Ex-Boyfriend is Gay!!!!
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MikeBigg
Well-Known Member
Originally posted by SexyASSJSU*ATL
And I am like dang I wonder if he was gay when we dated.
Yep! Sorry to disturb you, but you don't turn gay. It was just a matter of coming out of the closet. Let's just hope he wasn't a practicing homosexual during your time together.
It really wouldn't bother me if a female that I once dated was gay (as a matter of fact, I would be tempted to call her up to see what new stuff she had learned). But that's from the male perspective. It might be different if I was a female and an ex of mine had been cruising down Hershey Highway or DirtTrack Road. Then I would be like...YUCK!
chocalate_topaz
I wanna be your lover...
That's a myth. I myself have never had a gay male friend. I think they are all right to speak too, but hang out? Not me.
If I heard my ex was gay, Yes I would wonder if he was fooling around with men when he was with me. I can't say I would be devastated or anything unless he was engaged to me or something. AND if we were foolish and didn't have safe sex, I would get another AIDS test ASAP.
chocalate_topaz
I wanna be your lover...
Ok. I have never had a gay male friend that I know of.
At this point, when is he going to come out of the closet? He should have reached the mid-life crisis and all that other crap by now. When is he going to come out? When he needs double doses of viagra?
At this point, when is he going to come out of the closet? He should have reached the mid-life crisis and all that other crap by now. When is he going to come out? When he needs double doses of viagra?
Stormy
extradinaire d'auteur
Dirty,
Contrary to whatever you've been told,
women do not like to "date" gay men.
Some women occassionally go to the theatre
or shopping with gay friends, but only because
our men would rather watch football (I prefer
to shop with my girls and drag my man to the
theatre with me).
The notion of a ex boyfriend being gay should
scare any woman, unless she already knew. :eek2:
SexyASSJSU*ATL,
Girl I'm sorry, but remember these are rumors.
I suggest you contact this fella and find out if
you really have anything to worry about. No
sense in :bawling: over nothing.
Blue Bengal
Active Member
All those women in Atlanta, and he wants to be a fudgepacker.
I got no prob with lesbians, I like to watch them at first and then I get in the middle.
I got no prob with lesbians, I like to watch them at first and then I get in the middle.
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Makaho Bedrock
Guest
To be more specific though BB, I don't like the butch looking lesbians that wear the Flannel Shirts and Birkenstocks. I like to see the Lipstick Lesbians like Heather Hunter and Kobei Tai hooking each other up.
Lipstick Lesbians Rule !!!!!
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Quietstorm
memba2change4thabetta
gay or not always practice safe sex!!!
He could have been KREEPIN with some dirty puddin, and possibly a clean spoon, u never know. I hope for the the best in your situation jsuatl
He could have been KREEPIN with some dirty puddin, and possibly a clean spoon, u never know. I hope for the the best in your situation jsuatl
Blacknbengal
Well-Known Member
Re: Re: Re: Ex-Boyfriend is Gay!!!!
Yeah, and Rump Rangers and Humpty Dancers???? :lmao: :lmao:
Yeah, and Rump Rangers and Humpty Dancers???? :lmao: :lmao:
Taylor-Made'90
I'm 'Citrix SSO' batch!!!
Get tested anyway......It's always better to know......
As far as wondering abouth whether he was gay or not. He probably was, but that's not your concern now. So let 'im be......
Just take care of yourself. Get tested early and often.....
As far as wondering abouth whether he was gay or not. He probably was, but that's not your concern now. So let 'im be......
Just take care of yourself. Get tested early and often.....
limefree
"SIN MIEDO"
If it is an ex then thats what it is, I could care less. The only concern that I would have is if they were leading a double life style when we were together.
I knew a young lady that I had kicked it with, I tried to get at her but we never hooked up. We went off to college and when we came back for breaks we kicked it maybe once or twice.
I was looking at T.V. one day and a PSA came on about HIV/AIDS Awareness and I was like no...it was her. She said that she had a boyfriend who turned out to be bi-sexual and he infected her with HIV. There was an article in the local paper and thats where I read her story, now she is an activist.
I knew a young lady that I had kicked it with, I tried to get at her but we never hooked up. We went off to college and when we came back for breaks we kicked it maybe once or twice.
I was looking at T.V. one day and a PSA came on about HIV/AIDS Awareness and I was like no...it was her. She said that she had a boyfriend who turned out to be bi-sexual and he infected her with HIV. There was an article in the local paper and thats where I read her story, now she is an activist.
Blacknbengal
Well-Known Member
Originally posted by limefree
If it is an ex then thats what it is, I could care less. The only concern that I would have is if they were leading a double life style when we were together.
I knew a young lady that I had kicked it with, I tried to get at her but we never hooked up. We went off to college and when we came back for breaks we kicked it maybe once or twice.
I was looking at T.V. one day and a PSA came on about HIV/AIDS Awareness and I was like no...it was her. She said that she had a boyfriend who turned out to be bi-sexual and he infected her with HIV. There was an article in the local paper and thats where I read her story, now she is an activist.
Now when you say "kicked it", do you mean "kicked it" or "sexed her"?
Just axin....
It was just a matter of time before the closet door opened. Now the door is open. I will be he's happy as a fairy to be free.
I have a good friend that has been married for twelve years. She, was told several times that her "husband" was fooling around with some gay dudes that hang out on Jefferson Street. She did not believe it, until he gave her the herpies and caught sister girl coming out of this gay club, with his / her companion.
I have a good friend that has been married for twelve years. She, was told several times that her "husband" was fooling around with some gay dudes that hang out on Jefferson Street. She did not believe it, until he gave her the herpies and caught sister girl coming out of this gay club, with his / her companion.
Being married is one thing, and there's really no way around it, if you found out your spouse was gay, but HIV, & AIDS isn't just a homosexual disease. So you should be safe regardless. Get tested regularly, and use protection.
Question. If you found out your ex was gay, what would you do? What could you do? Does that person owe you anything, if you're not together? The relationship is over, and asking a question in a wrong tone, or manner, or making an assumption without hard facts, could get you hurt.
If they are gay, be glad that you're not still together, and get tested, hopefully you don't have kids with that person, because that will certainly change everything.
NICE
Question. If you found out your ex was gay, what would you do? What could you do? Does that person owe you anything, if you're not together? The relationship is over, and asking a question in a wrong tone, or manner, or making an assumption without hard facts, could get you hurt.
If they are gay, be glad that you're not still together, and get tested, hopefully you don't have kids with that person, because that will certainly change everything.
NICE
GramTigress
Kelsey's Mom
Yeah to shop with and help decorate my house. Those broads be ragging!
There are so many black men that are in the closet. Straight black women just aren't safe. All I can say is leave it in God's hands. I would be disturbed if I found out my ex is gay. At least you two aren't still together. OR you could have caught him with a dude while y'all were together! Ewwwwwww!!! Count your blessings girl!