You must enjoy the attention she's giving you to some degree b/c not one time have you said that you've pointed out TO HER that she's married & should be giving her husband the compliments & suggestions she gives to you. Nope you may not want her, but you seem to enjoy the compliments. I say talk to her & let her know how you feel. Telling us will not change or make your situation easier or make her go away for that matter.
ok I'll admitt, SOMETIMES when she gives me a compliment my face turns a little red....lol...