Now...about your last seious relationship


amethyst08

amethyst08

Pretty Girl W/20 Pearls
Before the one you're in now, if applicable. What would it take for you to get back with that person? Who'd have to change, you or them? What would have to change? Don't punk out and say, "Nothing would ever make me go back to that muthafuzucka blah blah blah..." Yeah, yeah, we know. Just answer the question, aight? Even if it's something wildly hypothetical that you KNOW would never happen, throw it out there anyway.

Okay...go! :dizzy:

I'll do mine in a minute. :hat:
 
That azzhole would have to die and be born all over again and one minor detail of his life change so that the course of his life will change and make him a differant person. :rolleyes:

Seriously...he would have to stop smoking weed. He'd have become more socialable. He'd have to turn release the death grip he has on his TV remote control and get out more. He'd have to change his boring wardrobe. Jeans don't go with everything. :rolleyes:
 



jag4life said:
So basically all he really needs to do is stop smoking weed...everything else you listed is trivial.
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It's not trivial...that kinda stuff can really be damaging to a relationship if the person isn't willing to change. There is some more stuff about him that he would need to change...I just didn't list them. he would also need to stop cheating. :(
 
amethyst08 said:
It's not trivial...that kinda stuff can really be damaging to a relationship if the person isn't willing to change. There is some more stuff about him that he would need to change...I just didn't list them. he would also need to stop cheating. :(
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Well how could you forget that??? LOL
 
I don't usually make it a practice of going back to lost loves...there's a reason, they're an ex....so, by saying all that, I DGAF if they change or not, because I'm no longer interested. They may be good for certain things, but relationships ain't one of em...LOL
 
SU's Finest '93 said:
I don't usually make it a practice of going back to lost loves...there's a reason, they're an ex....so, by saying all that, I DGAF if they change or not, because I'm no longer interested. They may be good for certain things, but relationships ain't one of em...LOL
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I am not asking if they change...I was asking what would it take. Come on...play right. :lol:
 
Realistically, there is absolutely nothing my last ex could do. I've moved on with my life.

But to entertain the question, he would have to grow up, stop procrastinating (sp?) in his education/career, stop being selfish and be sensitive to my feelings, wants and needs.
That's a lot! And I can't see him making that much of a change at all. But God bless the next woman...
 
On the grounds it may incriminate me, I will remain silent. My tires have been losing air lately and I can't find a leak.
 
CriTAUcal said:
Realistically, there is absolutely nothing my last ex could do. I've moved on with my life.

But to entertain the question, he would have to grow up, stop procrastinating (sp?) in his education/career, stop being selfish and be sensitive to my feelings, wants and needs.
That's a lot! And I can't see him making that much of a change at all. But God bless the next woman...
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Realistically, my ex doesn't have a snowballs chance the firey pit of the back 40 of hell of ever coming back...even if I were single and hornier then an 12th grader at the senior prom at the homecoming dance. :lol:
 
amethyst08 said:
That azzhole would have to die and be born all over again and one minor detail of his life change so that the course of his life will change and make him a differant person. :rolleyes:
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:lmao: Because they are already grown and you can't raise them over again.
 



BluPearl98 said:
Sorry, No one gets a second chance to fcuk over me or break my heart...
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WORD!!! I co-sign!!!! I don't take prisoners!!! You launch a sneak attack on me,.....I'd wipe out your whole country!!!!! I don't play!!!!
 
It would take divine intervention to make me go back to any of my exes. I never understood the "ex" phenomenon because whatever broke the couple up to begin with is bound to resurface sooner or later(even if they claim to have "changed" whatever it was).
 
amethyst08 said:
Seriously...he would have to stop smoking weed.
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damn, he receives a chance with you even though he's getting high.....that wasn't a warning sign it might not work out?

good brothas get scrutinized for minor things and this brotha gets a woman while getting high...amazing..simply amazing..
 
I'm with you BF. When I hear women talk about what some dude should have or could have done better, it always appears to be something that they knew he did when they started out, well before they got caught up in the relationship. I mean I know we have all been duped a time or two. Somebody hid something from us for a while, but many of the complaints are issues that were readily viewable when you met that person. But I digress.......women will never admit to their faults in the realtionship.
 
the band fan said:
damn, he receives a chance with you even though he's getting high.....that wasn't a warning sign it might not work out?

good brothas get scrutinized for minor things and this brotha gets a woman while getting high...amazing..simply amazing..
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WTF are you talking about? Where in this topic are good bruthas getting scrutinized?? :slap: Besides...exes are exes for a reason...and that was one of the reasons. Let's not turn this thread into a "Good brotha's don't get no break" pity party...because we can say the same thing about good women too.

The question was...What would it take for you to get back with that person? Who'd have to change, you or them? What would have to change?
 
Suge said:
I'm with you BF. When I hear women talk about what some dude should have or could have done better, it always appears to be something that they knew he did when they started out, well before they got caught up in the relationship. I mean I know we have all been duped a time or two. Somebody hid something from us for a while, but many of the complaints are issues that were readily viewable when you met that person. But I digress.......women will never admit to their faults in the realtionship.
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And here you go...Why are y'all tryna make this thread into something it is not? The question was asked, Who'd have to change, you or them? Now if folks decide they don't want to be truthful about their part in the bad relationship...that is on them. I for one can honsetly say that any man from my past can say that they had a good woman in me...and my husband will tell anybody that right now.
 
amethyst08 said:
WTF are you talking about? Where in this topic are good bruthas getting scrutinized?? :slap: Besides...exes are exes for a reason...and that was one of the reasons. Let's not turn this thread into a "Good brotha's don't get no break" pity party...because we can say the same thing about good women too.

The question was...What would it take for you to get back with that person? Who'd have to change, you or them? What would have to change?
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MY MY MY,,,,,,You know,...I could go somewhere with this "Good brotha's don't get no break" but, I guess I won't. I don't understand at times why yall (some of you woman) go for the guys that are known dogs with a well known doggish reputation....... :topic: I'm through
 
Legend35 said:
MY MY MY,,,,,,You know,...I could go somewhere with this "Good brotha's don't get no break" but, I guess I won't. I don't understand at times why yall (some of you woman) go for the guys that are known dogs with a well known doggish reputation....... :topic: I'm through
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I hear this all the time and it must be true.
 
Reading is fundamental people...I guess my intial post went unread. Y'all this this was not intended to be about good brotha/bad brotha. It is about past a past relationship.
 
:topic: Ma'am,
That's why I quit while I was behind. To re-emphasize a statement Suge said earlier. You knew he was smoking weed when you first met him as well as other things you probably didn't agree with. Yet,... you got caught up into a relationship anyway thinking that perhaps you could change a grown man.
For the young man with a good heart and head on his shoulders,.... with a well rounded upbringing,....that's not out in the streets drawing a lot of attention at a hole in a wall,....he's looked over for being boring a.k.a. NERDY. He tries to treat these type of women like a gentlemen would,...with respect and honor. These women consider such acts as weakness. He opens doors for (them) like a fool and he doesn't even get some level of acknowledgement for doing so. These women would rather get their name and honor trashed in the streets and talking about he loves them!!! Some loves to be refered to with a four letter word!!! :vomit:!!! Some want to get what's left of those loose screws in their head beat out of them because that's how a so-called true love shows his love for that stupid girl!!!!! :vomit: :angry: :angry: :angry: What a sick world!!!! It's only years later that (those type of crazy, materialistic and self centered) women realized what they have passed up. They have now reaped the benifits of being dogged by a dog and a good man wouldn't even give them the time of day. (leftovers) Good things do come to those who faithfully wait.
amethyst08 said:
Seriously...he would have to stop smoking weed. He'd have become more socialable. He'd have to turn release the death grip he has on his TV remote control and get out more. He'd have to change his boring wardrobe. Jeans don't go with everything. :rolleyes:
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Sorry for once again changing the subject but, this is one issue that erks me to the extreme.
To try to get back on your subject,.....
Gettin' back with an ex????
No Way In Hail!!!!
 
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