Ever had unwanted house guests?


I can't say that I have.

People don't usually show up and stay with me unless they have cleared it in advance. :smug2:
 



No ma'am can't say that I have...I don't have folks that pop up at my home either, my freinds know better.
 
fortitude what I do is go in the back and put on some shoes and get my car keys and leave. Drive around the corner then come home. :lmao:
 
Fortitude said:
DSN: Then why even agree to let them stay? :lol:
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To be honest...I hate being mean to people. I'll just act like I have to go somewhere. Now if that MOFO say..well IMMO go with you or I'll wait until you come back. I would say I'm going to handle some personal business and it will be a while.
 
I enjoy house guests...but I prefer house guests who are most like myself...
keep it clean, keep everything in place and simply respect how I keep my place regardless of how you keep your own.
 
Dr. Sweet NUPE said:
To be honest...I hate being mean to people.
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What about out of town houseguests, you don't care for, who need a place to stay for the weekend. Would you still be nice? :fart:
 
Nope, never had any unwanted guests. People are rarely invited to our home for just visits. And so far, the only guests we have had to stay over night(s) have been immediate family.

Now I have been a guest in a home where I was ready to go. :lol:
 
Fortitude said:
What about out of town houseguests, you don't care for, who need a place to stay for the weekend. Would you still be nice? :fart:
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Man them MOFOs got to call first. If you call me the day you in town and say you need a place to stay, I go off.
 
My Aunt over in Sippi use to have a saying when you would visit her. She would say "It was nice having you, but you shole look better leaving then you do did coming". That meant you ain't gotta go home, but you gotta get the heck out of here player. :lol:
 
Some of the Bruhz used to do this.

Coming over my house unanounced. I told them to cut that mess out. I could have the kids over, my lady, committing a murder....anything.

After I cursed a few Bruhz out, they got the message.
 
CEE DOG said:
My Aunt over in Sippi use to have a saying when you would visit her. She would say "It was nice having you, but you shole look better leaving then you do did coming". That meant you ain't gotta go home, but you gotta get the heck out of here player. :lol:
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Hahahaha. My brother in Memphis has a 3-day MAX rule.
 
Pardon me for putting my personal business out there (again), but maybe this example can help someone else out in the future:

During what I can now recognize as the decline of my marriage, my ex-mother-in-law decided that she would send my ex-brother-in-law to our house for "a few days" because he was "having some problems". In a show of outright disrespect, my ex-mother-in-law and ex-wife agreed to this while I was sleeping. I was awaken with the news that my ex-brother-in-law was going to be at the train station that night.

After a couple of days out of the "few days", my ex-wife came to me and said that her mother was going to send some money so that the ex-brother-in-law could buy a vehicle so that he could get a job. I flipped and asked when did it go from "a few days" to this grown man living here rent-free without ANYONE asking the supposed man of the house (me) about it. That of course led to a lot of tension. I am sure that my ex-brother-in-law could sense it, but at that point I really didn't care.

A couple of days later, after a rough day at work and a long commute home, I walked in to door to once again find my ex-brother-in-law laying in the living room in front of the television. After stepping over him and looking into the kitchen, I noticed that the trashcan was full and the dishes were piled up. That was the final straw. In true Lance Bilbrew fashion, I stepped back over my ex-brother-in-law, walked outside, called my ex-wife on my cell and said (exact quote, excuse the language), "You mean to tell me that this grown azz muthafugga can lay in the house all the day and not even take the trash out?!". Her response was, "Well, he would take the trash out if you asked him to". My attitude was that I should have had to ask him since he was in the house all day with nowhere to go and nothing better to do, especially since he was eating our food and using our utilities without pitching in a dime. After she and her brother talked, he started doing chores around the house (mowing the lawn, cleaning up, etc.). The way that he saw it, he felt like he was doing the stuff that I was supposed to be doing and that I was getting off scott-free. The way that I saw it, he needed to be doing SOMETHING since he was laying up in the house all day while his sister and I were at work, aside from the fact that I never actually agreed for him to be there in the first place. He was on another train back to his mother's house that weekend.

The next time that I saw him he didn't have much to say to me, but I honestly did not care.
 



CriTAUcal said:
Hahahaha. My brother in Memphis has a 3-day MAX rule.
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"Houseguest are like FISH, after three days you have to throw them out" - Chinese proverbs
 
BILBREW said:
Pardon me for putting my personal business out there (again), but maybe this example can help someone else out in the future:

During what I can now recognize as the decline of my marriage, my ex-mother-in-law decided that she would send my ex-brother-in-law to our house for "a few days" because he was "having some problems". In a show of outright disrespect, my ex-mother-in-law and ex-wife agreed to this while I was sleeping. I was awaken with the news that my ex-brother-in-law was going to be at the train station that night.

After a couple of days out of the "few days", my ex-wife came to me and said that her mother was going to send some money so that the ex-brother-in-law could buy a vehicle so that he could get a job. I flipped and asked when did it go from "a few days" to this grown man living here rent-free without ANYONE asking the supposed man of the house (me) about it. That of course led to a lot of tension. I am sure that my ex-brother-in-law could sense it, but at that point I really didn't care.

A couple of days later, after a rough day at work and a long commute home, I walked in to door to once again find my ex-brother-in-law laying in the living room in front of the television. After stepping over him and looking into the kitchen, I noticed that the trashcan was full and the dishes were piled up. That was the final straw. In true Lance Bilbrew fashion, I stepped back over my ex-brother-in-law, walked outside, called my ex-wife on my cell and said (exact quote, excuse the language), "You mean to tell me that this grown azz muthafugga can lay in the house all the day and not even take the trash out?!". Her response was, "Well, he would take the trash out if you asked him to". My attitude was that I should have had to ask him since he was in the house all day with nowhere to go and nothing better to do, especially since he was eating our food and using our utilities without pitching in a dime. After she and her brother talked, he started doing chores around the house (mowing the lawn, cleaning up, etc.). The way that he saw it, he felt like he was doing the stuff that I was supposed to be doing and that I was getting off scott-free. The way that I saw it, he needed to be doing SOMETHING since he was laying up in the house all day while his sister and I were at work, aside from the fact that I never actually agreed for him to be there in the first place. He was on another train back to his mother's house that weekend.

The next time that I saw him he didn't have much to say to me, but I honestly did not care.
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wow, so glad you got out of that situation....I'm sure that story's only the 1/2 of it. :lol:
 
I used to have 2bd/2ba apartments which meant that whenever someone was going through something or visited Atlanta they would ask to stay with me. Generally I don't mind having houseguests so that's no problem. Well my last houseguest turned into needing a place to stay for a couple of weeks to staying for 4 months. I think it took a toll on our friendship because she had cats (I can't stand cats). Then she would come and do the laundry for her man and his 2 kids. I just felt like I couldn't be comfortable in my own home. She finally left and then I immediately moved into a 1 bdrm apt. If people want to visit me now I let them know they can have the couch or futon. That cuts down on extended stays.
 
BILBREW said:
Pardon me for putting my personal business out there (again), but maybe this example can help someone else out in the future:

During what I can now recognize as the decline of my marriage, my ex-mother-in-law decided that she would send my ex-brother-in-law to our house for "a few days" because he was "having some problems". In a show of outright disrespect, my ex-mother-in-law and ex-wife agreed to this while I was sleeping. I was awaken with the news that my ex-brother-in-law was going to be at the train station that night.

After a couple of days out of the "few days", my ex-wife came to me and said that her mother was going to send some money so that the ex-brother-in-law could buy a vehicle so that he could get a job. I flipped and asked when did it go from "a few days" to this grown man living here rent-free without ANYONE asking the supposed man of the house (me) about it. That of course led to a lot of tension. I am sure that my ex-brother-in-law could sense it, but at that point I really didn't care.

A couple of days later, after a rough day at work and a long commute home, I walked in to door to once again find my ex-brother-in-law laying in the living room in front of the television. After stepping over him and looking into the kitchen, I noticed that the trashcan was full and the dishes were piled up. That was the final straw. In true Lance Bilbrew fashion, I stepped back over my ex-brother-in-law, walked outside, called my ex-wife on my cell and said (exact quote, excuse the language), "You mean to tell me that this grown azz muthafugga can lay in the house all the day and not even take the trash out?!". Her response was, "Well, he would take the trash out if you asked him to". My attitude was that I should have had to ask him since he was in the house all day with nowhere to go and nothing better to do, especially since he was eating our food and using our utilities without pitching in a dime. After she and her brother talked, he started doing chores around the house (mowing the lawn, cleaning up, etc.). The way that he saw it, he felt like he was doing the stuff that I was supposed to be doing and that I was getting off scott-free. The way that I saw it, he needed to be doing SOMETHING since he was laying up in the house all day while his sister and I were at work, aside from the fact that I never actually agreed for him to be there in the first place. He was on another train back to his mother's house that weekend.

The next time that I saw him he didn't have much to say to me, but I honestly did not care.
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Fugg that Ni99a. You did the right thing.
Tell him to get his own sh&t and he can do whatever he wants then.
 
BILBREW said:
Pardon me for putting my personal business out there (again), but maybe this example can help someone else out in the future:

During what I can now recognize as the decline of my marriage, my ex-mother-in-law decided that she would send my ex-brother-in-law to our house for "a few days" because he was "having some problems". In a show of outright disrespect, my ex-mother-in-law and ex-wife agreed to this while I was sleeping. I was awaken with the news that my ex-brother-in-law was going to be at the train station that night.

After a couple of days out of the "few days", my ex-wife came to me and said that her mother was going to send some money so that the ex-brother-in-law could buy a vehicle so that he could get a job. I flipped and asked when did it go from "a few days" to this grown man living here rent-free without ANYONE asking the supposed man of the house (me) about it. That of course led to a lot of tension. I am sure that my ex-brother-in-law could sense it, but at that point I really didn't care.

A couple of days later, after a rough day at work and a long commute home, I walked in to door to once again find my ex-brother-in-law laying in the living room in front of the television. After stepping over him and looking into the kitchen, I noticed that the trashcan was full and the dishes were piled up. That was the final straw. In true Lance Bilbrew fashion, I stepped back over my ex-brother-in-law, walked outside, called my ex-wife on my cell and said (exact quote, excuse the language), "You mean to tell me that this grown azz muthafugga can lay in the house all the day and not even take the trash out?!". Her response was, "Well, he would take the trash out if you asked him to". My attitude was that I should have had to ask him since he was in the house all day with nowhere to go and nothing better to do, especially since he was eating our food and using our utilities without pitching in a dime. After she and her brother talked, he started doing chores around the house (mowing the lawn, cleaning up, etc.). The way that he saw it, he felt like he was doing the stuff that I was supposed to be doing and that I was getting off scott-free. The way that I saw it, he needed to be doing SOMETHING since he was laying up in the house all day while his sister and I were at work, aside from the fact that I never actually agreed for him to be there in the first place. He was on another train back to his mother's house that weekend.

The next time that I saw him he didn't have much to say to me, but I honestly did not care.
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DANG!!!! That's so foul all the way around. Foul that your wife didn't ASK and respect you as man of the house. And foul of the mother and sister to be trying to enable a GROWN man. And trifling that the brother didn't do anything around the house, until he was asked. :smh:
 
Shamocha said:
I used to have 2bd/2ba apartments which meant that whenever someone was going through something or visited Atlanta they would ask to stay with me. Generally I don't mind having houseguests so that's no problem. Well my last houseguest turned into needing a place to stay for a couple of weeks to staying for 4 months. I think it took a toll on our friendship because she had cats (I can't stand cats). Then she would come and do the laundry for her man and his 2 kids. I just felt like I couldn't be comfortable in my own home. She finally left and then I immediately moved into a 1 bdrm apt. If people want to visit me now I let them know they can have the couch or futon. That cuts down on extended stays.
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That's exactly what I'm buying for my guest room...a futon. Don't want anyone getting too comfortable. :emlaugh:
 
CriTAUcal said:
Why didn't she just stay with him?
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That's how she ended up with me in the 1st place. She was about to move in with him (which I knew was a mistake but I kept my mouth shut). 2 days before she was supposed to move he told her that they shouldn't live together. So she moved in with me and then proceeded to do his grocery shopping and cooking (out of her money) and his laundry. I wouldn't have minded once or twice but shoot they had way more laundry than me.
 
Shamocha said:
That's how she ended up with me in the 1st place. She was about to move in with him (which I knew was a mistake but I kept my mouth shut). 2 days before she was supposed to move he told her that they shouldn't live together. So she moved in with me and then proceeded to do his grocery shopping and cooking (out of her money) and his laundry. I wouldn't have minded once or twice but shoot they had way more laundry than me.
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He had that SVENGALI on her head.


Lotaya Luckett send help.
 
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