Bartram
Brand HBCUbian
Disclaimer: disregarding the TRUELY religious, faithful in this discussion. strictly addressing society that statistically won't fall into the TRUELY religious/family values bucket.
Interesting thought there fellas,, but my question would be,,,, why do WOMEN be expected to be faithful and at the same time stress so much over all this faithful/relationship/marriage stuff???? They would save themselves a lot of heartache if they had more of a "guy" mentality when it comes to the relationship games.
As things stand though, that's typically not the case, and this is why males and females are not on the same page when it comes to relationships. While many males are steady trying to figure out ways to get all we can, many females are PROFESSING all this "faithful/virtuous" stuff,,,,,,,,,, while "taking a chance" and breaking a brotha off wit a lil-bit,, in hopes that this will be THE COUPE that gets them to this blissful medium of togetherness, relationship, marriage, monogomy and all these other concepts bantied about in our society.
As we all know and see day to day, this is not the case. Many women outwardly project the "faithful/relationship" image (while taking chances whenever they see a prospect that they feel they can/must have) while men do what we got to do, say what we got to say, to get what we want and as much as we want. Given that, INDEED, WHY SHOULD men be expected to be faithful?! IT'S A "MAN'S MARKET"! ,, but if the women ever put the shoe on the other foot,,,,,,,,,,,
More on your animal analogies later.
Interesting thought there fellas,, but my question would be,,,, why do WOMEN be expected to be faithful and at the same time stress so much over all this faithful/relationship/marriage stuff???? They would save themselves a lot of heartache if they had more of a "guy" mentality when it comes to the relationship games.
As things stand though, that's typically not the case, and this is why males and females are not on the same page when it comes to relationships. While many males are steady trying to figure out ways to get all we can, many females are PROFESSING all this "faithful/virtuous" stuff,,,,,,,,,, while "taking a chance" and breaking a brotha off wit a lil-bit,, in hopes that this will be THE COUPE that gets them to this blissful medium of togetherness, relationship, marriage, monogomy and all these other concepts bantied about in our society.
As we all know and see day to day, this is not the case. Many women outwardly project the "faithful/relationship" image (while taking chances whenever they see a prospect that they feel they can/must have) while men do what we got to do, say what we got to say, to get what we want and as much as we want. Given that, INDEED, WHY SHOULD men be expected to be faithful?! IT'S A "MAN'S MARKET"! ,, but if the women ever put the shoe on the other foot,,,,,,,,,,,
More on your animal analogies later.