Half of men would dump a girlfriend who gained weight survey says


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Funny thread. I don't see very many model-type bodies on women over 35. A lot of viewpoints will change in about a decade or so.
 
96lioness said:
Unless I'm wrong, Pops said in his post that some women (and men) get offended at the suggestion of hitting the gym. He DID NOT clarify it was a girlfriend, wife, significant other, f*ck buddy that he offered his suggestion to, which is why I asked him the question. I'm guessing he offered his "suggestion" to males as well as females. The point I was trying to make is why should the way he feels about letting himself go be "suggested" to someone who has a better self-esteem about themself?
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People who gain weight dont always have self esteem. I heard many folks..complain about their weight..but continue the same habits. Thats what I dont understand. If someone is happy with how they look then that is great, that is how its suppose to be But some people aren't...yet dont do enough to try to make it better.
 



PVSAX99 said:
LOL @ the thought of taking a date to the gym instead of dinner and a movie

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she coming outside with heels on...and you're like uhh where you going with those... where we going u need on some tennis shoes
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unknown1 said:
Would you prefer the dude stay with you if you gained weight.. which means 9 times out of 10 he loses his attraction to you and starts seeking the attraction that you USED to have? Because if he stays with you more than likely thats whats going to happen. People tend to forget that with men, physical attraction is more than likely what made them approach you to begin with. And yes the "love" thing should be eternal but you're fooling yourself if you believe that's enough to keep a man committed to you if the attraction is gone. That'll eventually lead to the sex life slacking off and disappearing and go downhill from there.
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If the "attraction" starts slipping and not headed for repair, he won't have to worry about our relationship. I'm more likely to drop the relationship quicker than him. Then we can both be happy. :lol:

Men are visual. Women know that. :lol: But guess what? So are WE! :nod: Yes, women are more likely to stay in the relationship, BUT it's when his behavior/treatment has NOT changed.
 
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one partner can't workout while the other just lets themselves go. That is the recipe for disaster. You getting big while your partner in the gym seeing hardbodies and stallions. Don't get me started on what I see from women and their personal trainers all the time.
 
jag4life said:
Funny thread. I don't see very many model-type bodies on women over 35. A lot of viewpoints will change in about a decade or so.
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Not mine. I am over 40 and still like women in shape. :lol: My ole lady hits the gym 5 days a week. My weight limit will be for life. :lol: I am shallow. Real shallow when it comes to my woman. Sorry, I just like what I like. :lol: Longer hair, in shape, nice butt, tall, pretty skin nice feet. Yeah, I am the shallow king. :tup: :lol:
 
jag4life said:
Funny thread. I don't see very many model-type bodies on women over 35. A lot of viewpoints will change in about a decade or so.
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1. There is a lot of middle ground between model-type and precious
2. I DO see a lot of model-type or super fit 35+ women.
 
I feel you, who wants a big dude pissing on his nuts cause he can't see his belly. :lol:
CriTAUcal said:
If the "attraction" starts slipping and not headed for repair, he won't have to worry about our relationship. I'm more likely to drop the relationship quicker than him. Then we can both be happy. :lol:

Men are visual. Women know that. :lol: But guess what? So are WE! :nod: Yes, women are more likely to stay in the relationship, BUT it's when his behavior/treatment has NOT changed.
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jsupop33 said:
Haven't seen any parts of 210 since I pledged. :lol:

However, I went from 240 to 270 and I hated the way I looked. I looked huge. I felt uncomfortable on planes and such. I am at 235 and I love it now.
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Man last time I was 210 was 2004. I'm not there yet but I trying hard to get there. I'm down three sizes in the waste and large shirts on a good day. all is right for my health sake right now..

But Women can gain weight they just don't need to get fat.....But I think its up to the man to set the tone for the family. We changed eating habbits for the entire family not just dad and we saw a difference in everyone... Eat more meals at home and what what you put in it.. Stop giving daddy the big peice of chicken. Cut them all into small portions and watch how many you eat. No seconds. Stop getting daddy two sausage biscuits..Jut get me one Chicken biscuit and fruit...

Life changes..If she gains help her get it back down..
 
I thought this was about just gaining weight? Who said anything about getting up to Precious size? It seems some folks would chunk up the deuces if a woman gained 15-20 lbs.
 
CEE DOG said:
Not mine. I am over 40 and still like women in shape. :lol: My ole lady hits the gym 5 days a week. My weight limit will be for life. :lol: I am shallow. Real shallow when it comes to my woman. Sorry, I just like what I like. :lol: Longer hair, in shape, nice butt, tall, pretty skin nice feet. Yeah, I am the shallow king. :tup: :lol:
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At least you're not in denial. And you can be a plain as you wanna be, as long as your ole lady loves it. :lol:
 
jsupop33 said:
Also,
one partner can't workout while the other just lets themselves go. That is the recipe for disaster. You getting big while your partner in the gym seeing hardbodies and stallions. Don't get me started on what I see from women and their personal trainers all the time.
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you right about that...pops...dude coming home from the gym..eating rice cakes and shat...drinking water but you see your ole lady eating cake with ice cream on top of the cake on the sofa lol talkin about am I still fine bae lmao
 



97JSULEGEND said:
Man last time I was 210 was 2004. I'm not there yet but I trying hard to get there. I'm down three sizes in the waste and large shirts on a good day. all is right for my health sake right now..

But Women can gain weight they just don't need to get fat.....But I think its up to the man to set the tone for the family. We changed eating habbits for the entire family not just dad and we saw a difference in everyone... Eat more meals at home and what what you put in it.. Stop giving daddy the big peice of chicken. Cut them all into small portions and watch how many you eat. No seconds. Stop getting daddy two sausage biscuits..Jut get me one Chicken biscuit and fruit...

Life changes..If she gains help her get it back down..
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:tup:

I was at 235 earlier this year and I'm back down to 215 (was 210 but gained this summer).
 
97JSULEGEND said:
Man last time I was 210 was 2004. I'm not there yet but I trying hard to get there. I'm down three sizes in the waste and large shirts on a good day. all is right for my health sake right now..

But Women can gain weight they just don't need to get fat.....But I think its up to the man to set the tone for the family. We changed eating habbits for the entire family not just dad and we saw a difference in everyone... Eat more meals at home and what what you put in it.. Stop giving daddy the big peice of chicken. Cut them all into small portions and watch how many you eat. No seconds. Stop getting daddy two sausage biscuits..Jut get me one Chicken biscuit and fruit...

Life changes..If she gains help her get it back down..
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Another reason I need to marry someone with a fit mindset. She can't be frying chicken and fish every other night. Eating healthy is important to me and I am going to need it to be important to her as well. My gf now gets mad when she fries something during the middle of the week and I won't eat it.
 
I still have flashbacks. When I met babygirl in November she was 6'0, 170 lbs. By March, she was 205 lbs. She didn't tell me she just came off a major diet. :lol:
 
CriTAUcal said:
At least you're not in denial. And you can be a plain as you wanna be, as long as your ole lady loves it. :lol:
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:lol: Ain't no since of telling a lie. :lol: My boys tell me all the time I get involved with same kind of women over and over. :lol: I just like what I like. :lol: Somebody gotta be pretty and carry on the good genes. :lmao:
 
lmao @ Women blaming their extra weight on "BABY FAT" when they child is 13....

My woman isn't the most slim, but that bastids in shape. She in the military, so thats expected. Hell we wrestled this weekend for bout an hour straight. Ive always liked all types of sizes, aslong as shes inshape and well distributed. Now if she just let herself go and cool with it......ain't even lookin for her no mo

annnnnd since we droppin numbers...lol Im 6'0 1/2 210lbs :D


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Now I gotta admit, I am beyond the size 4-6 woman. They too skinny for me now, not all but most of them. I use to love them, but I will take you from 4-10. A size 12 if you got a big butt. :lol: No bigger than that though. :lol: Yes, I am shallow and that 12 has to be tall, at least 5'7 or 5'8. Short women in a 12 at 5 ft is to big. :lmao:
 
jag4life said:
Funny thread. I don't see very many model-type bodies on women over 35. A lot of viewpoints will change in about a decade or so.
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Where do you live? lol... at the gym I go to there are women pushing near 50 with bodies some of these women in their 20's cant touch. Plus I think its safe to say most of us here are already near or older than 30.
 
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