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chocalate_topaz

chocalate_topaz

I wanna be your lover...
On the show Queen Sugar, dude is a pro baller who tells this hooker that he had her on his payroll and paid her to do things his wife wouldn't do.

Now, BF says he understands. It's rare for a man to want to do all the freaky things he loves with his wife. He got the wife on a pedestal and the others for "using." And if he gets to the point where he does everything he desires, he gets jealous, mean cause then he gets to wondering about who else she did this with before or if he imagines her stepping out on him, what all she Isn't doing with that dude.

Truth or BS?
 
I call that bullshit!!!!

Look 100% these men who are cheating is for sex. These lame ass folks marry a choir girl who will look good on their arm but won't set the bed room out. Whatever....the problem is these guys were not honest with their woman up front. !00% of the women in the world are freaky. PERIOD. You just have to be the right person to bring out that freaky side.
 
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Half truth/Half BS..

I don't think dude would get jealous if she does all that. Its just with life and maintaining a family/HH, sometimes spouse ain't got all the energy to do that plus sex with the spouse has an emotional component... A mad spouse might not respond immediately to a request.

With the hooker, its just sex and be gone.
 
jsupop33 said:
Half truth/Half BS..

I don't think dude would get jealous if she does all that. Its just with life and maintaining a family/HH, sometimes spouse ain't got all the energy to do that plus sex with the spouse has an emotional component... A mad spouse might not respond immediately to a request.

With the hooker, its just sex and be gone.
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Pops see my problem with all that is some men ain't sense enough to ask their woman for what they want. Also, some men ain't got sense enough to treat their lady right. Shit, I'm opening the door for my lady...we go out to eat I pull the chair back for her. When other women see that and she notices that it is an instant turn on. I hate hearing these cats talking about they running this or they running that....or they screwing side chicks. they screwing side chicks because they coming home smellling like other hoes puddin.
 
On the show, the hooker caught feelings--he'd been paying her for 3 years--BUT after a game, when he needed to leave because his kid got sick, he "gave" her to his teammates to use. She was FURIOUS, said she thought she was "his girl"....

Now, I think dudes don't ask for what they want...AND, will stifle a woman that says what she wants when it's beyond his capacity to perform or he doesn't agree or is having a hard time processing her wants...
 
The problem is most men can't handle the truth. This is why good girls get them at least one thug or fantasize about the bad boy in bed. CT these dudes weak believe me. These are the dudes at 40 asking their wives is he the biggest or best she ever had. Lol These are the grown men who wanna fight a dude who dated their wife when she was 20 and now 45. Lol Believe me it's a lot of them weak dudes. These are the ones who kill themselves if she leaves them. Lol these are also the same dudes who always looking at someone else wife and flirting but will kill his self if he knew folks was flirting with his wife.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
On the show, the hooker caught feelings--he'd been paying her for 3 years--BUT after a game, when he needed to leave because his kid got sick, he "gave" her to his teammates to use. She was FURIOUS, said she thought she was "his girl"....

Now, I think dudes don't ask for what they want...AND, will stifle a woman that says what she wants when it's beyond his capacity to perform or he doesn't agree or is having a hard time processing her wants...
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3 years. damn homie
 
It's half truth half bs. True enough you can have your woman to be the freaky lil thing you want but can she do that freaky lil thing well? That's where the hooker action comes into play with these cats. That hooker knows just how to do that freaky thing without instructions and she does it WELL.

Now guys can bs themselves about their woman this and their woman that but being real with everything means knowing that you may have picked that woman that wasn't the top one in your life in the bedroom department. She satisfied that intellectual side as well as that bedroom side of your life. Now that chick that fulfilled that bedroom had one or two things missing on her resume and it caused her not to be with him now. Now I'm not saying you can't find both in one package but it damn sure isn't easy.

Now CT some guys can ask what they want but their female will look at them with the side eye. And that also go the other way where a female can be ready to do anything for her man and he look at her with the side eye when it's brought up. I feel it truly depend on the couple period. If you go years and wanna try something one person in the other in the relationship will look like "where did you get this from?"
 
goodolebrave said:
It's half truth half bs. True enough you can have your woman to be the freaky lil thing you want but can she do that freaky lil thing well? That's where the hooker action comes into play with these cats. That hooker knows just how to do that freaky thing without instructions and she does it WELL.

Now guys can bs themselves about their woman this and their woman that but being real with everything means knowing that you may have picked that woman that wasn't the top one in your life in the bedroom department. She satisfied that intellectual side as well as that bedroom side of your life. Now that chick that fulfilled that bedroom had one or two things missing on her resume and it caused her not to be with him now. Now I'm not saying you can't find both in one package but it damn sure isn't easy.

Now CT some guys can ask what they want but their female will look at them with the side eye. And that also go the other way where a female can be ready to do anything for her man and he look at her with the side eye when it's brought up. I feel it truly depend on the couple period. If you go years and wanna try something one person in the other in the relationship will look like "where did you get this from?"
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Man it's easy to find the full package....dudes just have to open their mouth and ask.

Just say this...."Look baby you ever had yo pu$$y ate." If she bust out laughing you found a winner. If she get all in her feelings leave her alone.
 
The Founder said:
Man it's easy to find the full package....dudes just have to open their mouth and ask.

Just say this...."Look baby you ever had yo pu$$y ate." If she bust out laughing you found a winner. If she get all in her feelings leave her alone.
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Founder, don't you get in here bsing. You know good and well it's hard to find that total package. Are you not about to get married next year? And I'm not throwing shade but I'm pointing out if it was easy you would already be married by now.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
On the show Queen Sugar, dude is a pro baller who tells this hooker that he had her on his payroll and paid her to do things his wife wouldn't do.
Now, BF says he understands. It's rare for a man to want to do all the freaky things he loves with his wife. He got the wife on a pedestal and the others for "using." And if he gets to the point where she does everything he desires, he gets jealous, mean cause then he gets to wondering about who else she did this with before or if he imagines her stepping out on him, what all she Isn't doing with that dude.
Truth or BS?
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The Founder said:
I call that bullshit!!!!
Look 100% these men who are cheating is for sex. These lame ass ****** marry a choir girl who will look good on their arm but won't set the bed room out. Whatever....the problem is these ****** were not honest with their woman up front. !00% of the women in the world are freaky. PERIOD. You just have to be the right ****** to bring out that freaky side.
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CEE DOG said:
The problem is most men can't handle the truth. This is why good girls get them at least one thug or fantasize about the bad boy in bed. CT these dudes weak believe me. These are the dudes at 40 asking their wives is he the biggest or best she ever had. Lol These are the grown men who wanna fight a dude who dated their wife when she was 20 and now 45. Lol Believe me it's a lot of them weak dudes. These are the ones who kill themselves if she leaves them. Lol these are also the same dudes who always looking at someone else wife and flirting but will kill his self if he knew folks was flirting with his wife.
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First this why I hate shows like this, it puts out info that may be a culmination of ideas as opposed to real facts.
We want a woman to do all the nasty stuff, but don't want our mates to do it, because our egos can't handle it? I agree with Founder, I'm calling BS. Some men are are just confused and confusing. If a guy is thinking about whether or not his woman had done this with someone else, then why wouldn't he think that his woman is wondering the same thing about him, I guarantee she is asking herself the question, why does he only like vanilla sex, and if he is being freaky somewhere else.
People need to just be upfront and honest about their needs and desires and go have fun. If you want to spank, bite, swing from the chandelier then mention it. If you use all the whips and leather, or if you're into B&D then you might want to get the person a bit first.
 
Any dude thinking his old lady will be the same at 30 vs 40 is a fool. Lol After 10 years they change. Just keep telling yourself that lie okay........ Lol
 



CEE DOG said:
You can never have a wife and a girlfriend. You can have a wife and a broad you hit quarterly. The problem is if you hit it more than three times someone is catching feelings.
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Hell to the naw. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quarterly. That would also involve no kissing.
 
Personally, I think men are foolish to think like this. Women can be talked into most things...if you know how to "encourage" us. So, stop telling us how you plan to hurt us and take us to Heaven...no, I don't want you to break my back, or phugg until I need depends diapers....or pull my hair until my neck snaps...NO! None of the gets me ready...get you some new euphemisms..some lusty POSITIVE euphemism that don't include calling us a bytch...Hell, we like doing for our dudes...but not Freddie Kruger. Sheesh!
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Personally, I think men are foolish to think like this. Women can be talked into most things...if you know how to "encourage" us. So, stop telling us how you plan to hurt us and take us to Heaven...no, I don't want you to break my back, or phugg until I need depends diapers....or pull my hair until my neck snaps...NO! None of the gets me ready...get you some new euphemisms..some lusty POSITIVE euphemism that don't include calling us a bytch...Hell, we like doing for our dudes...but not Freddie Kruger. Sheesh!
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This kind of shocking. I thought you was into that shit ct lol
 
Seriously I hope none of yall ain't out here kissing your side piece in the mouth. Oh hell nto the nall.
 
goodolebrave said:
Founder, don't you get in here bsing. You know good and well it's hard to find that total package. Are you not about to get married next year? And I'm not throwing shade but I'm pointing out if it was easy you would already be married by now.
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LOL....all BS aside I still thinks it's easy finding the total package. I say that because of mistakes made in all relationships up to this one. I told my fiance when I first met her that she was going to be my wife. She was like "who is this crazy MOFO...then she bust out laughing at me."

See it's that initial contact that shapes the entire relationship. You go in with laughter it creates honesty. Honesty creates a happy bedroom. A happy bedroom creates tunnel vision when it comes to other men and women. Tunnel vision creates fun. Fun leads back laughter. Thus the circle continues.
 
Tpop33 said:
First this why I hate shows like this, it puts out info that may be a culmination of ideas as opposed to real facts.
We want a woman to do all the nasty stuff, but don't want our mates to do it, because our egos can't handle it? I agree with Founder, I'm calling BS. Some men are are just confused and confusing. If a guy is thinking about whether or not his woman had done this with someone else, then why wouldn't he think that his woman is wondering the same thing about him, I guarantee she is asking herself the question, why does he only like vanilla sex, and if he is being freaky somewhere else.
People need to just be upfront and honest about their needs and desires and go have fun. If you want to spank, bite, swing from the chandelier then mention it. If you use all the whips and leather, or if you're into B&D then you might want to get the person a bit first.
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Exactly!!!!

I know a couple who likes to role play. Man they love going to different clubs and acting like they first met each other. The shit was funny the first time because he was like "look at that motherfucker." I was like "that's your wife." He said "we like to role play so she is acting like an escort tonight and I'm going to hire her to meet me at a hotel."

It first started with them in college when they were freshman, They been married 24 years.

I know another couple who are in to that fetish stuff. One of them HAD to open up to the other about it. Been married 20+ years.
 
CEE DOG said:
You can never have a wife and a girlfriend. You can have a wife and a broad you hit quarterly. The problem is if you hit it more than three times someone is catching feelings.
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Man you better be one and done. Like my daddy always told me "when a woman give you that puddin, you better have sex with her like it's last time before you go to the electric chair." LMAO!!!
 
But to answer the question, clean BS, man if you have a good mouth piece and you can get a woman to try and walk on water, but that's if your mouth piece is on point. Dude on the show just wanted to step out.

Clown ass smh

Charlie look like she'll do some nasty things, I know she'll do some nasty things on her b-day at least...Charlie is the dude's wife for those who don't watch the show. It's a good show though
 
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