Back when I was Pre-Law, I had a few female classmates who felt that they would automatically be the head of the household if they made more money than their husbands. I told them a)It doesn't work like that and b)Good luck getting married. Of course back then I had no idea that roles had shifted so much in many Black households.
Unfortunately, with this mentality also comes the advent of weak-minded men who feel that their wives have the power just because they have more education, make more money, or what have you. I have seen a lot of households where the husbands were practically "seen and not heard" and had practically no decision-making power whatsoever. With households like that out there, it makes it harder on men like us who have no problem with being the head and taking the responsibility that comes with it. Here in ATL, there are a lot of henpecked dudes as well as a lot of dudes who are sitting back letting a woman take cares of them(those marriages or relationships end up being more mother/son than husband/wife). I can't see myself sitting at home playing video games all day while my wife or girlfriends works. That is not what a man is supposed to do.
The thing is that I don't see things getting any better anytime soon.