wouldn't go back to him either. I started this thread becuase it has been dead on this forum and I was simply tryna get some dialog going up in this camp...but I see that folks don't wanna talk. The same dead topics have been floating on this page for 2 weeks now.
 
:wavey: I hear what you are saying and I'm sure things will pick up in the Fall. Thanks for the clarification :)
 
Legend35 said:
:wavey: I hear what you are saying and I'm sure things will pick up in the Fall. Thanks for the clarification :)
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No problem. I was enjoying the lil bit of dialog that was going on. Maybe I need to start an actual **** stirring thread to raise the dead around here. :lol:

How about..."White women...why my brovas lub dem so much?"
"I am a white woman, trapped in this black skin."

:ebrow: :ebrow: :ebrow:
 
:lmao: YEAH!!!!! I would have a lot to say on that. That will really raise the dead. I'm sure some of the sisters on this board will really have a mouth full for me. :eek:
 
Legend35 said:
:lmao: YEAH!!!!! I would have a lot to say on that. That will really raise the dead. I'm sure some of the sisters on this board will really have a mouth full for me. :eek:
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Hmmm, drama filled Friday. I like that. nothing like a good ol fight to get the weekend started. :lol:
 
amethyst08 said:
Before the one you're in now, if applicable. What would it take for you to get back with that person?Sex I can't deny and a reversal of the characteristic that angered me in the first place.....CONTROL. Who'd have to change, you or them?Maybe both of us. My trust factor for women is ZILCH on my side. Even in the relationship I'm in right now. What would have to change?She'd have to realize that being with me doesn't mean she's my mother and I'm back to being 3 years old. She'd also have to not fall in "love" in 3 weeks and start talking about marriage. That's too clingy. Let's do things we should be doing to get to kow each other past a couple of kisses and some good dates, geez. Don't punk out and say, "Nothing would ever make me go back to that muthafuzucka blah blah blah..." Yeah, yeah, we know. Just answer the question, aight? Even if it's something wildly hypothetical that you KNOW would never happen, throw it out there anyway.

Okay...go! :dizzy:

I'll do mine in a minute. :hat:
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:mad:
 
Dang lilC,
She was ret to get murred after only 3 weeks? WTF was the hurry..were you gonna self distruct or something? :goof:
 
amethyst08 said:
Dang lilC,
She was ret to get murred after only 3 weeks? WTF was the hurry..were you gonna self distruct or something? :goof:
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I don't know what it was. But when I said it was over because she was young and I felt she was moving too fast, she told me flat OUT "It's NOT OVER. YOU'LL SEE. IT WON'T AND CAN'T END LIKE THIS AND IT WON'T. JUST WATCH "LILc", I AM YOURS AND THIS IS HOW WE'RE GOING TO BE"

Scared the boojoosus outta me. I had a HUGE beer after that was over.
 
lilC said:
I don't know what it was. But when I said it was over because she was young and I felt she was moving too fast, she told me flat OUT "It's NOT OVER. YOU'LL SEE. IT WON'T AND CAN'T END LIKE THIS AND IT WON'T. JUST WATCH "LILc", I AM YOURS AND THIS IS HOW WE'RE GOING TO BE"

Scared the boojoosus outta me. I had a HUGE beer after that was over.
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Are you sure you are not Micheal Douglas? :lol: Dayum lilC...you must have given her the BIG D to good. :lol:

...let me stop. Hope I didn't offend you. :infect:
 
He would have to be more considerate, take spending time with me more seriously and give me equal time to PlayStation...pm me for more details. :shame:
 
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