Two female English teachers 'had a videotaped THREESOME with student


97JSULEGEND said:
So you guys are saying the 16 year old will dip back into younger women because it happened to him? guys been dipping back to younger women period. Usually because the girls their age think they are immature and so guys go younger. It's been that way forever. And it was worse before the laws changed...
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My high school Offensive Coordinator got 8 years for banging this cheerleader while I was in school. Everyone knew it was happening too. Personally, I didn't like young girls when I was young, after I got to college, I wouldn't even date 18 year old high school senior. I just don't understand dudes attraction to these 16 year old girls.

I overheard a dude at my gym telling another guy that he had sex with a chick he later found out was 15 and I thought about reporting him.
 



jsupop33 said:
My high school Offensive Coordinator got 8 years for banging this cheerleader while I was in school. Everyone knew it was happening too. Personally, I didn't like young girls when I was young, after I got to college, I wouldn't even date 18 year old high school senior. I just don't understand dudes attraction to these 16 year old girls.

I overheard a dude at my gym telling another guy that he had sex with a chick he later found out was 15 and I thought about reporting him.
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Let's be honest here as well. I know guys who have been locked up for the following:

A dude parents moved back to THEIR home in Jonesboro, AR. The young man was not raised there he was raised in Indiana. So this young man got a scholarship to Indiana to play basketball. He would come to Jonesboro and kick it with his cousins who attended Arkansas State. Naturally he would go to college parties. He met a girl who said she was in college and started fugging her. Everytime he came to visit he would bang her out. Well come to find out the girl was under age. He got locked up. Now the girl admitted she lied to him but the judge said that is not a defense. He got 3 years and has to register as a sex offender.
 
while talking to my best friend over the phone recently just shooting the breeze, he told he was sleeping with a 28-year-old while he was in high school.

I was like, "you we're raped, son." He didn't think anything of it, then and now.

We've been so conditioned to believe that boys, can't be taken advantage of by female, especially in regards to sex, because of the notion that males are always the predators in those circumstances.

A 16-year-old boy is prey for a woman twice his age. She's using his hormones and sexual desires against him to get what she wants.

The other double standard that we don't talk about is how boys in these cases are admired by their peers and even adult men (we've read the responses in this thread), while girls are shamed, called all sorts of horrible derogatory names and ostracized by men, women and their peers.

I hate that in our society.
 
JR said:
I think we all agreed it is a double standard. And it is worldwide. Not just in the United States. Men that mess with young women will get thrown under the jail or worse. Young men having sex with an older woman is not viewed the same. Now the law is starting to be more equal with the punishment. But even they have allowed these women to be charged with less of a crime than the men.

Men run society and it's laws. So they think like they would as we have said here on this board as if they were in a 16 year old male body and would they think some woman or women could take a teenage boy against his will to have sex with them. Not saying it can't happen. But these men who sit on the bench obviously don't think so. Because the women teachers have had it much easier than the men teachers. It is the big bad man taking the innocence of a young girl mentality. No matter if the young girl has been screwing around for years. It just seems more demonstrative to society. Let's see how this plays out. I am willing to bet those teachers are not going to get much time if any at all. But if it had been reversed. The men teachers would be looking at some serious time in Angola in La. LOL.

It is the same for domestic abuse. Men will get judged much more severely than a woman when she beats a man. We all know there are some women who can whoop a man too. We have had them in our families. LOL. Again it is not right. Those teachers need to be judged just like a dude would have. As for the kid, he is probably a male hero to his peers and even some men in the community. Sex with a older woman is a rite of passage for men. Been that way forever. Again, not saying it is right. Just the way it is perceived.

Bottom line is Men who make the laws and enforce them don't want their daughters being sexed by men older or even their age. They hate the thought of it and some even have issues letting it go once their daughter is grown. Society views women should stay pure crap. So if a man violates that with a young girl, he is going to pay dearly. On the flip side. Men think it is a right of passage that their sons get them some along the way. As long as they don't take it from somebody (rape). With their daughters, they think the boy or man has done something to get it that aint right.
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JR, I understand all of what you posted, and I know that some of the male posters have agreed that this is a double standard. I guess what I was trying to understand how a lot of the male posters on here express their consent & approval when it's a young boy, but are quick to use names like "ho", "slut", "yamp", "freak", "THOT" or whatever when it's a young lady. And I guess I'm trying to understand how men think it's a rite of passage with young men (especially if it's their son) but think another young man is out to demoralize their daughter when she does it.

What if those women gave that young man AIDS or HIV or an STD? Would the same "standards"apply?


Just trying to incite some in-depth, thought-provoking convo.
 
96lioness said:
guess what I was trying to understand how a lot of the male posters on here express their consent & approval when it's a young boy, but are quick to use names like "ho", "slut", "yamp", "freak", "THOT" or whatever when it's a young lady. And I guess I'm trying to understand how men think it's a rite of passage with young men (especially if it's their son) but think another young man is out to demoralize their daughter when she does it.
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Girl are taught not pursue or desire sex, but to be surrogates to or yield to the desires of men. And if they do pursue sex, they're...well... you rattled off the list of unbecoming names.

Boys are taught to be the aggressors. They're encouraged to "holla," pursue and desire the girls and women they desire very early on. Males have to initiate these encounters if they want to build their rep, be attractive to the opposite sex, and ultimately have a family down the line.
 
jsupop33 said:
I overheard a dude at my gym telling another guy that he had sex with a chick he later found out was 15 and I thought about reporting him.
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But see that's where you can't blame the dude. Hopefully he knows to be more careful going forward... To the law, that's rape but obviously, she needs her azz whooped. Just like this 16 yo dude NEEDS more than some pats on the back.
 
So now y'all done went from this dude getting some puzzy,to aids, to jail, to mental issues. Man screw that. Did he have a good time is all we need to know?
 
Kendrick said:
We've been so conditioned to believe that boys, can't be taken advantage of by female, especially in regards to sex, because of the notion that males are always the predators in those circumstances.
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It is a double standard but, at the same time, boys and girls .. just as men and women.. are different beings and in most cases must be handled differently. What makes a girl function and what makes a boy function are totally different. Trying to treat the two situations the same is not fair. If we wanted your average 16 yo boy and your average 16 yo girl to lift 100 pounds, people would say it's unfair to the girl.

Society is society.. girls can't do the things that boys can do.. fair or not. .. AND boys shouldn't want to be doing things that girls do. I feel that even in a marriage, a wife expects things from man (we supposed to take out trash, climb on the roof, fix the car, carry her 1000 pounds of luggage).. but if you ask anything of her, they ask you if we think it's 1930? Men are men and women are women. I think women can do anything men can do but each of us have lanes and in society we all have our opinions based on WHAT we are used to. I still don't agree with women coming to church in "club clothes" but many would say that I am wrong but I have my opinion and it's based on my own beliefs and how I grew up. I think I am VERY open to all people but in most cases, there is a right and a wrong and there is right way to do things and a wrong way to do things.
 
Did he finger her and let his friends smell it? Ain't no fun if the homies can't have none...
 
Tigerpride said:
It is a double standard but, at the same time, boys and girls .. just as men and women.. are different beings and in most cases must be handled differently. What makes a girl function and what makes a boy function are totally different. Trying to treat the two situations the same is not fair. If we wanted your average 16 yo boy and your average 16 yo girl to lift 100 pounds, people would say it's unfair to the girl.

Society is society.. girls can't do the things that boys can do.. fair or not. .. AND boys shouldn't want to be doing things that girls do. I feel that even in a marriage, a wife expects things from man (we supposed to take out trash, climb on the roof, fix the car, carry her 1000 pounds of luggage).. but if you ask anything of her, they ask you if we think it's 1930? Men are men and women are women. I think women can do anything men can do but each of us have lanes and in society we all have our opinions based on WHAT we are used to. I still don't agree with women coming to church in "club clothes" but many would say that I am wrong but I have my opinion and it's based on my own beliefs and how I grew up. I think I am VERY open to all people but in most cases, there is a right and a wrong and there is right way to do things and a wrong way to do things.
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Just overthrew the cut off man.
 
Tigerpride said:
But see that's where you can't blame the dude. Hopefully he knows to be more careful going forward... To the law, that's rape but obviously, she needs her azz whooped. Just like this 16 yo dude NEEDS more than some pats on the back.
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You can't blame the dude?
 
Kendrick said:
You can't blame the dude?
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If she lied to him, I think the blame lies with her to be fair. He engaged into a relationship with someone based on false information. In the business world, that would be fraud. I do think people who lie about their age or rape should be faced with consequences.
 
Kendrick said:
Girl are taught not pursue or desire sex, but to be surrogates to or yield to the desires of men. And if they do pursue sex, they're...well... you rattled off the list of unbecoming names.

Boys are taught to be the aggressors. They're encouraged to "holla," pursue and desire the girls and women they desire very early on. Males have to initiate these encounters if they want to build their rep, be attractive to the opposite sex, and ultimately have a family down the line.
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I think encouraging men to be aggressors in life is generally a good thing. Men are meant to be the protectors and warriors of their house.
 



Let me clarify my earlier statement, if they are lying about their age and it is not visually apparent that they are lying.
 
jsupop33 said:
If she lied to him, I think the blame lies with her to be fair. He engaged into a relationship with someone based on false information. In the business world, that would be fraud. I do think people who lie about their age or rape should be faced with consequences.
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If he could be deceived into sleeping with a 15-year-old, then you gotta wonder how often has he fallen for the banana in the tailpipe regarding other things.
 
dude my 14 year old looks like she at least 16 right now...SMH She's taller than my wife, got to much behind and top...There are some 15-16 year olds that look grown. Now there are questions to ask to decode those lies but I'm married so no worries for me but some of these young girls will fool you. Its all the hormones in food.
 
Kendrick said:
If he could be deceived into sleeping with a 15-year-old, then you gotta wonder how often has he fallen for the banana in the tailpipe regarding other things.
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I didn't see her. he looked around 18-19 himself but still, a 15 year old is sick in my mind. During summer school at JSU, there would be a lot of high school girls from JPS on campus and a lot of them chicks looked mid-20's. If you didn't know they were in one of those summer programs, you would probably assume they were in college. During one of our frat parties back in summer 06, I literally kicked some young chicks out after figuring out they were in high school and had snuck in. There was nothing good going to come of their presence there.
 
Pops when I was teaching back in 97-98 I had 6th graders who looked grown. I had to sit in on the 7th and 8 graders on my off periods sometimes. Some of those girls looked like grown women then...I had a strict policy that no girls could hang around my desk. No sorting papers nothing. I did all that my self. And at the time I'm fresh out of college and 6th and 8th grade girls were hitting on me...SMH It's all wrong us guys just had dreams of the scenrio that went down but none of the teachers in our day got down like that. They were about the business of Education...
 
Tigerpride said:
It is a double standard but, at the same time, boys and girls .. just as men and women.. are different beings and in most cases must be handled differently. What makes a girl function and what makes a boy function are totally different. Trying to treat the two situations the same is not fair. If we wanted your average 16 yo boy and your average 16 yo girl to lift 100 pounds, people would say it's unfair to the girl.

Society is society.. girls can't do the things that boys can do.. fair or not. .. AND boys shouldn't want to be doing things that girls do. I feel that even in a marriage, a wife expects things from man (we supposed to take out trash, climb on the roof, fix the car, carry her 1000 pounds of luggage).. but if you ask anything of her, they ask you if we think it's 1930? Men are men and women are women. I think women can do anything men can do but each of us have lanes and in society we all have our opinions based on WHAT we are used to. I still don't agree with women coming to church in "club clothes" but many would say that I am wrong but I have my opinion and it's based on my own beliefs and how I grew up. I think I am VERY open to all people but in most cases, there is a right and a wrong and there is right way to do things and a wrong way to do things.
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And by the time the age of accountability is reached, a person knows the difference between the two. They may not act accordingly, but they know the difference. That goes for all people in any case scenario.
 
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Do any of you guys remember the move "Inkwell". Lorenz Tate was a teenage (nerd) who was trying to hookup with Jada Pinkett, who I'm guessing was around the same age, but apparently had been around the block a few times. Tate eventually found out she wasn't into him the say way, but he eventually hooked up with another married woman (A.J. Johnson) who eventually found out that her husband (Morris Chestnut) was cheating on her. A.J. felt the need to thank Tate (in a different kind of way :lol: ) for him trying to inform her that her husband was cheating on her.

Tate's dad found out at the end of the movie that his boy had finally "got him some" and he was happy as hell. :lol:

Legally, what A.J. did to Tate was rape. But Matty Rich, the person who directed the movie, called it a "coming of age" film.

I wonder of this 16-year old kid is coming of age?
 
CEE DOG said:
That's sick. Any grown man should not desire a child. A girl is not a lady until she reaches 21, but really 25. Now a boy becomes man at 16.
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:smh: This entire thread is stunning and informative on how the American mentality have shifted so bad, even the justice system of juries have been affected into believing this stuff. :smh:
 
Tigerpride said:
Kendrick we know what it is and we know what the law says. It's just that most of us would have a hard time believing that he left that house feeling used, abused, and least of all assaulted.. LOL
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Question?

These hot azz young highschool girls that have these affairs with these growm men for months or years before they get caught, do you think they feel used, abused or assaulted when they sneeking around with him, throwing those legs open every other day? Or do they just start feeling "abused" when the spotlight hit after getting caught and don't want to take any of the blame for her actions?

Just like the boy, these girls know what they doing also and ya'll know it. People always want to say girls mature faster than boys but when trouble arise, the boy is still responsible for his actions no matter what the age and the girl is gonna the blameless victim that was taken advantage of and abused no matter her age..........15 or 29.

These girls are in these highschools in Jackson wilding out in these bathrooms, supposed to be locked classrooms, and basements with multiple boys and each other on a daily basis. That is not fiction, that is fact. Just one of many examples, two girls got caught last year in the bathroom and one mother was so shocked that her daughter got caught in the bathroom with another girl, she passed out in the office. Who could she blame since a boy was not involved. There are more fights in the Jackson Public School System between girls fighting over girls than there are Boys fighting over girls. :smh:
 
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