Can a realtionship survive cheating and become stronger?


CEE DOG

CEE DOG

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Can a realtionship survive cheating and become stronger? This was the topic on Micheal Basiden a few day ago. It was some interesting views. The doctor on the show said her and her husband marriage became stronger after he cheated, and they worked to fix their marriage.
 
women take men back all the time for cheating

Most men ain't going for it,
even if he's cheated thousands of times.
if he finds out she has once it's usually over for good.
 



It's possible. I know a couple (with kids), where the husband not only cheated but had an outside child. It's been about 2 years now. They are still together, working on their marriage and dealing with the child by another woman. They did counseling. Not in their marriage, but they seems to be OK again.
 
Tony said:
women take men back all the time for cheating

Most men ain't going for it,
even if he's cheated thousands of times.
if he finds out she has once it's usually over for good.
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That is the biggest lie ever. Most men just don't tell you they take their wives or girl friends back. You will be surprise what folks deal with behind closed doors.
 
CEE DOG said:
That is the biggest lie ever. Most men just don't tell you they take their wives back.
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well they don't tell me and some don't even wanna tell themselves
knowing dang well that kid ain't theirs, talkin' bout
the kid looks like a great aunt 3 or 4 generations back :lol:

what man you know is "working on the marriage" after the woman cheated?
 
50% of folks married 20 plus years. :lol: Don't be crazy my friend. Men have been taught women are caught up in the sex when they cheat. One of a big lie. Women are actually cold hard folks when it comes to playing with a man emotions. It is the conscious that gets women in trouble. They are better cheaters and will always be. They can have a emotional affair for 20 years with another man without ever letting you know. It is when the guilt takes over she stops and can't control it. Don't be fooled, when daddy out cheating, momma mind has already moved on to Jody...
Tony said:
well they don't tell me and some don't even wanna tell themselves
knowing dang well that kid ain't theirs, talkin' bout
the kid looks like a great aunt 3 or 4 generations back :lol:

what man you know is "working on the marriage" after the woman cheated?
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I can deal with an affair to a degree. It depends on who she flucking... She fugg somebody in my circle and I am gone....Too much pride for that one... Flugging a coworker or somebody she met on her own accord and I may can deal with it.
 
jsupop33 said:
I can deal with an affair to a degree. It depends on who she flucking... She fugg somebody in my circle and I am gone....Too much pride for that one... Flugging a coworker or somebody she met on her own accord and I may can deal with it.
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what if it happened on the back seat of a honda accord
 
CEE DOG said:
50% of folks married 20 plus years. :lol: Don't be crazy my friend. Men have been taught women are caught up in the sex when they cheat. One of a big lie. Women are actually cold hard folks when it comes to playing with a man emotions. It is the conscious that gets women in trouble. They are better cheaters and will always be. They can have a emotional affair for 20 years with another man without ever letting you know. It is when the guilt takes over she stops and can't control it. Don't be fooled, when daddy out cheating, momma mind has already moved on to Jody...
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well if her mind has moved on, how come her body hasn't?
 
it was a play on the word Accord..lol..

but yeah pops don't you wanna know if his stroke was better than yours?
:lol:
 
Tony said:
well if her mind has moved on, how come her body hasn't?
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One example that I can think of ... because she has the "perfect husband". Very successful, attractive, faithful church-going guy. She has beautiful kids, house paid for, cars paid for, successful career of her own .... Everything a woman would want, right? And she's been sexing her ex-boyfriend on the side for twenty years. :noidea:

Cee is right.


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SUJagFan said:
One example that I can think of ... because she has the "perfect husband". Very successful, attractive, faithful church-going guy. She has beautiful kids, house paid for, cars paid for, successful career of her own .... Everything a woman would want, right? And she's been sexing her ex-boyfriend on the side for twenty years. :noidea:

Cee is right.


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what an evil b@tch

~Po hubby
 
Men and women cheat because they can and want to. Bottom line. Doesn't matter if the one they're in a relationship with is crossing every T and dotting every I.
 
Tony said:
what an evil b@tch

~Po hubby
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:lol:

She's not evil or a bitch at all. She's one of the nicest and kindest people I know.

Ex-boyfriend just keeps it interesting and hits it right. :noidea:


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Men and woman are not meant to be monogamous. We try to fool ourselves into thinking this is possible. This is why folks end up cheating.
 
CEE DOG said:
Men and woman are not meant to be monogamous.
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I tell people this all the time. It is not natural. Monogamy is learned behavior. It takes a strong mind and/or deep religious conviction to accomplish this. Our bodies are not designed to be monogamous.
 
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