Is it Safe...How Long To Wait


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Just be careful BigHead. Hell, would hate to read about you in the paper. Ditto for me, as well. Take necessary precautions, as required. :read: (for myself, as well)

I dated this one chick who was recent divorced and we saw her ex-hubby out one day and I'll be damned if he didn't join us and we had a great time together. We even took pictures together, all 3 of us. :emlaugh: To this very day, me and dude are cool like I'm a part of his family (know his mom, his 2 sisters :read: lol, and his 3 other brothers) like I'm a part of their family. He just accepted me in there, even though, @ that time, I was smashing his ex-wife. lol I came to be one of numerous of her exs that was just accepted into dude's fam. I comm w/ quite a few of her exs over the yrs and we all kinda' sorta' look out for each other, in our time of need. Odd? Yes. Does it work? Yes, for us it does. lol She's the real kingpin. Standing in the midst of ALL of us @ his family functions knowing damned well she done fvcked over 10-12 of us standing there talking to each other like we were lost brothers from birth. :emlaugh: :lmao: :bawling: :lmao:
 
Re: Is it Safe...How Long To Wait...

jag4life said:
Daiquiris in Louisiana can be stronger than margaritas. It ain't just the lil strawberry things you get in Chicago at Applebees. LOL
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Very True...On the real....I be having mines Double Shot with my Daiquris. I like a strong "Daq" so I can feel "In Da Zone!!"
 



Bighead said:
before messing with a divorcee...chick just got out of a marriage and she's feeling your persona..Is it a good idea to befriend this chick...

I'm not asking how long to wait until you smash the chick..but how long or if it's even a thought time frame before you start dealing with this chick..going over to her place...going out and kicking it with her in public...etc

She says everythings cool lol...but she tells you that her hubby was very violent with her...

Ladies how long would you wait to kick with a guy that has just came out of a divorce
Same thing...He's says he's pass his ex-wife's dealings, but he goes on to tell you how strange and crazy she was in the marriage.
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I notice how everyone's commenting on how this woman may be crazy or become crazy if you just use her to "smash". But you said this man was violent with her. And if he was violent with her, he probably used to beat her. So it sounds like he's the crazy one.

How long was she married to this man? Why was he so violent with her? Did he initiate the divorce or did she? I know it may not seem important, but if he was a violent man, he could easily be a jealous man also, and be one to think, "If I can't have her, no one can". Think about this some more; I know the idea of "smashing" seems enticing, but sometimes you have to think with your logical brain, and know when to stop trying to get some "brain".
 
Yep... Here in Louisiana there are drive-thru daq shops on every other corner and they be on and poppin'! :lol: Sex on da beach and Hard On with an extra shot :nod:

And as for the divorcee with the crazy ex..... RUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!!!
Bighead said:
Lol maybe not where yall reside

but it's plenty of daq shops in my area lol...

I guess though
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96lioness said:
I notice how everyone's commenting on how this woman may be crazy or become crazy if you just use her to "smash". But you said this man was violent with her. And if he was violent with her, he probably used to beat her. So it sounds like he's the crazy one.

How long was she married to this man? Why was he so violent with her? Did he initiate the divorce or did she? I know it may not seem important, but if he was a violent man, he could easily be a jealous man also, and be one to think, "If I can't have her, no one can". Think about this some more; I know the idea of "smashing" seems enticing, but sometimes you have to think with your logical brain, and know when to stop trying to get some "brain".
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1..I think like 3 or 4 years.. I didn't ask
2..I"m not sure why he was violent towards her...she didn't say
3..Na she initiated the divorce

Funny thing happened this weekend...watching that old show Hell Date that came on BET....and 2 scerinaros happened where the chick ex BF was stalking her and she was paranoid..Old BF showed up on her date with the new dude..and sat there...lol..the new dude tried to play it smooth and shat..dude offer a handshake to the old bf...old bf just looked at that coward lol...shat was too funny the ex was a build LB Football player type dude..shyt was too funny...I'm sitting up watching that shat...while she laying up on me and the light bulb went off..Hell that could be my ass lol...
The other scenario was the girl ex bf showed up while she was on a date with the new dude while they were shooting pool.. lol...I was like what the fuk..lol..but this dude wasn't a coward like the other dude...ex was telling the new dude "yo you trying to date my girl" lmao the new dude (who by the way was the cat that played on I love New York and that Zane Sex Chronolces show) was like mayne whatever and was about to leave until the lil devil show up and did her dance and told him that he was on Hell Date lol..
shat was mad crazy..i'm watchin all this while ole girl laying on me snoring...I told me myself..let me get my azz outta here and go home lol...haven't called her yet...
 
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Bighead said:
1..I think like 3 or 4 years.. I didn't ask
2..I"m not sure why he was violent towards her...she didn't say
3..Na she initiated the divorce

Funny thing happened this weekend...watching that old show Hell Date that came on BET....and 2 scerinaros happened where the chick ex BF was stalking her and she was paranoid..Old BF showed up on her date with the new dude..and sat there...lol..the new dude tried to play it smooth and shat..dude offer a handshake to the old bf...old bf just looked at that coward lol...shat was too funny the ex was a build LB Football player type dude..shyt was too funny...I'm sitting up watching that shat...while she laying up on me and the light bulb went off..Hell that could be my ass lol...
The other scenario was the girl ex bf showed up while she was on a date with the new dude while they were shooting pool.. lol...I was like what the fuk..lol..but this dude wasn't a coward like the other dude...ex was telling the new dude "yo you trying to date my girl" lmao the new dude (who by the way was the cat that played on I love New York and that Zane Sex Chronolces show) was like mayne whatever and was about to leave until the lil devil show up and did her dance and told him that he was on Hell Date lol..
shat was mad crazy..i'm watchin all this while ole girl laying on me snoring...I told me myself..let me get my azz outta here and go home lol...haven't called her yet...
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Oh but you will. :lol:
 
So you still ain't hit it yet? :shame: Man gone and cut it up buddy. If you don't, some other cat will.
 
Bighead, maybe she just wants to hang out and doesn't want to smash. I know if I want it, I take it. I don't have time to play the wait and see game. Time is too short for all the foolishness. :noidea:
 
kellis said:
Bighead, maybe she just wants to hang out and doesn't want to smash. I know if I want it, I take it. I don't have time to play the wait and see game. Time is too short for all the foolishness. :noidea:
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maybe...Ima hang around and see..
 
So she never even hinted that she wanted yall to smash? Nothing? If not, then perhaps it could be a psychological issue with her (seeing that her previous relationship was an abusive one). I can't tell you how long to wait. But I honestly think it would be in your best interest to do so until she is ready to make that move.

If she HAS given you the okay, then WTH you waiting for? You aren't trying to have a full blown relationship with her are you? Get what you can get while the getting's good...or she'll just go to the next one in line.
 



PVSAX99 said:
So she never even hinted that she wanted yall to smash? Nothing? If not, then perhaps it could be a psychological issue with her (seeing that her previous relationship was an abusive one). I can't tell you how long to wait. But I honestly think it would be in your best interest to do so until she is ready to make that move.

If she HAS given you the okay, then WTH you waiting for? You aren't trying to have a full blown relationship with her are you? Get what you can get while the getting's good...or she'll just go to the next one in line.
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I mean...she did let lick her neck on the 1st date soo
Na I"m not trying to have a full blown relationship
 
PVSAX99 said:
:lmao: "Vampire style" huh...

Is that all she LET you do? Or was that as far as you were willing to go?
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lmao yea big dog...
I had to let her know off top I wasn't scared of it lol

yea thats pretty much all...so far..but that was the only thing I done tried..lol
 
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